lonlyknight
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Mar 7 @ 11:41PM
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hell i've never had a blowjob that wasnt great lol. even if by chance it wasnt i still would love it. 
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ynot7769
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Mar 7 @ 11:51PM
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delicate topic since the egos are going to be involved....have to use whats known as a kiss, punch, kiss method.....kiss/ tell a postive thing you like about what they did....punch/a negative with a spin on how doing something slighty diff would make it all the world better and then one more kiss/compliment......best answer i can come up with on short notice......but i'd have to believe the answer is on a case by case basis.....i mean what works on ONE woman won't always work on the next so i'll assume a blowjob is the same too..... 
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bull59
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Mar 7 @ 11:54PM
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i my slef have never had a bad blow job if he got off it must have been very good.  
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dumblonde
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Mar 7 @ 11:56PM
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y...you are missing the point....i am saying...i didnt ask if it was good for him...so..if he offers a compliment without being asked...what do i make of it...??? if it was not so good...would you try to say something nice..or just say nothing...?
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wackyjack45
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Mar 7 @ 11:57PM
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you know you did good if he kisses you after 
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downforanything
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Mar 7 @ 11:58PM
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A blowjob is always good...however...some are definately better than others. I will say, though, that I've never told a woman that it wasn't good. I don't know that I could have a girl finish sucking me off, then tell her "thanks, but that was terrible." It just doesn't seem right...I always say it's good, even if it's not. I guess it's to show appreciation? I don't know... If a girl really does give an excellent blowjob, I definately let her know it though...verbally and in returning the favor. :)
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downforanything
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Mar 8 @ 12:00AM
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Okay, yeah, I misunderstood your question. GENERALLY if a guy tells you it was great without you asking, he means it. I can say that I've said it only to make her feel good about doing it....increasing the chances of repeat business :)
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connectwith
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Mar 8 @ 12:04AM
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most women cant do it right anyway 
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ksk72
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Mar 8 @ 12:04AM
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If he offers the compliment without your asking its most likely a true compliment. Best way to tell he liked it is if the damn guy wont take "no I dont want to see you or suck you again" for an answer 3 weeks later 
If a guy is not so good at oral I just try to nicely help him out and say its not how I like it. Which is the truth I will teach him what I want.
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downforanything
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Mar 8 @ 12:09AM
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ksk...you make a good point. I think that I am quite talented when it comes to going down...however, every woman is different. If I am with someone new, I pay very close attention to how she is acting/reacting to what I am doing. If I don't think she is enjoying it completely, I ask. What do you like? How do you like it? Etc... Communication is key to good sex :) Sometimes I'll even go as far as....try one technique then say "this is 1", try another then say "this is 2" and so on until my options are exhausted....then ask her "which one do you want?" Sounds kind of stupid, but...it always works :)
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dumblonde
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Mar 8 @ 12:11AM
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oh, connect...do most men do it right?
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devilstar05
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Mar 8 @ 12:13AM
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If I'm pleasuring a lady and she's not enjoying what i'm doing then I'd like to know what she'd like me to do. With that said, if not i'm not enjoying what is being done to me...I would offer suggestions without being disrespectful or mean. If she's trying then that's what matters especially if she is open to suggestions.
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devilstar05
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Mar 8 @ 12:16AM
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My compliments are always genuine...I hope compliments I receive are the same.
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Monsterman8718
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Mar 8 @ 12:17AM
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Firstly, unsolicited compliments are overwhelmingly positive, that is an expression of happiness and joy...you're a smart dame, I'm sure your bullshitometer goes off if you sense insincerity. Secondly, when it comes down to improvement on either side, the key words are communication, communication, communication...if the people involved are insecure on either side shit WILL get taken the wrong way, but then again, why the hell would you want to fuck somebody insecure? It's a waste of time and effort I find if they won't even ask simple questions. In summation....oral sex is one of the greatest things in the world, just tell each other what ya like and for the love of all that's depraved and debauched try to keep open to getting better...Lip service should make people HAPPY DAMMIT *LOL*
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dumblonde
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Mar 8 @ 12:18AM
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i, personally, would not offer a compliment, unless i really meant it...
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whitetailhunter2005
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Mar 8 @ 12:56AM
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If you got a mouth full of cum, then you did it right.
