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Des Plaines, Illinois
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I Want to Believe in Dreams Again
Ok, how to sum up a life in a few words...if being a romantic is a dying art, then I am among the last of them. They say that men don't understand what it is to be romantic...I want to prove that wrong. It's like Robin Williams said in Dead Poets Society...poetry, romance, beauty, LOVE...these are the things we live FOR. One of my dreams is for that special person to know that she is the most important person in the world to me. I've been told I'm an analytical thinker, and intellect is important to me. What I want to do is to think with the heart.
What was the question again??
The person I would like to meet
I want to meet someone who values serious thought and who isn't afraid to think for themselves. Please engage my mind as well as my senses. We don't have to agree on everything, in fact, it's more fun if we don't. Just know you'll get a discussion if we should disagree! All that said, I enjoy the company of someone who doesn't mind getting a little silly every once in a while. I'm not all hung up on body type or that sort of thing, just be someone who can be serious and who can still enjoy life and adventure and dreams.
I don't ask for much, just everything.
About my work
My bread and butter is in Quality Assurance. Essentially I break things for a living. Seriously, I make things fail in the lab so they won't fail in your home or your car. I put a lot of importance on hard work. If you're into the Chinese zodiac, I was born during a year of the horse, which is characterized by a capacity for hard work. I was born in St. Joseph's Hospital, and he was the patron saint of...you guessed it...the worker. I enjoy seeing a project at work or home come together and work well. One of my pet peeves is work that serves no useful purpose other then to punish the worker. No, I don't read Karl Marx, I just want to accomplish things.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Can't remember a time when I wasn't "oohing" or "ahhhing" about some guitar somewhere. I love music (most kinds, just please not rap), theater and chess. I've acted on stage and was briefly a dj on a radio station. I love reading (and writing) science fiction, and when it's warm enough, I love to go swimming. Have also recently discovered the joys of erotic hypnosis, both as a practitioner and as a subject. (Seriously!)
My idea of a great date
Wow...the possibilities are endless. Candlelit dinners are always wonderful and long strolls talking and stargazing are always nice. And if the delights of the night lead to something more physical, that'd be wonderful too. Never been much of a dancer, but I love to go to places where music plays a big role.
What is your fantasy vacation?
TOTAL fantasy? I'd love to travel in time back to Woodstock and be right at the edge of the stage when Pete Townshend threw his guitar out into the crowd. I'd be right there with a huge catcher's mitt.
Seriously, I'd love visit the Great Barrier Reef and do some snorkeling. I hear the coral is absolutely beautiful. My ancestry traces back to Germany and Scotland,so I'd like to get back to my roots as well.
Any place exotic and FUN.
What is your academic background?
Bachelor's Degree in Industrial Technology. I've also taken a smattering of computer courses and just whatever struck my fancy. I'm always finding new things to learn. Working on becoming bi-lingual at present.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Last BIG vacation was to London, and I LOVED it. Most recent trip was to Florida, and that was great too. I'd like to travel more.
What do you find attractive in people?
People who use their intellect. You don't have to be Stephen Hawking (especially if you're female), but use what gifts you have to the full. I'm also big on honesty and candor. Appreciation for music and the arts is a turn on for me too. I love people with a sense of humor and a sense of adventure.
What do others do that irritate you?
People who talk all over what the other person is saying irritate me. Makes me wonder if they were ever actually listening. I also lose patience very quickly with know-it-alls and people who push their politics right in my face.
What do you think is your best quality?
I think I'm a good listener. I care about what the other person feels and thinks.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I need to be more patient with people.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What are their expectations? If we can get that one out of the way quickly, we can relax and enjoy each other.
Describe your physique.
I'm slender and in good shape, though not athletic. I run and exercise, but I'm not a nut about it.
What do you do well sexually?
I like to make sure my partner's needs are satisfied before my own. I know that's not a technique thing, but if more people focused on their partner more, we all be wayyy happier.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
The possibilities are endless. let's talk.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Still waiting for Townshend to throw me his guitar.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I've traveled to dream places, performed on stage and even flew a plane my first time up (shhh, don't tell the FAA, they don't know).
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
No, I'm perfectly healthy. (I always wondered who would actually say yes to this question).
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Because of my marital status, most of my romantic escapades are in the virtual world (and there's a lot to be said for that). If the right person came along, I could see something more reality-based.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Ummm...can't think of anything else right now.
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