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38decentmale38
49-year-old Male
Seeking Women: 35 - 50
Bessemer, Alabama
United States
Last Activity: 2 weeks ago

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Live in Crimson Tide country! Newly updated 10-16

About myself
Not a sugar daddy but sugar momma is ok, lol

Everything begins with a friendship, no short cuts, the base and foundation for any succesful relationship.


There are 3 kinds of sex,

1. bedroom sex= behind closed doors,
2. kitchen sex= anytime, anyplace, anywhere,
3. hallway sex= when you walk past each other looking each other in the eyes and both exchange F/U's.

I am number 2 ladies.

I also expect a woman to meet me half way on everything, that does not mean me giving 70% to her 30% or vise versa.. Money and material things are secondary. Personality makes everything fit so much better. Having Champaign taste on beer money will never work for me. Always live well within your means irregardless of the economy and that means I can show money in my savings account on $20000 gross or $15000 a year net.
I have been fixed so now I cannot have children. If you do have chiuldren it is important to me to be dedicated to do your best and be responsiable for them for life. teach from day one to forever. they are a responsiablity for life.

There are 5 things that a woman needs to meet me on equally.

1. I am a very clean and organized person at home. I have to live in a clean and organized home.

2. I can cook and clean. If i am not willing to clean, I will not cook.

3. I live well within my means. No materialism. I do not desire the billion dollar house or million dollar car on a 1 penny a year salry. When I do make the billion dollar salry, still not want the billion dollar house or car but...
4. Save money save money save money...I will be first person to take money to grave with me.

5. Children dedicate yourself to them as your life depends on it. Theirs do.

The person I would like to meet
She should match me in all my essays here......................

Thin....................that would be a nice change............

For those of you who look for the long term or marriage. Understand this, God made marriage and the rules, not people. You are together for life, best worst and all, never to throw it away. Forever till death do you part..........end of story. No liscence to cheat but be monogomous, thats right one person and not everyone I can do. People have to forgive, God and Jesus can so should all people. Material things are not important and the little things should mean most. Material things are short term and if they mean the most to you......................Good bye!

Be willing to make a friendship first without sex being a priority.Thats right, sex is worth waiting for, when you make the right connection with the right person first. A relationship can only come from a friendship that matters first. That peanut butter and jelly fit has to be from all the things that matter between 2 people and yes the sex can fit later. It usually does just fine. Dating I do not do because it makes me feel like I have to spend a certain amount of money to impress someone when the person should matter more. guess I dont do material woman, live within your means always no matter what the economy does, this roller coaster will happen again.

On the other hand>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

If sex is something you need 8 days a week, make sure you can turn me on and not off. Once every couple weeks is good enough.
Not a 10" porn star that goes 10 hours but...................better than average here.

About my work
work is mental and physical exercise that challenges learning. This is needed daily. Jobs tick me off cause they extort and stress stroke and heart attack. I hate jobs and money. My life does revolve around them. Life reolves around enjoying life important things. HOW DO YOU LIVE WITHOUT MONEY? ASK ME. I work for myself, and my standards in doing my best are higher than most. Waiting for the money to be as high. Oooops, I was just dreaming. work is important to get mental and physical exercise which is the fountain of youth. i never get enough but Im in great shape for my age. Lazy is a huge turn off for me in many ways. I will never be perfect and do not expect perfect. Close enough will do. enjoy your job or get another one. i have been blessed with having a job anytime. just get me a paycheck and I can survive well. I'm blessed.

What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
mountain, rock and glacier climbing when im near them. ride bikes, enjoy watching football and maybe even playing tennis nude would be fun. i love to excercise when i can. dont exercise as much as i would like to. Playing rock and roll guitar now for 30 years.

My idea of a great date
finding out if the we have the right qualities to our liking while enjoying a walk through the park or beach and maybe lunch or dinner. Little moments in life mean the most. Old fashioned in the term courting but not dating. More important to me to get to know someone without having to spend my money to impress her and hope she likes me for me while spending time together. Apic nic in the park and we both bring something enjoying conversation. Is this possible?