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FFMatt
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Mar 8 @ 1:12AM
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If the guy came, you were off the charts lol. If he didn't and he's having trouble standing, then it's still top notch... If immediately afterwards he throws you on your back and climbs on top... it's pretty good... If your doing it for a long period of time and he just wants you to do it more... assume he thinks you need more practice...
eh, tired from dancing all evening... my comedy isn't up to par tonight...
ciao.
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NightOfOld
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Mar 8 @ 1:15AM
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Usually I answer by the way I show my affection.
But I have never been asked, nor have I asked.
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Natgoat
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Mar 8 @ 1:18AM
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[QUOTE]...Most women can't do it right.....
{d / b...see: my blog on 'Bad-Boys'...}
The Best B/J is the Unexpected one...where it's HER Idea...!!! Wooo-Hooo..!!!
And..I _Always_ compliment her...even if her jaw gets tired...she can continue later...if she'd like...
...and...I've never had a complaint...except for...
" Would you stop Eating me and Mount-Up..?!! "
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slitfiller
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Mar 8 @ 1:19AM
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Nothing needs to be said. If it was great then it was , if not great then it wasn't
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elliot459
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Mar 8 @ 2:47AM
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U WILL KNOW if U did good just pay good close attention girl
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friendwperks
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Mar 8 @ 3:08AM
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I had one girl who just couldn't do it right and didn't pick up on the hints on how to improve. I was to nice to tell her she wasn't good. 
If you make him come you were good. 
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StraddleMyNose
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Mar 8 @ 3:25AM
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Almost a year ago I had a woman give me a blow job and said that she was good at it. After roughly 45 minutes of her trying to suck me dry I almost fell asleep and just wanted her to hump me already!!! Prior to that I have only had two other blow jobs from two other women and they managed to only get precum from me. I still have yet to be sucked dry. Kim thinks she's the one that will, but we'll see. We have a bet that she can't do it in 10 minutes or less. My sweetie is going to lose this one. This will mark her first time that she didn't get what she wants.
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TomJ4458
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Mar 8 @ 4:40AM
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....or better yet, if he asks you to do it again then yes he enjoyed it. Same for the ladies, if they say that they want some more of my tongue action then hell yes I know that I did a good job, lol.
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chaso
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Mar 8 @ 6:11AM
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There is no 1 all encompassing correct answer to that, other than to read how your partner is responding to what you are doing & always be open to learn. Just a thought.
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dumblonde
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Mar 8 @ 6:34AM
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why do none of you understand the question?????????????????
i am not aksing IF a blow job is good...i am asking IF you say it is good w/o being asked...do you mean it????
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Ashinatrix
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Mar 8 @ 7:09AM
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calm down dumb....someone will get it eventually.....
If he's not telling you how good you are WHILE you're giving him head....then he's just waiting to see if it will get any better .....I'm used to hearing comments such as "damn baby, you feel so good" or "fuck that's good", and the alltime favorite, "you look so good with my cock in your mouth"
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RIguy56
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Mar 8 @ 7:23AM
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Well it isn't as if there are bad ones unless someone bites it off...lol but there are definitely different grades of good...
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jezzarae
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Mar 8 @ 7:27AM
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Funny how it seems to be the women who actually understand the question. I think Ash is right. Most guys will let you know during the act that they are enjoying it by their comments moans etc. If you didnt get any of that during but a compliment after I would have to doubt its sincerity.
Having said that don't assume the problem is yours. My husband told me for years that my blowjobs weren't so great. He said I needed practice. After I left him and met other guys I was told by ALL of them how great a job I did and how they wanted more. Years of self doubt finally vanished.
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Roxanna
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Mar 8 @ 7:55AM
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Most of my experiences have been with men who have commented and were breathless enough to be quite sincere. Some are more verbal than others.
For me, if a guy is giving oral and being not so great at it - I will find his fingers and lead them to replace the mouth. A lot of times it takes some exploration for the man to know your favorite spots, depending on the relationship. So, rather than telling them they sucked, I show them how not to.
