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  shellsmack

I've read quite a few blogs today about blowjobs, but my question here is for the men to explain exactly how a hot blowjob is given. I think I do pretty damn good because I really enjoy it, but I'd love to hear what they like and the different things done during the act that makes them CRAZY.

Men have said that some women don't know how to give head, well, what's that all about...why? Do tell.

Help the slobbering women...HERE'S YOUR SIGN.

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OdysseusMI

Mar 11 @ 12:46AM  
Okay, I'll bite on this one.

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

Details.... well, first of all I really don't think men are too terribly different from women when it comes to this. I mean, some of the same things a woman likes with oral sex are the same things a guy likes. I think it might be fair to say that a guy likes attention to the whole area, not just the branch but the berries too. I'm guessing there might be some similarity to a gal in that she might want attention to more than just her clit. Experience has taught me that, especially at the beginnig.

That said, I would have to say that once attention is given to the penis itself, especially having in your mouth, then that needs to be the focus. I can't tell you how many women really seem to screw things up by taking the penis out of their mouth to return to my testicles or just the shaft and how that's just a let down. Remember, the head is where it's most sensitive and once you start on that, you might be well advised to keep your attention there.

To make this easier to comprehend, I suppose one could liken it to a guy going down on you and you're starting to get to that point where you're getting wobbly because he's licking your clit, then all of a sudden he starts kissing your thighs and ignoring your clit for more than a few seconds. That heightended state you were in starts to ebb away and once he returns he's got to basically start all over again.

Deepthroating is great. A woman that can do this is gifted and it's greatly desired and appreciated. Not completely necessary in my book, but it is something that's really great. Nuff said.

Climaxing in your mouth is huge. I'm going to venture a guess that many here will say swallowing is a big thing, and I do have to agree that it is really cool, but only from an acceptance standpoint. Swallowing isn't terribly necessary as long as you're not going to violently spit it out and run to the bathroom immedaitely for the mouthwash. That's a HUGE turnoff! Anyway, climaxing inside is a huge turn-on.

One more thing: it's a great thing for a woman to be able to make the guy cum without his assistance. Porn vids might show us otherwise, but a woman that can do the deed and make a guy cum without his hand having to come into play is awesome.

Last but not least would be some afterplay. Kissing and GENTLE sucking afterward as he's defalting is cool. Remember, GENTLE. A guy might be pretty sensitive at this moment and he's going to appreciate this a lot, but you really don't want to cause too much pain by being as vigorous as you might have been a few moments earlier.

Just my opinion. Hope it helps.
33john

Mar 11 @ 3:04AM  
shells ......this will take a very long time to give you my take on it........ as you know show'ns better'n tell'n .... ya got any share time ??/ ...

Think about lip pressure ,, tounge pressure,, teeth racking,, biteing,, licking...using hair to tickle .... never leave out the emotions between the two....later we'll get into ice whips chains .....stawberrys,, whip cream....then there's always fizzies as a back up
smittyd1

Mar 11 @ 5:12AM  
a lot has to do with attitude.the girl has got to love sucking cock.the saliva should be running.the tongue should never stop for long.do not forget to suck and lick the balls while holding and stroking the shaft.a great blowjob IS a lot of work but will be greatly appreciated by the receiver and hopefully the girl enjoys the taste.
goodman1959

Mar 11 @ 8:20AM  
Good question,I dont think there is a step by step technique to a good blow job.If it feels good to him ,you are giving a good blow job,he should be able to tell you if he does'nt like something you are doing,and his reaction to the things he likes should be obvious.I'm sure it varies with guys like it does with women,what feels good to you when a man goes down on you,is probably different from what other women like.Different strokes for different folks.
Personally,I like the heat of a womans mouth,tongueing from base to head and over the head, stroking motion with lips lightly closed,playing with balls and ass is good too,doesnt have to stay in mouth the whole time,can be stroked by hand also.
tlc0766

Mar 11 @ 9:30AM  
wow shell only one comment? does that mean the men don't know what constitutes a good blowjob?
shyblue003

Mar 11 @ 10:07AM  
dang this is an excellent blog........i hope a lot more men answer it
i swallow.......... and so far i do everything in here that has been mentioned so i am reading in hopes to gain some insite to just the right litte new tweek to put someone over the rainbow..........i am hopefull
i love learning new things
enigmalone

Mar 11 @ 10:15AM  
Me? INTENSE would be effective in summing it up..I like it taken deep and fast..sucking hard and looking for creativity. But the above sums it up..

Bri
shellsmack

Mar 11 @ 10:31AM  
There's a little technique I learned from watching this woman in porn. When you get to the end of the cock, give it a good suck and "pop" off the tip...it makes a popping sound if you do it right from all the suck-tion.

gamesman

Mar 11 @ 10:48AM  
No matter what you do what makes a great blowjob is when you both enjoy it to the point neither wants to do anything else.
talkpro

Mar 11 @ 12:20PM  
I'm sure you only want to hear the point of view you want to hear. That would come from men who enjoy being handled exactly as you handle them. Any other approach would be interpreted as 'forcing' a woman to do something she didn't want to do.

