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Barehugz
65-year-old Male
Seeking Women: 40 - 70
Melbourne, Florida
United States
Last Activity: Today

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ONE HETEROSEXUAL MAN'S MUSINGS

About myself
Now Available!

Good looking fellow who is friendly, open, humorous, outgoing - women at work flirt with me and I flirt back but I do not want to risk that kind of drama.
I am well-built (arms, shoulders and chest - what did you think I meant?).
Certainly I lead, but I don't push.
From time-to-time I update ... Emphasizing my perceived differences in how men and women view sexuality. Mostly common sense, but ...
I regret, with few exceptions, the times I could have had sex but chose not to.
I suspect women are more likely to regret succumbing to temptation than the times they could have, but didn't.
I have messaged and chatted with some very nice ladies! Some of the best are members here.

The person I would like to meet
Attractive, adventurous lady who is actively living life ... as opposed to being along for the ride.

A woman who would appreciate a man who understands that your satisfaction may not be complete by a session of in-and-out only.
A man who will not only explore, but also ask what you enjoy.
A man who is D and D free and will always use a condom - no need to ask.

BUT, once we discover compatibility and get checked for STD's - the sky is the limit!
( Well, maybe not including sex while sky diving ... or maybe then too ... )

Really want to connect with a woman who enjoys giving and receiving oral pleasure.
Clit's seem to be happier when licked to purr-fection.

Write me if you are ready for the sensual experience of your life!



About my work
Retired

What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Let's talk about that in person.
I am open to new activities.

My idea of a great date
There are many dating options for a great date. Some that come to mind include:
Picnic by a lake.
Amusement park.
I miss drive in movies - you could always tune in on your date and tune out the movie. As I said before, I AM flexible. If you are into art and I am interested in you, let's go see art. And if we end up dancing the horizontal mambo, that doesn't make either of us "easy" - just compatible.

Want to know the definition of wasting time?
That would be putting off immediate gratification!


If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Maybe I can talk about it ... but I won't

What is your fantasy vacation?
A trip to one of the risque Caribbean resorts would make for a long-lasting adrenaline (testosterone?) rush!

What is your academic background?
I studied long and hard!
Unfortunately, there are few jobs for comic book experts.

Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Niagara Falls - As always, it is inspirational.

What do you find attractive in people?
A positive attitude and outgoing personality are tops.
Physically, a woman with nice legs and a bubble butt makes me foam at the mouth. (I wear safety underwear in case foaming occurs down there, too.)

You SHOULD have a date with me - Even if we don't click, you will be well entertained!

Seriously, I think many men and women suffer from "gender envy".
Men are envious of women because most women could have sex partners any day - although they might have to lower their standards...

Women are envious of men because men still initiate the mating ritual. And don't have periods. Women can become pregnant without enjoying an orgasm.

Those (either gender) who resent the situation instead of accepting it are less likely to be good partners.

What do others do that irritate you?
Very little. They are entitled to spend their lives any way they want. Just as I am entitled to spend mine away from the irritating ones.
HOWEVER, If you are a smoker DO THIS:

EVERY time you get the urge to light up, instead grab the closest attractive male, drag him to some place private, and give him a blow job instead.

Not only is it healthier than nicotine for you, but you will make a loyal friend!

What do you think is your best quality?
My drop-dead good looks.
(Would you like to buy the Brooklyn bridge?)
Actually, my best quality is that I get along with almost everyone. (Excepting the irritating ones.)
Also, I am a gentleman.
A MAN seduces a woman and has great sex.
A GENTLEMAN seduces a woman and makes sure they BOTH have great sex.

What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Be more willing to tackle mundane tasks ... like clean the garage. Can't get excited about it so it stays somewhat messy.

What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Why is it that women soon tire of seeing male genitalia while men can drool uncontrollably over naked women forever?

Describe your physique.
Think of the Incredible Hulk.
No, not when he's agitated, but when he's normal.

What do you do well sexually?
I listen and learn.

When I hear Ooh, Ahh, Yes, YES, Y.E.S.S.!!!
(Remember Meg Ryan - When Harry Met Sally?)

I remember EXACTLY what I was doing at the time for future reference.

It is up to YOU to assist in increasing my repertoire!

What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Other than B&D, S&M and homosexuality - I enjoy sharing pleasure with my partner within our respective boundaries.

Truth or dare: Truth - I'm probably one of the less adventurous subscribers. Although when you read my fantasies experienced, you may disagree.
Since women (I hope) are reading this, not that many years ago my partner gave me oral pleasure immediately after I came during intercourse. It was so incredibly stimulating that I nearly bounced off the bed. After that she took mischievous delight in causing acrobatics most times we made love.
(Hmmm, is THAT how gymnasts become so skilled?)