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Coltrane955
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Mar 8 @ 8:28AM
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For me..If a woman gives a great blow job I am very vocal not just at the end but all the way threw. If she is in the middle of doing something I love then I'll make sure she knows by either telling her "Yes..I love that" or telling her with my body motions..If she is doing something that that I don't really care for or doesn't do anything for me I usually try to lighten to the moment somehow and simply let her know that I liked it more when you did this.... Never good in my mind to be negative about something. If she's using her teeth a little (which is nice at times) and your not into it then simply say "You know gorgeous I love it alot more when you don't use your teeth..It really gets me off alot more"
As far as going down on a woman. Hell if I'm not doing something you like. Tell me. Nothing says looser more then not licking pussy right. haha. I'm all for her saying..no..don't do that.. but do this. Hell yeah!!!
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max49
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Mar 8 @ 8:36AM
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I for one will not say a blow job is good unless it really is but then I am a very vocal person when it comes to sex. I am telling her all the way through how good she is and how good it feels especially when I cum. If I am not saying anything about it then it isn't all that great and I will try to tell her what makes it good for me and hope it doesn't piss her off. Not everyone is the same and it may take a little different technique for one guy over another just the same as with women. On the other hand if I am going down on the woman I am with and I am not doing a very good job at it then I would appreciate her telling me what feels good to her and would hope she feels the same way about me telling her what feels good to me. Like I said above everyone is different thank God. Wouldn't life be boring if everyone was the same?
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donwv69
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Mar 8 @ 8:47AM
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i think if you are good at giving oral pleasure you know it and dont have to ask ,but to answer your question if a woman ask me i would tell her it was good even if it wasnt a bad blow job is better than none .
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skip1944
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Mar 8 @ 9:17AM
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as far as bj's go....there are three levels of expertise'. good, better, and best. "bad blowjob" is an oxymoron.
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tlc0766
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Mar 8 @ 9:27AM
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I would think if he spontaneously said that was great, well you should be able to judge by his reactions while giving said blowjob if he is being really truthful and I don't mean by just cumming, if you make him squirm and moan and ect ect along with cumming then he is being honest.
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PsychoMagnet
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Mar 8 @ 10:10AM
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Guys aren' t complicated like women. If he tell you, that it was great it was!
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toss_ma_caber
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Mar 8 @ 10:40AM
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Well why lie about it?. If I get a blowjob and I tell her it was great it's because I mean it. If she wasn't doing it good I'd tell her that as well. What's the point in having a lousy blowjob then lying and saying it was good just to boost her ego. If you tell her it's great then it's because she was doing it right to you but if she did it all wrong and you didn't enjoy it then maybe by saying that you didn't enjoy it you could work on improving it.
Either way it's best to say.
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connectwith
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Mar 8 @ 11:06AM
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dumblode what i have found was most women tell me alot of men dont know what they are doing, when i do it they tell me they never felt anything like that and where did i learn it? not saying i'm the best so dont take it that way i'm just relling you what they tell me if it's true or not i dont know but from what i see how they respond i would say it's true. 
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talldark_n_italian
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Mar 8 @ 12:24PM
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I never ask a woman how if feels when I am giving. On the other side I never comment on how shes doing either, whether it is good or bad. In your question you ask what men think, I cant speak for other men. I guess you will have to ask them yourself but you can usually tell by there moaning and expressions whether it is good or bad.
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grndprx01
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Mar 8 @ 1:09PM
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all blow jobs are good. all get praise. how much praise depends on how good.
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sumdaysoon
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Mar 8 @ 1:27PM
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db if i say it is good without being prodded i mean it is good........but then again i mean everything that comes out of my mouth.....52 years has taught me to think before i speak......well 99.9 % of the time.....lol
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Boynextdoor823
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Mar 8 @ 2:09PM
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Hi,
Yes...If I say that the blowjob was good without being asked then I really mean it. As for the man asking the woman if he did okay....I'd say be honest. For me it's important to please my partner and I'm not so stuck on myself that I can't take a little constructive criticism. In fact I'd rather be told that it wasn't so good and what to do to make it better than to not be told. I'd hate to think I'm doing a good job when I'm really not. :)
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bigman1960
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Mar 8 @ 3:45PM
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IF A REAL MAN SAID IT IT WAS A GREAT COMPLIMENT. I HAVE NEVER HAD A BAD BLOWJOB OR BAD SEX. FOREPLAY AND A HOTOIL MASSAGE,
WITH FOOD LEADS TO A GREAT BLOW JOB BEFORE MAKING LOVE.
ROBERT
LADY YOU GIVE GREAT BLOWJOBS ENJOY THE QUEENS CROWN!!!!
