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posted 3/19/2007 11:01:15 PM |
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  cabl_guy

I was just pushing buttons with my last blog. Shame on me! I tend to do that from time to time. Depends on what mood I'm in. And, I was in a naughty mood.
But, today was my 1 day of the week. So, I'm happy for a bit. Or course, I'll be hoping for a repeat all week. Come Friday, I'll likely be irritated again. Thus it's been for several years.
Anyhow, today, my 17 year old son pulled one on my wife. He briefly mentioned hanging out with his buddies tonight to her yesterday. Of course, he didn't go into details about it.
I saw him at my friend's house about 3 PM. He gave me the same vague answer as her. He was only going to 'hang out' like I did at 14. So, I didn't give him any grief over it. He's A VERY well-mannered boy that gets into NO trouble after all. HOW me managed that is beyond me!
And, I have to admit..........every car that went by, I was peeking out the window and wondering when he would get home. And, yes, I was curious if he would practice good judgement around his peers.
But, yet, I remember his age and the things I did. And, now, I finally get to see what my parents endured. Given, I was FAR worse at that age. I was drinking and smoking weed way before that. Had my own car at 15. Motorcycles? Well, as long as you wore a helmet and got away.........
I have to admit, I've seen a full circle. Of course, he has a lot shittier world to contend with than I did. Women are mostly bi or lez. Weed has given way to pills, meth and crack. And, I've become my parents!!
My wife is stressing out over it. Her lose of control over her babies, etc.,. And, she'll chew his ass in the morning for not being home by 6. But, he turns 18 in December. So, I know better than to force constraints on him. As long as he still talks to me and respects my opinion, I'm good.
DAMN! I'm glad I didn't have daughters! I kinda, woulda, sorta liked one. And, who knows? I'm only 40. Maybe if I make one at 50. By the time she's 15, I'd suffer a major stroke.
Anyhow, you gals don't need to believe all you read. Sometimes, guys just say things for drama and reaction.Sometimes we just do it to vent our frustrations. It's just that lil voice in the back of your head that says.........."what if?"
And, I ask that every time a gal with cleavage and a cute ass looks my way. Yet, I stay where I am. I'm not as big of asshole as I make myself out to be. But, pretty close!
Catch me about Wednesday...........

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BigFlirt

Mar 19 @ 11:54PM  
Isnt it funny, how times change...lol....I have a 16 yr old son and i hope he does not pull 1/2 the crap i pulled in my youth. Good luck....
hulkNpooh

Mar 20 @ 12:27AM  
We have 6 children between us..Mine are 12,19,21...husbands are, 6,15,20. We have our hands full...All great kids! Sometimes i think.."God, I sound like my mother." Not such a bad thing...Yes, times are much different for our kids today, than they were for us. Much more stressfull. Hmm, maybe it's because we're the parents now...
Dominus

Mar 20 @ 12:35AM  
The way I see it, no one knows the answers. Even the supposed Worlds Greatest Genius Stephen Hawking got divorced so he could play with the nurse who had been taking care of him.

As far as the meaning of morality, we're all just like the guy fumbling around in a room looking for a light switch where there isn't one. You just have to do the best you can, and try not to harm someone else in the process.
zena343

Mar 20 @ 5:33AM  
Well CG I could see if you had the one blog saying the things you said in your last blog, but the venom runs in all your blogs. So let me guess in which one I believe. ONE or MANY................hmmmm...........

Must say though, good come back!!

Zena
featherone

Mar 20 @ 8:45AM  
big flirt hes probly going to give u as much hell as you did :)
Lisa46

Mar 20 @ 8:48AM  
I remember watching my big sister w/her daughter when she was about 15. I was furious you don't talk to my sister that way! So I chewed out my niece and sent her to her room. My sister looked me straight in the eye and said "why do you think we call her Lisa Jr.??? I called mom and started the conversation "why didn't you kill me"?!! mom laughed and said I was praying you'd grow out of it! My hat off to all MOM'S!!! and yeah I grew out of it!!
cabl_guy

Mar 20 @ 10:41AM  
Believe whatever you choose. I've always been an intense, out-spoken kind of guy that says whatever comes to mind. It's my way of venting frustrations.
Besides, if my wife wanted a wimpy, ass kissing, bitch-boy she sure could've found one by now. Her identical twin sister has one of them. My wife isn't impressed at all by him.
That's the thing about intense guys like me. Not only are we intense on the venomous side but, on the passionate side as well. I wear my heart on my sleeve.
No apologies for my personality.........bad or good.

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