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Light &/or dark - open minded & sometimes complex.
Light: I am a strong, sensual lover who believes in intimacy, trust & passion.
Dark: I am: Leather gloves, an expensive suit, the light that shines into you, a mask, boots, a man to be adored &/or feared.
I am an imaginative individual who is open to many activities & ideas, a hunger for the exotic, the erotic, the romantic & the intense.
You do not smoke; you are intelligent, willing to be taken into your desires... and mine. Intelligent interactions where limits are respected - I really don't want to take anyone where they do not want to go, such limits may be explored, even stretched - if you are keen. I'm open to most things Afterwards I shall bring you back safely but only after you have given your best.
The person I would like to meet
I seek a woman of quality. A consenting adult with her own style.
An attractive & intelligent woman.
She has her own strengths but perhaps she has a desire in her life... or even in her heart, for intimacy, passion & adventure!
Perhaps you are someone who likes intensity or a challenge. Someone who can open a new chapter in my life. A non-smoking, attractive & intelligent woman of quality who is willing to reveal her deeper desires (& have them met - or frustrated). A person with an ability to accept, tempt & delight me. Someone who can dress up or down depending on mood & instruction. I am interested in single & episodic adventures, sexy friends, limited contracts, relationships even a future with the right person/s. The more you want the more you must offer. Loyalty comes in time.
One reason for placing this page is to encourage a long-term partner. Please consider the ordinary version of this site - same login - if curious. Suitable people for such a commitment are rare and I value the company of my fellow human beings. In the case that you are mainly or firstly interested in fun - well I am too. I am including those details here too.
ESSENTIAL: I’m sorry, it does not seem feasible for me to negotiate on these issues.
Lover, playmate or Life partner: Non smoking, Intelligent, Disease free, Addiction free, At least basic English, Trustworthy. Interested in sex & romance, Emotionally sane, Less than 59 years old, able to cope with a man who has a individual personality.
Specifically a Life partner: All the above + Ethical, Imaginative, Vocationally able & flexible, Able to correspond without financial assistance, less than 35 years old, willing to live in Canberra.
DESIRABLE: If you match or are near a large number of these qualities then I really want to meet you.
Companion &/or Life partner: Drug free, understanding, sexually adventur
About my work
I study: Life, thatre, music.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I sing(tenor-baritone), I practice Yoga, I write, I am very social & love long conversations.
My idea of a great date
Where comfort is tempered with connection. The details are negotiable.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Long story, perhaps when you know me better & if you are really interested.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Omigod, the possibilities are endless.
I would be entusiastic to work through options...
What is your academic background?
Dip. Traditional Chinese Medicine
Grad Dip. Clinical Acupuncture(PRC)
Electronics Engineering Cert.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Adelaide & very much.
What do you find attractive in people?
Candour, eyes, consideration, passion, immagination, loyalty,
What do others do that irritate you?
What do you think is your best quality?
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
My aversion to 'pop' culture.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What interests you - about me or potential activities?
Describe your physique.
After 26 years of martial arts but also 5+ of Iyengar Yoga I have a healthy, strong body that moves like a cat.
What do you do well sexually?
Intimacy, gentleness, enthusiasm, joy, tenderness, innovation, immagination.
Acts of spontaneous strength.
Storytelling, fantasy, domination by request. Tender & temporary cruelty only on repeated application.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Omigod, the #1 favourites change depending on mood, partner & moment. The options are endless - so, I would be entusiastic to work through possibilities...
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
You are very welcome to suggest something.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Ahem, many if not most of them.
Details - perhaps when I know you a little better. NB: I will happilly talk about my experiences when trust is established but do not discuss names.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
I practice safe-sex with anyone that I haven't made a principle connection & commitment to. This commitment involves mutual STD checks.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I am effectively single. I m looking for a special partner but I'm realistic & know that such opportunities don t just happen all the time.
Between now & then I d like to be happy & intimate with other people, their needs & desires.
If you like what I suggest or offer please give me a contact. We live in a funny world with values and behaviours that I am often at odds with. I like to do what I can to work against the distance between us when & where I can.
Please do not doubt the strength of my desire however, the world is overfull of pushy males - its embarrasing. I would much rather indicate my interest in a woman & have her respond at her discretion. Try ****************** ...Partially I appreciate the attention but mostly this way things are clear between us.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Its really not what you do but how you do it that counts.
Principally, I'm into people. The rest is negotiable detail.
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