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man4funf
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Mar 8 @ 4:31PM
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If a woman isnt doing a good job, I will direct the action in another direction. ie: me going down on her or to intercourse. And I do that in a way that doesnt leave her time to wonder about it. So, no I dont tell her if she's not good at it. And if she is good at it, she wont need to be told.
I feel that if you enjoy doing something, you get good at it.
Women are much easier to please orally than men are.imo...Cuz they have so many areas of sensitivity. And if a guy takes the time to listen to her body and even ask if necessary, she will always get what she wants from it.
Where once a man experiences a woman that deep throats, it seems that anything less isnt as good. Of course this is my opinion only. 
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33john
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Mar 8 @ 9:20PM
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If he is in fact giving a postive compliment ,, believe it ........ you woman should know that damn few females really get into oral sex,,,,, most claim they do,, but thats as far as it goes......
If you get him going,, you'll know with out question......I never ask a woman,, how I did,,,,,,,, I know if I did her right or not .......I may not always be her best,, but I try ....
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cabl_guy
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Mar 9 @ 2:41AM
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Hell yes, I tell her! But, of the ones I've had, they knew it already before I told them. If it took me a minute or 2 to answer............YES!! If it wasn't so good, I distract her by moving on to other stuff.........kinda like that Twix commercial.
Need a moment? Chew a Twix! "How was it, baby?". What do you say to not be insulting? You missed a spot? Another 10 seconds..........
That disappoints me with my wife. I've been with other gals that get really intense knowing that you're ready to blow. A couple that like using their teeth just a lil bit. But, my old lady tries to get as far away from the blast as possible. lol I get really into it, and she's backin off...........plus, runnin to the bathroom to gage. That's a serious turn-off!
That'd be comparable to me lickin a clit until they're JUST about ready and droppin the ball. Move to a thigh or somethin. "Don't cum in my mouth!" That's why a 69 works the best..........for me anyhow. Timing is everything! 
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talkpro
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Mar 9 @ 11:46AM
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Where did you get the idea you can figure out what one man will do by discovering what some other man has to say on the subject? Do you really think there is only one male brain out there being shared by all the males?
For your index and for whatever it is worth, I've found some women really like to suck dick. Other women do not, but feel its a price to be paid. If a man plays the odds, he will make judgements about how much a woman likes to do it by how enthusiastically she performs and how experienced she is in the activity.
When a woman is inept at cocksucking, I always assume she doesn't know how to do it for lack of experince and that is because she doesn't really like to do it. I take no satisfaction in any sexual act performed by a woman who is not enjoying herself. I would rather have NO blowjob than one from a woman giving it only because she thinks it's expected or just to please me. And that's a safe assumption a man can make about any woman who gives a bad blowjob.
Women who truly love cocksucking discover how to do it...through experience. It's easy...very easy to tell the difference. In either case, there is little point commenting on her expertise, because regardless of what the man says, her enjoyment quotient will not be changed.
There are few things more sexually satisfying than watching a woman work your dick when she obviously loves it, but here's a caveat...women who really like it, generally do not appreciate a man lying back on the bed and moaning while she's on her knees doing all the work. Women with a passion for the activty will grow, in time, to prefer being skull-fucked. It makes them feel helpless and coquered and my, my, my how most women love that.
An awful lot of young girls will say "bullshit" to that comment about how women love to feel helpless and conquered, but that is only because they have not yet reached their maturity. The same strumpet will, later in life, be desperate to find a man who takes her by the hair, stands over her like a warrior and services her mouth while she wags like a rag doll. If you're not there yet, just keep sucking. You could easily find that comfort zone later.
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LuvvLikk
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Mar 10 @ 9:36PM
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You, would know as it was 'happening' how wonderful it felt. The warm, hard hug when I came back to earth would answer any questions. And when I pulled you on my lips, for a little payback. all would be clear. Your guy is one so lucky.
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Natgoat
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Mar 11 @ 11:32PM
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I believe I Covered that, d-b...
But I usually compliment her throughout the _entire Process_...
KISS!!
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AmazingGerth
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Mar 11 @ 11:43PM
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Even bad blowjobs are still good.
