Seeking Both: 35 - 75
Des Moines, Iowa
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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Looking to find something besides the "vanilla".
I'm very skilled and both being a dom and a sub, but don't have to do the BDSM to be happy. Can cross dress but make a fairly homely woman. I"m drug/disease free. I'm Mensa qualified (not a member) and very well read. I have eclectic insterests. I love the outdoors.
The person I would like to meet
I want someone highly intelligent and quick witted who loves to explore her boundaries and seeks someone to did it with. She must be discrete and adventurous.
About my work
I provide health care and teach.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I hike in the woods, camp, garden, meditate in the sun or under the stars.
My idea of a great date
Could be anywhere, but we can't stop looking at each other and can't stop talking and soon find ourselves finishing each other's sentences.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Not divorced.. in a "vanilla" relationship that's sexless and has little emotional intimacy, Financially wrapped together and would lose much of what I have to break it off. It could happen, but I have no enthusiasm for it right now.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Circling the world on a cargo ship that takes a few passengers with the right woman and in a large stateroom.
What is your academic background?
B.S. from major university.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Long float trip alone. I loved it except the alone part.
What do you find attractive in people?
Intelligence, humor, open mindedness, lack of assumptions.
What do others do that irritate you?
Say "NO PROBLEM" instead of "you're welcome". Say "presently" when they mean "now".
What do you think is your best quality?
I have the world's greatest accumulation of useless information.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I would not stumble over my words when I meet someone who is very attractive to me.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Do you like to kiss?
Describe your physique.
6'2" fairly scarred up from a life of hard knocks, balding. Legs, tush very slim... working on the abs.
What do you do well sexually?
Take time, be totally focused on my partner.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
For a woman to start by taking off my glasses, take my face in her hands and pull it down for a kiss before I can ask or even hint.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Switching roles with a beautiful woman.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I'll share that more personally and privately.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
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