Teaching women to make men happy with their mouths is a bit like trying to teach a Christian there is no ghost in charge of the Universe. The TRUTH is never a relevant issue. The only acceptable rhetoric is that which justifies your own position...something that helps you believe what you WANT to believe.
openmindedguy71

Mar 11 @ 1:05PM  
I am not sure I could describe exactly what makes a blow job hot or not. I think for me it has something to do at least with my level of attraction to my partner and our desires to pleasure each other. I kinda like the blow jobs where the woman kinda treats it like an all day sucker changing techniques and tempo to control my climax making me wait to cum till she is ready for it. I personally prefer the woman who swallows to one who spits, I mean after all that work why not enjoy the fruits of your labor.
33john

Mar 11 @ 3:01PM  
Shells ,,, very good point,, that is one of the things I have tried to tell G/F's,, there are many ways to do that pop your talking about...
Also as stated in another blog,,, ya, I don't think most men do know what good head is or can be..... I know I don't...... .. I have Idea's..... but we know what thats worth.....
You should know how curious,, I can be ... once upon a time I did pay a so called hooker for a Blow Job, guess what ?? the pro wasn't worth a shit...
so now this falls back to the mood or as I call it the emotions between the two ....
I just recently found out about getting the Balls licked !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you want me to scream your name.....???...
33john

Mar 11 @ 3:14PM  
...................................women don't know how to give head ..............................
. I don't think as much a matter of not knowing how,, as it not wanting to do it...
this is a matter of opinion.. one guy may say she's a very bad lover,, the next will think she's the greatest ever.....
get a guy to drop the ego,, tell the turth, you'll find very few females get involed in oral sex.... ...
Barehugz

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Mar 11 @ 3:50PM  
I am sorry to report I can shed almost no light.

That, apparently, is the result of my choice in partners.

Or possibly being older. When I was young,
sex was dirty, so oral sex was unacceptable.

I have a terrific idea!

When you've gotten enough input and want to
try out your newly discovered theories ...

I volunteer.

Hugs,
shellsmack

Mar 11 @ 7:05PM  
I'm thinking the "not wanting to give head" is more of a problem then a woman actually not doing a good job. Those of us who really love it are probably so hungry for it we tend to devour and those that just do it out of expectation could give a shit and don't put much effort into BEING good.
shellsmack

Mar 11 @ 7:08PM  
I suppose I was hoping for some descriptive interpretations...for the lae and maybe learn some new tricks.

I'm one who wants to be DAMN good!!
asexpartnerwanted

Mar 12 @ 5:54AM  
1. play with, squeeze, suck my balls too.
2. deep throat - in, out, in, out.........
3. stroke my cock shaft at the same time.
4. swallow my cum.
5. lay on back on bed with head leaning over edge tilted back. can slide my cock in far this way.

33john

Mar 12 @ 6:16PM  
being damn good is going to be what openmind stated..... I really don't know if it's so much a matter of what you do,, as it is what you put into it.....emotins.....

Not having a full bag of tricks keeps life an adventure,, But then again we could get another bag
Luvrgrl

Mar 12 @ 8:04PM  
Well.....it's a strange thing...I think each guy has his own special "thing" he likes when a woman is giving him head.....I personally.....LOVE giving it.....but here's the thing that kind of gets me.....it makes me wonder what he enjoys more.....my tight pussy or the way I suck him so hard he cums.....I always take it all.......guys seem to love that....sometimes I even jump on him for a minute or two....jump off having a taste for myself.....guys love that too....I always stroke him while I'm blowing him....nice and easy...up and down.....my Luvrboy LOVES when I suck the tip of his cock really hard before going back down.......I have to say.....my favorite part of giving head is tasting a little of my own love juices!
ConsideringPossibilities

Apr 4 @ 9:34PM  
I have to agree with Luvrgrl there .... They have their "own special thing"

Sometimes it's a slow tease .... kissing, licking, nibbling the inner thighs & lightly touching & dragging fingernails closer to the good parts ....
Open mouth hot breath light licks very high inside thighs ... breathing closer to the balls .... breathing over the cock ....slowly from the bottom .....up .... toward the ...head ...
teasing ...
Then a light .... sloooooow ..... lick .... tip of the tongue ....up the shaft .... listening for the moan to know that it's just the right pressure .... on the right spot ...


and..
stay there
and
tease that sweet spot ...... licking ....teasing closer to the head ...
teasing ...
while
your fingernails lightly, gently stroke the balls .... up from the bottom ....and ... around both ....as your tongue...
licks closer
closer
with a bit more pressure
toward the head ...

and then lick over it
to the top ...
teasing just the tip
with your tongue
circling and wetting it ...
listening to the moans ...
the begging ...
"Please ... please ...put it in your mouth ...."

and ever so slowly ..... gently .... bring your wet mouth down ...over ....most of the head ... almost taking him into your mouth ...