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JulieAnn72
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Mar 12 @ 11:19PM
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ok... have to comment here
from what the guys say that i haven't blown. its all in the enthusiasm. if she is likin' what she is doing its going to be at a minimum decent, but usually very good. if she isn't into it (don't know how that feels) then it sucks. i've been told that some guys actually had to ask some women to stop it sucked so bad. no pun intended. i of course am a fucking super sucking machine that can make a guy cum when i am ready for him to cum. its not in his control
as for eating pussy... well, the last guy that ate my puss was not experienced, not good, i didn't volunteer, but when he asked, I said it felt good and that i liked when he did this or that while he was down there. i wasn't lying, i told what i liked about it and left out what i didn't. oh and i didn't cum. :( maybe next time.
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CaliburOfSoul
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Mar 12 @ 11:44PM
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If a woman gives me a good blow job, then YES I most certainly do! With lots of praise and detail about every little thing she did to make it great! Most guys will be more concerned that *you* got as much pleasure as they did from the blowjob so if they ask, "How was it for you?" then take it as a compliment that they loved it and wasn't sure that you liked it from the face or sounds(or lack thereof) that you made. Remember, just as hot as it is to get one... the act of it helps. Think of it this way, moans, groans and begging for more are certainly better than an vulcan-faced, quiet, barely moving woman in ways of telling the guy you're enjoying it. Lol!
Also, asking for a rating about a blowjob makes a guy question if you liked his taste or whatever. So, in conclusion... there are as many reasons a guy can not answer your question as there are for women not to answer back. ^_^
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allforyou999
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Mar 13 @ 7:53AM
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You will know it, if its good. If he moans and groans it is good.
To tell the truth, I have fantastic ones and not so fantastic. The lady has to enjoy it and want to do it. I can tell.
Ladies, if you don't want to do it , just tell him
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allforyou999
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Mar 13 @ 7:54AM
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No lady has ever made me Cum by doing oral, I am waiting !!!!!
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applemuffin
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Mar 13 @ 12:58PM
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Well if they roll there eyes back in there head then you know it was good. That is what I go by anyway. 
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r_jones52
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Mar 14 @ 4:09PM
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I do not think anyone realy answered your question. This is my opinion, and I am not speaking for other men. My guess is that most of the time men will compliment you--without meaning it. why becuase men appreciate that fact you sucked on a cock--something they think is dirty and disgusting and would never do themselves. Now on the other hand if you hear "My god that was so good--how did you do that" yah know you are good.
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dumblonde
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Mar 14 @ 4:46PM
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yes, r_jones...YOU understood the question...thanks!
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path76
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Mar 14 @ 7:34PM
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If he says nothing, then it most likely was not very good. But if he said that it was great, then it was great. When a man takes the time to ask you if he did well. He is most likely searching to see if you would like something changed in his oral action to you. I love it when a Lady directs me in how to best please her. Communications are important for both partners. But unfortionately most Ladies don't like to talk about sex. What a shame.
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terry10965
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Mar 14 @ 11:44PM
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Ash....... got it right. If a bj is really good most guys well talk to you while you suck his dick. Beware though, some will say things just to get her to keep trying.
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bvatl
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Mar 19 @ 11:16AM
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I approach this in a two-fold way.
First off I have a HUGE tendency to give positive feedback during sex.
Makes her feel special and safer which again enables her to give more of herself, being less self-conscious.
I am A LOT more inclined to give direction WHILE (YES, CAREFUL, DEEPER, RIGHT THERE, DOOON'T STOOOP.....) rather than a critique at the end.
In my experience, very few, be that women or men, are capable of hearing an honest critique of their shortcomings at the end.
OTOH I can be accused of giving out "good reviews" even though the sex/blowjob was no good at all. I'd usually do this if I can see that this woman and I will not be an item for too long.
Did that answer your question?
BV
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Cipherx
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Mar 20 @ 2:50PM
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The answer you want is yes, no, and maybe. People are different and their responses will be different. What a lot of your posts are trying to tell you is to not worry about it. If he comes back for more, he probably meant it. He may have meant it even if he didn't come back. If you are just doing sex and not involved in a realationship, just enjoy yourself and accept what he tells you. If you are in a relationship, you should believe what you are being told.
I can, and do, always tell a woman that it was good because it was. Even if she didn't make me cum, it was still good. I wouldn't tell her it was great unless it was. If she wants to know how to improve, I will give suggestions. If I want her to improve without being asked, I will try to be more subtle but I will still give hints as to what feels the best. Something like, "That feels good," or "That feels really good," or "That's great, keep doing that."
