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posted 3/13/2007 1:11:53 AM |
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  Cple4bigafem

Ya know I have been on here for a lil while but not too long and I have yet to find what I am lookin for..
I know it's goin to take time but damnit..lol
Its not that we have a hard time getin women in person its just I am very picky and I mean very..
I am starting to think I will never get to try the sweet taste of a woman...
Do I give up and focus on our relationship? I mean everything is good..
But I have been pushing him to find us someone and to go out and flirt...
Maybe I should stop being to damn picky and just find someone decent and likable?
I am so confussed....
Hmmm...

Ya know maybe its me! Am I not attractive enough for a woman? Hell Im picky as hell and god knows how picky a hotter chick must be...


I consider myself cute but hell I know I'm not a Kat von D or Racheal Ray...(some of the hotties I dig)
Oh wow I think I may be draggin this way out..
Input all?!? Anyone!?!?



Thanx,Jessi

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featherone

Mar 13 @ 1:26AM  
jessi, let me say this, i really think you must really think if this is what you want, can you see your hubby having sex with a other woman? i think it takes a very strong relationship to do that, i tried once with ex and i couldnt go through with it, so it didnt happen, the trust must be strong! jan
lonlyknight

Mar 13 @ 1:30AM  
i think it might be that your trying to find the "perfect person" with very high standards. maybe you should just relax and let things happen. you may find what your looking for in a place right below your nose. im not saying to settle for just anyone just relax and if its meant to happen then it will.
cabl_guy

Mar 13 @ 1:59AM  
It's not quite as you may picture it..............unless you're REALLY lucky. Figure it like this..........He goes out and finds a gal that's smoking hot and ready to do him. Then, he adds, "you don't mind if my girl joins in, do you?"
Or, same goes for you. You find a gal that's really wanting your stuff....up until you add, "But, can my SO watch or join in?" Then you hear...Duuuh, duuh, duhhh!
Simple math. It's hard enough for 1 person to find the perfect fit. Multiply it times two.........it becomes 10 times harder. Ok, not real math but, sex math.
We tried this a few times. Either the gal was into her but not me. Or, the guys were in agreement but, not the gals. Or, my wife wanted to watch me with her but, was too busy watchin to do her own thing. Etc.,.
End result? Finding each other was a challenge, yes? Well, just imagine how much harder it will be by there being a F&M doing the same and trying to keep it fun for both. It may take a minute..............or a whole lot longer.
Good luck to you both!
ksk72

Mar 13 @ 2:09AM  
Be picky thats a good thing just remember you always find what your looking for just when your not looking for it.
StraddleMyNose

Mar 13 @ 3:17AM  
I agree with Kim.
naughtyjenna

Mar 13 @ 9:20AM  
I think your very sexy!!!! You have to wait for me to visit!!!!
MonkeyWoman30

Mar 13 @ 9:42AM  
Jessi,
I speak from a whole LOT of experience when I respond to this post. It is VERY difficult to convince a woman to just jump into a threesome. Even with the most sexually oriented women, there is still more than one morality issue at hand.
Not only are you asking her to have realtions with a woman, which is a big decision in itself, you are also asking her to have relations with another man. A man that is in essence a stranger to her. Those are issues it takes a LONG time to deal with internally.

My suggestion to you is this: If your man really wants you to experience this, he will be understanding enough to know that first you have to go it alone. I mean this needs to be a one on one experience with the two of you, leaving him out. Just for the first time. You need to make damn sure this is something YOU want to do and you're not just doing it because you think it'll please your partner or turn him/her on. If this is going to be YOUR experience, it needs to be just that. Yours and yours alone. Then if the two of you hit it off and enjoy it, you need to introduce her to your man. Let them get to know each other first. But I warn you, this is dangerous. Lay out the ground rules with HIM - and HER - before you all three go jumping in the sack together.

I have only been a few threesomes (FFM-Couldn't imagine it the other way, ICK) in my entire life. The man I experienced those with, well he is now my ex husband. So be careful what you wish for. My current husband of almost nine years is completely totally understanding of my bisexual nature - and has nothing to do with it. I also do not participate in male involved threesomes nor do I feel comfortable letting anyone 'watch'. In other words, with him, Women only is his only rule. It's hard for me to find what I seek, too. But with patience I have found it on occasion. The main thing I'd like people to realize is I am not just out for sex. I happen to care very deeply about the women I am with.

Well, Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for!

Regards.
Kris
naughtyjenna

Mar 13 @ 9:44AM  
Kris I agree with you and think you should e-mail me !!!!! PLEASE!!!
thexxxman23

Mar 13 @ 11:16AM  
You sound to me like you're having a problem with looking in the mirror. Or that you're trying to have some threesomes with your man and another woman and you're be really picky. Or you want your man to find a suitible woman for the 2 of you. Whatever, the point is to exersize. And I don't mean go out and run until you die of thirst or something because that duesn't work. stay home and stretch out and do some pushups and situps. Do them anyway you like. And to hell with all then machines, they just going to break your pockets and won't work after a month. that's all I have to say so take care and good luck.
jezzarae

Mar 13 @ 12:08PM  
there is absolutely nothing wrong with being picky. Just be realistic with it too. As everyone has said finding a female you are attracted too, hubby is attracted to and who is actually attracted to both of you as well is very difficult. So many factors to consider.

Hang in there though, if this is important to you just keep looking, like Kim said it may turn up just when you least expect it and have stopped looking actively.

Good luck to you both I hope you get to fulfill your dream.
naughtyjenna

Mar 13 @ 12:44PM  
Couple. I am willing to help in any way :)

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