Seeking Women: 23 - 33
Saint Louis, Missouri
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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I'm a relaxed and easy-going guy. I am married and I love my wife and my kids. I am an at-home dad who lives for his children. I love my family very much but there is some strain in the relationship. Since our son was born my wife's sex drive has faded to nothing. Now she only gives in to me when she feels really guilty and wants me to relax a little. And then it is very basic straight-up in and out sex. She doesn't do foreplay, or touching for the most part. She doesn't like to be touched. Breasts and petting are generally off limits. It isn't her fault. She does love me but her body and mind won't let her express it. She has told me several times that I should find a way of taking care of my needs but until now I have hesitated to do so. I am not willing to end my marriage over this, I love her too much. But I realize that unless I do something this will just keep eating at us.
The person I would like to meet
I am looking for a woman who is interested in a simple, respectful, discrete relationship or someone who just wants to chat a bit. I like a girl who is fun and funny and sure of her self. I will admit I have a thing for petite brunettes but I married a big girl and I don't judge. If you know how to work it and be sexy I don't care too much about the numbers. I want someone who understands what I am looking for and accepts my terms. If you hope for a boyfriend keep on looking. As for personality I like a woman who if relaxed and cheerful but can be serious and sultry. I am pretty accommodating so if you have a question, ask. Worst case I won't be interested and we'll both keep looking.
About my work
Like I said I am currently at home with my youngest every day. I'm not lazy, I just love being involved. My kids are everything to me.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I read alot. Any type of fiction works for me. I play chess and love movies. I am a die-hard St. Louis Cardinals fan and I enjoy football and hockey as well.
My idea of a great date
Define date? I'm not looking for a girlfriend and discretion limits some of the activities I'd go for. I like long drives, sitting and talking, etc. I like to stay in and cuddle. I am pretty 'girly' when it comes to intimacy. I like the cuddly stuff. But in the end I like to mix it up in the bedroom and I can take charge if I need to.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
N/A As I said before, as odd as it sounds, I am trying to enhance my marriage.
What is your fantasy vacation?
You really want to know? maybe we cn talk about it later.
What is your academic background?
I freely admit that college didn't work out for me. I was an immature screw-up back then and have had to make due with my High-School Diploma. I've got myself on the strait and narrow and now I do my best to keep my family happy. Having kids forces you to mature, at least if you are a half-way decent person.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Not really relevant. I guess you could ask me in person.
What do you find attractive in people?
Well I am a red-blooded American male and I am very open and honest so I I admit that I find physical attractiveness very appealing. However I am realistic. People are more than the body they live in. I like someone who is confident and sexy. You have to be comfortable with yourself. I don't do self-pity. I don't mind a girl with curves or some meat on the bones. Just be clean and well-kept.
What do others do that irritate you?
I have no patience for self pity as I said. I also will not tolerate any type of bigotry or discrimination. That's not to say every joke I tell is PC. But there is a diference between thinking something is funny and believing it is true. I have always said "Live and let live". I have friends and family from quite a few races, religions, life-styles etc.
What do you think is your best quality?
Well I have always admired honesty and open-mindedness so I would say that those are definitely qualities I see in myself. i am also pretty generous and I am a great listener. I like to see people happy.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I can be a little impatient butI don't get angry often.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Do you understand my full position and that discretion and respectfulness are absolutely essential?
Describe your physique.
I am not small. I am also not huge. At 6 foot I carry my 255 lbs. pretty well (I have a belly) But I do take care of myself. I am clean and well-groomed. I have very blue eyes and very short blond/brown hair.
What do you do well sexually?
I am very very in to fore-play so I try to excel at anything that could fall into that category. I absolutely love massaging, touching, caressing and kissing. And my very favorite is tasting. I love the taste of a woman and I believe, and have been told, that I am good at what I do.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I have an obsession with oral, like every other guy in the world :) ut I also like extended fore-play. I like to be touched, caressed, kissed etc.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Well my wife is bi-sexual so my dream would be to include her in some multi-partner fun. I really like the idea of teaching a girl how to please me. I guess its the whole," I've never done that" thing.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Nothing kinky really. I did tie up my wife once but that's about it.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Nada, got tested when I got married and my wife an I have been exclusive for five years.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Nothing long term for sure. I just have needs that I need to take care of. Why define it. We can work it out later.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
All I ask is that you read and understand what I've written here. It will be much easier if I don't have to explain all this later. And again, I will not post a pic here but I am willing to talk about a trade.
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