Mostly, if you enjoy giving blow jobs and guys keep wanting them, quit worrying about it and just enjoy yourself.
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piotre
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Mar 20 @ 3:33PM
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your question whas how do YU know when you gave a good one
the answer is simple if he enjoys yu doing that to him you did it right [B]
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aveisis
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Mar 21 @ 2:27PM
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if he cums from a BJ then he had a good time. i love to swallow so i always make sure i do a good job.
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beach4u
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Mar 24 @ 5:46PM
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DB...I think you are asking if we say you did great or not. I always tell the lady I'm with by taking her in my arms and holding her and trying to show her how much I loved it, that way, not by saying "baby you suck a great cock" The same from a lady after I have done oral on her. If she can have a conversation after then I didn't do a very good job on her. I don't think it's so much in the words but in the actions after we have oral sex.
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drcalthor
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Mar 27 @ 8:58PM
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If it's great, say it is great. If she does it at all, compliment her and then give more guidance the next time. Unless she bites, it's all good.
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RawDeal
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Mar 31 @ 7:58PM
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honestly will always be a winner in my book and the deeper with honesty is an absolute WINNER
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knottione
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Apr 1 @ 8:03AM
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Yes i will lick you extra hard for your efforts................
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Lzrdkng
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Apr 1 @ 7:34PM
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I'll tell her while she is giving me a blowjob how good it feels. If it turns out that she does not have the skills, I will stop her. However, I probably would not tell her she did not do it well. Or I might direct her in doing a better job. Here is a good example of that.
When I first started having sex and giving women oral, I was very awkward. Then I had a girlfriend who enjoyed being eaten out and was very vocal as to what I should and shouldn't do to her. The speed, the pressure etc.........Because of that I feel that I use my tongue very well and really do enjoy getting a woman off repeatedly with it.
The actions and sounds from a woman will tell the guy what to do and if she enjoyed it.
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ClydeMaxx
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Apr 2 @ 8:18PM
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Most of the blow jobs I get are not that great...but I still act the part...an occasional moan...a couple "that's it"...and always end with "that was awesome" or "fantastic"...no wonder so many woman say thay give the best blow jobs...LOL..but I do truly appreaciate any blow job I get...and I dont want to hurt anyones feelings.
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ClydeMaxx
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Apr 3 @ 7:23AM
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I always give fake compliments. So I never believe any compliments I get. One day I over heard an ex of mine telling someone else that I was the best she ever had. That is when I finally believed some of the good things girls would tell me. So I guess the only real way to find out is through your partners friends. Believe me, guys and girls are honest when telling their friends everything.
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steveson276
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Apr 5 @ 2:41AM
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If he doesn't let you know he's gonna cum, its not a good blow job!
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allforyou999
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Apr 5 @ 4:55PM
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If its good you will know it
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usa2000mbm
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Apr 9 @ 9:07PM
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always, always tell the lady it was great!
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Wordsofwit
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Apr 12 @ 10:51PM
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Well, a shit load of comments and a diverse spectrum of thought. I would base the answer on the volume of cum. But compliments on thiss ubject are like any othe with somebody,r like dinner for instance. Very rarely will someone say a meal is awful even if it is. Polite decorem dictates saying little but expressing the appreciation of the substandard effort without critquing the result.
But as a veteran, the bottom line is simple, if it is really good, I will drown you. If it it is mediocre but I want it, you just get a squirt or dribble. I do enjoy the latter, but dream of the former as it is very rare.
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hotathlete
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Apr 15 @ 11:11PM
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ill tell ya my opinion when u come over 
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Thick8forUn04
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Apr 16 @ 2:39PM
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there really is not a bad blowjob,because any licking or sucking on my cock feels good,as for women,if your licking away,pumping your tongue in and out,teasing,licking,and nursing on her clit,and you hear her breathing deepin,feel her tighten up,or start moving her hips,ect.if your eating a woman and doing a good job,you can tell
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mistrmann1231
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Apr 18 @ 1:27PM
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Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob? 
I dont think so.. I think if a man exspresses "That was great" I think he is appreciative that he got the blowjob in the first place... Being a man.. i find it hard to find women that like to give a blowjob.. I know you women are there it is just that not too many are quick to go there... 
