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A good lover, for a monogamous relationship.
Lost husband 31 mos. ago, seeking a full to nearly FT time lover, a PT helpmate, & companion, hopefully live in. I'd make it worth your while that's for sure, as I'm affectionate, experienced, a pleaser, chatty, but not too, smile a lot, & it's a nice one, you won't be sorry. But no young fellas please. Ages from around 58 to 78, if any young 20 thru 40's don't contact me it'd waste our time. I have a great phone voice. I love making love to my entire man, from head to toe, I like to gobble him up everywhere. Hope he'd reciprocate in kind. If this sounds like something you'd like to experience, send me a holler.
The person I would like to meet
For me: He'd use beautiful love words, always. He'd be sincere, affectionate, want to take me places occasionally, want to help me, (I have arthritic knees & had a replacement Oct 15th '09) He'd want to settle down with a sexy hot affectionate lady. He'd reciprocate sexually in kind with me, no relationship lasts long one-- sided. He'd be neat, clean, casual dresser, kind, considerate, caring, non-critical, just an all around regular Joe. Hope he'd like some of my kind of music, even be nice if he played an instrument himself (piano'd be nice.). Above all, he'd be clean about his body, sex is no good otherwise, right? Hope he'd like to play Euchre, my fave card game. But poker, etc's, nice too.
About my work
Retired. Will get the lubrication injections for the other knee. Can't do much of anything, even housework is difficult, as I have back problems also. But we can meet to see how things would/could work out. I get tired of staying at home, but haven't a car, so would appreciate a treat like an excursion somewhere, I like bingo, or just whatever would come up, musicals are nice, I like the Irish stepdancers. An occasional movie. A drive. Or we even have a music hall right here in my town, just up the street & I've never even been there, only past it. I have fished, lol, just don't like wiggly worms so prefer to use bee moths. There's even a huge carousel across the river I'd like to go on, lol.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I'm mostly on the computer, mail, games, mostly word games. Read Guideposts, RD, fiction-non-fiction, other. Also shopping on TV or online. I have a varied few collection of different things, like my Charming Tails by Dean Griff, The Friar Folk, hinged boxes, & just a few Beanie Babies, love nautica & butterflies & pansies, have a pedigreed registered blue point Ragdoll (cat.) My kids/family, friends are all 800 miles away, but I try to keep in touch with them.
My idea of a great date
Movie, dinner, a drink & chat, or a drive to a nice place like an overlook or to park by the water, etc Love nautica, or bingo lol. Let's explore a lighthouse, or bridge. Or make a meal at home together, rent a movie? Several things that can be done, dining out is difficult for me as I have to watch salt strictly.
Really depends on if we actually set a date! Lol.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Because he'd been a smoker since age 17 he'd had throat cancer surgery 9 yrs ago, his epiglotis had been removed, so he was always at risk of aspiration pneumonia, it had been his 3rd hosp stay, the 1st time he'd been diagnosed with many things all treatable but it was pneumonia that took him after a 38 day battle. He was good to me, & loved me, everyone liked him.
What is your fantasy vacation?
To visit France, Scotland, Ireland, England, Canada & Germany all the places of my lineage, then tour America my "other" heritage, yes, am a bit native American also.
Or go home for a good long visit with the kids, grands & greats! I have 5 living, one dead child (at age 4,) 7 grands & about 22 greats.
What is your academic background?
I have no higher education was married at 15 the first time. But was tested in 8th grade & rated 2nd yr of college so am intelligent. Got GED in mid 40's without studying. Took home correspondence courses, learned to type on an old manual, & also studied one college course: World Lit., took business classes in Bklyn, NY. Also computer classes in Yonkers.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Home. At Christmas. With my kids, grands & greats, I loved it. Stayed with my favorite grandson. I miss them. You know the song; "Back Home Again, In Indiana", well that's where I'd like to be.
What do you find attractive in people?
Kindness & helpfulness, polite helpful children, smiles, service that goes the extra mile.
What do others do that irritate you?
Gossip. Insults. Ridicule. Rudeness. Selfishness. Preying on innocent people. Cruelty. Being inconsiderate.
What do you think is your best quality?
Well, I make a person feel at ease, I smile at them, chat just about anything, I'm open, honest & friendly. Am from a friendly state, (NY is not my home state.)
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
To let the things that irritate me about others go over my head to not let them bother me. To not feel inferior for not being knowledgable about news, etc.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Who you are in more than just a couple of words, as in location, age, I like to know a persons' sign, looks. They tell a bit about their personality by what they say & how they say it. If they have nothing to say, what's to start? Nothing. I'd prefer it if everyone who contacts me please sign their name. Age (true age,) sign, (the day on which you were born,) weight, (true weight,) what you do, & so on, if you know nothing about a guy it's like speaking with a non-entity, in a vacuum, please have a pic or send me one asap.
Describe your physique.
I am heavy. But tonight was my last dark choc candy bar, & no more chips. I have ample breasts, but they sag, as does my tummy. I'm heavier on one side at hip/thigh because of the right knee having been bad for so long, hope with all these exercises, that will be helped. I have to admit to being very soft from lack of exercise due to physical problems. Sitting at the computer, snacking, doesn't help that, perhaps the guy who chooses me will take me away from it & solve that problem, lol.
What do you do well sexually?
Most everything, the only things I don't do well, are ones I can't do, period, like physically. However since I do pleasure, I do like reciprocation?........In a nutshell, turning on a guy I like turns me on, make sense? I like trying different things, experience, that's the key, new heightened senses, keeps the relationship exciting don't you think? I had a guy once talk naughty to me during intimacy, what a turn on! Different positions, etc.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Gentleness & caresses, in the erogenous zones, those are in more places than one knows. I'd like to explore more in that area, hot wax dripped on me, etc........kissesssss, hugsssss, fondling, using of mouth, lips/tonque.......yeppir! in the crook of the elbow, the inner wrist, the waist, being very erotically caressed by his fingers in the palms, on the fingers, kisses trailed down the back, you get the idea.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I just want a great guy, is that a fantasy? I hope not! I want to try this tantric sex. And I've never truly been "in love", so would like to find that.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I've had a mfm. Might be nice again. Then again, maybe not.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
A long term would be nice. VERY nice. I'm seriously looking. Am not looking for a one nighter, do not want a married man, or any who has a significant other, or is just separated. He wants to be just with me, to hook up, for long term if it's workable, marriage is not a prerequisite. just be with me, but with regularity.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Love is a spiritual thing to me. The human body is beautiful, sex is beautiful, it is even celebrated in the bible, I. E. Song of Solomon & other verses. I love men, I show it, but please, no youngsters wanting experience or a guru. It's not what I seek. Honor my wants & wishes & don't waste my time please ty, it's very precious to me my time.Anyone in teens, 20's, 30's, 40's, forget about it, I won't answer. I want to experience love, real love, with a man of near my age, who has only time to give, himself to share, & the kindness to help me as well as love me & share bliss with me. I've been patiently waiting .......... i.
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