and listen to him beg again ...."PLEASE"

and then slowly pull the whole head into your hot, wet, waiting mouth ...mmmmmmm
and then

slowly stroking him in & out of your mouth ....adjusting the pressure .... keeping everything so wet .... and wrapping your hand around that hard cock ....sliding up & down with your mouth ....your other hand ....gently teasing his aching balls ....

but don't forget to lick those balls ...light lick up the middle and around ....figure eight .... while stroking his ever hardening cock....before heading back to lick & suck & stroke
and make him wait .
"Don't cum yet...I know you want to ... you need to .... but you have to wait"
and tease more ...then pull him so deep into your throat ....so deep ...to the very back of your throat ... and while he's buried deep in there ... use your tongue to find that sweet spot ... and lick up & down the shaft while it's buried deep in your throat ....

that should about do it.
Barehugz

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Apr 4 @ 10:08PM  
Where the Hell is Hopkins, MN

luvrgrl - I MUST MEAT YOU

(And teaching your dog to fetch
your vibrator/dildo is a neat touch!)

If I'm off topic, it's because I have
this "special sauce" I have to clean up.

Hugs,
Bob
shellsmack

Apr 4 @ 10:31PM  
K...thanks people...seems I've been doing the right things. Just wanted to hear from the guys.

sumdaysoon

Apr 4 @ 10:49PM  
how did this one get by me...... ......i have a couple of things to add.......i myself do not like the slippery slidy mouth. i want to feel your tongue and teeth moving around......the penis is not a delicate creature.......now the balls are a different story....lol.....one other thing to add to the above......i know someone that does a little puppy dog shake i call it.......she kind of moves her head back and forth like a puppy playing with a sock..........well she won't do that long.........
shellsmack

Apr 4 @ 10:53PM  
I like to give the ole popping sound as I suck harder coming off the tip of the head.
bumpyride

Apr 11 @ 2:30PM  
I've never had very many blowjobs, because when I was a young tender lad, it was a big no-no. But in the last few years, I've had a great one and a terrible one. The great one came from a woman who let me stay with her between jobs. I came home and she was chatting online with some friends so I went to the living room to watch some tv. After a few minutes, she came into the room and knelt beside me, unzipped my pants, and took me in her mouth, all very quietly and gently without a word. I think the spontaneity of it was the big turnon. The worst one was given by an older lady who knew very little about sex, let alone blowjobs. She initiated the act but didn't really like doing it. That much was quite evident. First she wanted me to wear a condom, so I complied, but even so she tried taking my cock in her mouth but not touching it. She let her lips touch it very lightly but not her tongue nor any other part of her mouth. I guess I was her first and, probably, her last blowjob. Needless to say, I couldn't maintain a hard-on and she soon gave up. But I haven't, and I'm anxious for next one. So, if any of you ladies would like to practice, I'm available.
hotwifewfemcuckhold

Aug 17 @ 12:01AM  
Well----This is a very good question!!!
From a young age have enjoyed bjs. but not often have they made me cum!
Other men tell me that my wife gives great bjs.(everyone of them so far)& there has been more than a few!(They allso love the fact that she enjoys swallowing)!
now I'm a cuckhold& she has being trying to teach me how to give a goo bj. but I'm haveing trouble getting the hang of it(not afraid of it&I truly want to please)!But of the 6 or 8 men she has had me do--only 2 came in my mouth!
So how does a person learn this SKILL???


asnet

Sep 1 @ 12:21PM  
BJ 101 - 9.1.07

The personality of the woman makes it great or not great.
Start with a dumb,boring, mechanical, this-is-an-obligation type, for example.

You can imagine.

Even masturbation is better than this kind of person.
But you never know until you get there.

OK ... now start imagining the opposite. Get the idea?

And pay some attention to my balls, too. Be creative. Surprise me.

Questions?


onions2006

Sep 26 @ 1:28PM  
Teasing it with anticipation.Just like women like it with their clits.Pressure with the tongue while massaging,little suction.up and down changing all the time.When you hear a moan,go away from that move for a moment,it will tease it and when you return its more extreme.Deepthroating is great if ya can do it too.I like when a woman feels where the shaft continues all the way inbetween my legs and massages that too.And when Im going to cum..press on it between my legs and masage at the same time and also stay in one spot,half way down(not the head) and squish and presss while Im cumming.It explodes!oh...and dont move from that spot until my rush is wayyyy over with so it lasts. does that help?
TheSaxMan

Oct 22 @ 3:13AM  
Hey girlfriend. Randy here. Since we never met I feel I got to keep telling you my name. About your blow job BLOG,,You answered your own question kinda.Myself and most guy's I know consider a super blow-job to be one that is given by a woman that really enjoys giveing that to a man. Most men know when the woman that is sucking thier cock is enjoying it just like they can tell the difference if it's being given by one that has just been fished out of a bar and is expecting dope or a ride or whatever for thier contribution to that dude's night. At least that explanation I believe should explain maybe half of the job's. I would like you to read my next and last BLOG. It's time for this ol cowboy to move on down the ""whatever"". TheSaxMan.
christycd30092

Feb 13 @ 10:50AM  
i give blowjobs too and i woulldnt mind giving u a blowjob

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