What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Join the Mile High Club.
Visit a Swinger's Club.

How about an example?:
I get on an airplane for a multi-hour flight and an attractive woman wearing a short skirt is seated next to me. She is obviously nervous, so I comfort her by explaining how safe air travel is. She thanks me and takes my hand in hers.
During takeoff she squeezes my hand and it accidentally drops to her thigh. (At least it seemed like an accident.)
My testosterone level has gone up and I am NOT moving my hand until I receive some indication she wants it moved!
The airplane is gaining altitude and she seems perfectly content with my hand on her leg. Suddenly there is turbulence and we're pitched forward - all except for my hand, which is now resting on Heaven!
I nervously apologize, quickly lifting my hand.
It is her turn to comfort me, saying she understands it was an accident. And, besides, she should have worn underwear, anyway. Our faces are quite close and before I know it she gives me a warm, soft kiss in gratitude for my comfort.
It started warm and soft, but my blood is racing, my pants are sticking up like a pup tent and I HAVE to go for it. Her soft kiss is transformed into naked passion with increased pressure followed by my tongue slipping between her lips. She is surprised and reaches to steady herself - only to find solid steel in her hand.

Let's complete this fantasy!

What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I enjoyed sex in the swimming area of a lake with a lot of people nearby.

Also, behind the bushes in a public park very close to the walking path.

Sex with a hot woman FIVE times in one day!
(O.K., so I didn't cum the last time - it was wonderful, as well.)

AND - I was 49 at the time!

The only other time that compares is during R & R in Australia.
My lady seemed to have a good time. When it was time to go
to dinner, she put her dress on inside-out.

I went to a clothing-optional beach. Neither my companion nor I had ever done that and she was petrified. Although very attractive, she was sure everyone else would be model material and she would feel out of place. (They were normal people, mostly middle aged, and had imperfections like everyone.) She was SO nervous, she sat on her towel staring straight ahead and didn't even notice that I had taken off my trunks. Once she realized she was the ONLY person wearing a swimsuit, she took hers off and had a grand time.

The next time we went, her clothes came flying off as soon as we got there.

There is a message here - if going to a clothing optional beach sounds like fun to you, I highly recommend it.


Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Absolutely not.
And I will not consider unprotected sex unless in a monogamous relationship and we have the clean test results.

Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Yes to all of the above.
I'm not eager for a one night stand, but don't get asked often, so why not?

Something I learned from a wonderful lady who had just begun using the internet to find dating partners:
She assumed that I was getting as many messages as she. At that time, the ratio was that she received about TEN times as many responses as I did. Note that my responses were mostly replies to my overtures, not someone approaching me first. So ladies, accept that men are NOT getting "cold called". And if you receive a mildly interesting e-mail that you deem is too brief, bear in mind that may be the umpteenth one sent by the gentleman that day - and he is tired of all of that typing while trying to connect.
Recommendation: DO reply to the e-mails of mild interest - you may be pleasantly surprised!

Further, go ahead and write to a man first if you find his profile interesting. It's not the same as approaching someone in a bar.
There is substantially less risk and you always have the "No Thanks" option.


Free Space. Say anything you want!
After extensive research, I've come to the conclusion the majority of sexual problems CAN be licked.

( R U smiling?)

Seriously, I've gained experience through trial and error over the years and believe that many women don't understand how men actually perceive sex.
Women, Ladies, Babes, Hotties - LISTEN UP:
Using myself as an example of a normal heterosexual male:
I did not know exactly where a woman's urethra is located until after I'd been married - and divorced. While that is of minimal significance by itself, it IS a clue as to the lack of knowledge we Normal men have.
For several years (age 0-13) the concept of pleasure by intercourse for women escaped me. After all, I did NOT want anything inserted in my butt, so how could inserting a penis in a vagina bring pleasure to a woman? I accepted that it is true - has to be or there would be fewer babies!
It helped to begin thinking of a vagina as a penis turned inside out.
REVELATION! I read that statistically, one third of women DO reach orgasm during intercourse, but not every time (like most guys - Another "gender envy" concern?). Therefore, most ladies need additional stimulation - and the clitoris is female's most sensitive erogenous zone. Which may explain why many say that receiving oral pleasure is their favorite thing.

Most boys first explored female sexuality by inserting a finger - putting it in close proximity to the "happy button". Again, using myself as an example, the WORST thing happened - I matured and stopped using my fingers.

(BTW, my first finger insertion occurred on a school bus.)

I'm again using fingers, and tongue, and toes, etc. ;-)

YOU WIN - you read my entire profile!
Not many have your stamina!

Those with a weakness for "bad boys" - consider that if you tell a nice guy what you like, you will surely receive it!

Good Luck and Hugs

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