If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Honesty,
Men and Woman both do not work at their relationships hard enough to keep them 50 years anymore.
Surprise me.
Roll your sleeves and fight for it.
Roamantic fairy tales have too be worked at and achieveable. i cant reach the stars on a step ladder.
the ex and I did our very best but did not fit well enough. we both failed. I learned and chose to grow from that narriage and to forgive while loving myself.

What is your fantasy vacation?
to go to australia.

What is your academic background?
some college.

Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
A trip to Washington state and should have stayed away longer.

What do you find attractive in people?
those that work hard and care to do their best at everything they get involved in, especially with personal life and fun! I notice what people dedicate themselves to or not. actions speak louder than words. Plan your future one step at a time to achieve.

What do others do that irritate you?
complain about tough situations and not just work through it without complaining. laziness is a turnoff. If your not willing to sweat in your job, it means to me your not willing to be dedicated to your life, a relationship and family the way they should be. . Funny how that translates most of the time
Large cities and the rat race. Look forward to live in a small town with the big cities far away with mountains to climb near by. Common courtesy, respect are non existant. World revolves around no one, so stop thinking you are privlaged and deserve special everything. We are special but not above the rules that deserve to be worshiped.

What do you think is your best quality?
dedication and being prompt at everything i do. be the best at whatever i do all the time! I have high standards in relationships and sex. Pleasin the woman sexually is my highest goal. I am pleased when she is more than pleased. Sex is worth waiting for, even if it is marriage. Some say You cant live with or without them. I can live without and keep myself clean for the right fit.

What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
be a little more outgoing in personality and doing things alone. Would like someone to enjoy my fun with.

What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
what color is your cute pubic hair. please dont tell me you shave it all off!

Describe your physique.
I'm maybe 10 pounds over weight but im proportionate and average build. I do expect a resonable aceptable weight range from my equal.

What do you do well sexually?
Giving a women the some of the best orgasims she ever had. i will enjoy sex best if women is pleased. bring the energy and also recieve, what you give is what you get. Sex has to fit like a good shirt. If it is good for both, that works. When 2 people like each other the sex works.

What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
she needs to be on top of me, doggie style, no anal unless she likes too. Blow jobs, of course.

What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
3 or more women and me. sex outdoor in near public places. All novelties and irrelevant.

What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
3 somes, both ways. outdoor sex, many times. Very happy with one on one outdoors all nude doing it so you may be seen but defineately not the goal.

Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
none, and dont plan on it. im picky to who i'm with and always ready to use condoms. Always picky who I'm with. I love me and deserve to be clean for miss right.

Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
the first 2 of course but a long term depends on how things progress.
long term relationships require,
respect for who the other person without expecting of them change,
communnication to agree or agree to disagree but always find a way to communicate,
Work at it, there is no fire without fuel, if you both do not add fuel, there will be no fire.

Free Space. Say anything you want!
everything is work and if you do nothing you get nothing. nothing comes from nothing.
If you wish me to be faithfull then be faithful yourself. should never be an issue ever.
Fairy tales do not exist, be realistic and work at it, if you are afraid of work or excerise.....................BYE!
Keep an open mind and disscuss anything. Communication is good and always worth listening. Treasure can be anywhere, do not be afraid to turn over every stone in going for what you want. It is always in the last place you look.

My life is leading to a low populated state like Wyoming, Mexico or Alaska. Lots of mountains to climb and enjoy. Do not care if its cold, more reasons to cuddle.

My standards are gigh, so here goes..................

Over weight 95% of time is usually lazy. Lazy is huge turn off for me. Time for thin and energetic.

Out work me
Out exercise me
Out money save me (good luck
Out clean me
Out cook me
Have priorities in life in right order
Be goal oriented and focused
No materialism
Not lazy
Same page
same book
Same hiway
Same direction
Be independant in order to be a strong team or be willing

Sex is last order of things, it happens later when I'm sure she isnt playing me for mpney, there will be none if this is the case. Money is secondary in life. I enjoy life without it.

its now your choice.

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