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posted 3/11/2007 1:09:24 PM |
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Attraction, Webster defines it as: the act. process, or power of attracting. Hummm! Lets see how he defines attracting: to draw by natural appeal or excited interest, emotion, or aesthetic sense.

So is attraction a learned response or an animal instinct? or both?

Well there is outer beauty and inner beauty. The outer beauty attracts us, however the inner beauty is what bonds us. Have you ever noticed that some of the most beautiful (outer) people in the world are the unhappiest, no inner beauty. There will always be someone who is prettier on the outside, but can never match the beauty on the inside. Pretty on the outside is ever so fleeting, when looks fade what are you be left with? Relationships are a very complex organism, requiring continued maintenance and upkeep. Wouldn't it be nice to get into a relationship where the bond was stronger then the atoms in water. Well I feel the days of Ozzie and Harriet, Leave it to Beaver and Father knows best are over. Here's a sobering thought "There are 40+ billion people on this earth, so your chances of meeting the right person for you are one in 40+billion." So for 2007, I wish all my single friends the best of luck in finding that one in 40+billion, as long as there is "one" there is always a chance. Have a Happy New Year and be safe, because I am selfish and "I" want to see and talk to you again.

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NightOfOld

Mar 11 @ 2:08PM  
Good blog Sir.
lillin

Mar 11 @ 6:34PM  
i wish i could believe that there is "one"...but I dont believe that...I think there are many suitable partners for us...the romantic notion of soulmate (or anam cara in gaelic) is nice, but probably hogwash....

bah humbug...
jezzarae

Mar 11 @ 11:22PM  
Well written. Great sentiment as well. I may not have the outer beauty but I sure hope my inner beauty shines through.
goldlovenfool

Mar 12 @ 12:16AM  
Good Stuff indeed!

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