Seeking Women: 35 - 55
Saint Augustine, Florida
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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There is no substitute for experience
I have traveled extensively in earlier years. I find people and cultures facinating. It seems a little odd to me that there are so many morality laws and sexual taboos. After all, when we are sexualy engaged with another person (or more) we are doing what is natural to us. We are bombarded with fictions and falsehoods about our sexuality from birth. Real gratification comes when we shake off the falsehoods and truly immerse ourselves in the one we are sharing the experience with. I try to savor every moment, every touch and nuance. I want my partner to be trembling in awe of her passion, shaken by the intensity of its release.
The person I would like to meet
I think she should be open minded and recveptive to new experiences. I will not say that physical attributes are unimportant, but most often it is not the first thing that gets my attention. Intelligent women make the best lovers, hands down. And lets face it, conversation and normal interaction are how we learn about one another. She needs to be a little daring and have a well developed sense of humor.
About my work
I have worked in the Florida sun, doing heavy demolition for a number of years. You never really get used to the heat. The heavy physical work and the demands on my body have kept me very strong and muscular as I enter my 50's. I have recently returned to college online to finish my degree. Hopefully this will aid me in the future but for now it more for my personal satisfaction.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I love to take long bicycle trips. (over 100 miles), walking the beaches here in Florida, Java programming, fishing, going into the old city on warm weekend nights and spending time with friends.
Lots of other things too but moving on.....
My idea of a great date
A great date would be to discover that the person with me facinates me. Better yet, an electrical attraction that gives you those little shocks at the lightest touch. With someone like that, location matters not. I would be content anywhere we went.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
She was a nice lady, but she told me that we had grown incompatible. This is one of those cases where the bedroom brought down the house. She was fearful of breaking away from her pentecostal beliefs and came to dread sex for fear I would try and break out of the stop, drop and roll off brand of intimacy she believed God allowed for.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I would like to attempt to climb the Devils Tower again, and succeed. I fell last time onto a ledge (whew) and had to be medivaced. Its a fantasy because I was 20 years old then. At 50 it is likely to remain a dream.
What is your academic background?
High School, of course. two years of community college, and currently at CTU working on a Bachelors in IT
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
I took a solitary bicycle ride from Florida to Tenessee and back.
I needed the solitude.
What do you find attractive in people?
Spontinaety, I like someone who is always looking for the moment to seize. Courage and strength of purpose when adversity strike.
I also am very fond of anyone who has a well developed sense of irony.
What do others do that irritate you?
When someone needs to use 100 words when 10 would do, and then wastes even more of my time because they dont know what they are talking about to begin with.
What do you think is your best quality?
I listen well and can often intuit what someone is trying convey even though they may be having a difficult time articulating.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I have a brusque and colorful way of speaking. Sometimes I could show more tact or spare someones feelings. It bothers me sometimes.
Describe your physique.
I am 6`2 and weigh right around 200 lbs. At 51 I still have a 32 inch waist. Everything is purportioned as it should be. I am fairly muscular and I am stronger on average than most men my size, due to my work. Bicycle riding gives my legs good definition and I am surprizingly lithe and flexible. I have a little moderate softness in the belly reigon, but at this age I am not really concerned with being a six pack ab, and no plans have been made to launch an underwear modeling career. I can live the few pounds there.
What do you do well sexually?
I am patient and and perceptive. I can see my partners state of arousal and respond in a way that gives her the most pleasure. I love to pleasure a woman orally and have been known to carry it on for quite a long time. Not just oral sex but often exploring her entire body with my lips. I get a lot of satisfaction from directing her pleasure and maximising the intensity of her orgasm.
I am blessed to be substantialy endowed and can easily use my strength and agility to change position without breaking the contact, several times when the mood strikes me. This has been a very effective technique by all accounts. I can intuit when to be rough or gentle. I can just as easily let her take the lead if she is in that sort of mood. She has my entire attention throughout and I never allow her to feel like I have anything else on my mind
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
If a woman does not care to perform oral sex, thats a deal breaker. If she is not so skilled i will teach her. After all Im a guy and I cannot think of anything that feels any better than a world class blow job.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I would like to have a 3 way with a set of twins. The idea of two identical women pleasuring me orally at the same time is exquisite torture everytime I consider it.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I took a cheerleader from my high school reunion back into the locker room and bent her over a bench. She had snubbed me years before and I was not gentle with her this time. I had thought of it for years and took the chance to proposition her. After the locker room, I took her home and spent a weekend using her roughly, sometimes painfully at my pleasure. She cried quite prettily when I put her out to the curb monday morning.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I want sensation. One night stands can be stimulating in ways I want to explore further. A lot depends on what my sexual partner wishes. I do want to play at this point, frequently. I am looking for everything new and pleasureable. I do want longer term and if I find it along the way it will be great. Until then, I want to live it all and experience it.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I want to tease the deepest and most erotic things from a womans mind and live them out with her. I want to give women the kind of sex they dare not ask a husband or lover for. I want to do the things to her she can never tell of, but must return to have again.
I want to exhaust myself in a writhing bed of sexualy frenzied humanity and lie spent among them. I want to give a curious suburban housewife the anal pounding she shamefully longs for and leave her tearfully thanking me for it.
Height, weight, race, breast size, none of it really matters. I will give you what you cannot ask openly for. Pleasure should never be guilty. I will happily fulfill them without guilt of my own. Safety and discretion are the watchwords. No contact with me ever goes beyond me. I am ameniable to most any arrangement and I can appreciate any safety concerns. I wish to experience you, not hurt you and will do my best to work within any constraints to make you feel safe.
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