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thedude0156
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Apr 22 @ 8:56PM
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never had one to give an openion on
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canuhelpme258
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Apr 27 @ 8:56PM
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A guy should always ALWAYS tell her it was a very close second... if she practices, she can be number one.... It is a good way to ensure a repeat.... 
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:04PM
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I just say I enjoyed myself without getting specific and technical. It's sex ... the whole experience counts.
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:05PM
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There's no such thing as a bad blow job, the effort by itself is sexy and a turn-on. It is never bad as far as I'm concerned.
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:06PM
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Sex is not an examination, grades are not needed. Appreciation for one another is the most important thing.
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:08PM
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I love giving oral to ladies ... the sweet taste and musky smell is a turn-on and a reward all by itself.
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:11PM
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I love the feeling of that wet tongue caressing my shaft and teeth that bite down gently on it.
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:14PM
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69 is a great position ... we can give each other real-time oral feedback.
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:15PM
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:15PM
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:16PM
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:18PM
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Wannasuck? 
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bentan
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May 2 @ 7:19PM
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Let's top that off with the big nine-oh! 
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licklaughcuddle
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May 3 @ 1:53AM
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While I really haven't had a bad blow job...I have been given some very incredible ones...I do know what feels good to me when a woman goes down on me and if my partner is someone I'm comfortable (and she usually is), then I feel ok to make some gentle suggestions as to what I like! Of course, I love a woman who swallows...Conversely, if when I go down on a woman, I'm happy to do things in ways that turn her on and please her, therefore I enjoy it if my partner tells me what she likes (and even how, if need be)...just tasting, licking, and eating pussy is a turn-on for me...
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custis
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May 4 @ 3:07PM
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I always tell a lady that it was great, whether it was or not. She went the extra mile to please me and I will not pop her bubble.
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b82nite
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May 4 @ 9:42PM
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If indeed you need a truthful answer, stop by, we'll decide together.
*giggle*
If I don't like the way sex, of any type is going, I speak up, it must be heard !
I don't want to have sex again, with this person, if the blow job, rakes the skin, off my polished penis.
Guys...do all men a favor, and tell them if it is lousy.
l mean damn-it...one of us might be next !!
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mike4you
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May 6 @ 5:07AM
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Any blow job is great!!! I just cum faster with some than with others but any woman who sucks my cock is awesome in my books.....now if you swallow, that's a bonus...as for eating pussy, i luv2 eat pussy and i'm told i'm damned good at it too...lots of practice as well as guidance from ladies when I ask if they are enjoying it!
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phil4u39465
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May 7 @ 11:45PM
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hey sweetie!usually to be honest with u,a guy's never gonna say that u didn't give good head.If it's good,you usually won't have to be told,u'll just be able to tell by our body language.
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asexpartnerwanted
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May 12 @ 7:03PM
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if i cum in her mouth then it was excellent
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asexpartnerwanted
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May 12 @ 9:45PM
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if a woman gives a good blow job...do you tell her?? i would tell her of course
If she gives a not so good one...what do you tell her, if anything? depends i guess. if i cum, i'd definitely tell her it was good, if i didn't then i would probably still tell her it was good.
In other words...if a man tells me it was great...does that mean it really was great...or do you always say that no matter how good it was... I may elaborate a little and help her know exactly how it was, especially if asked. If we go straight to fucking... then may be no time for chit chat  And, if someone says it was great then it most likely was.
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sgt8slut
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May 16 @ 11:09PM
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everybody tells me how good i do it, so i think that men should always compliment you, if they don;t then dump them....
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mercur
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May 18 @ 11:15PM
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I always made sure that my response let her know how great it was.
Women always (almost) lie to men about how good it was, which I hate.
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amrniceguypa
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May 20 @ 8:18AM
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Hi, I never complain about a bad blow job, but do compliment many times about a good one. But the blow job isn't what i trully enjoy most, I really love to please a lady thoroughly.
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JASPERCOUPLE
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May 21 @ 12:17AM
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If he thinks it's good...trust me
you will know it.....
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joy_in_a_small_package
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May 26 @ 8:29AM
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I like it when he's telling me how good it feels when i'm giving him one. telling me how godd it was after is a bonus
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slohand_47
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May 30 @ 1:04AM
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I would guess you are not speaking in general terms. I would further guess that you performed oral sex for a guy, he said it was great...... but you're just not sure. Since what I would do has no corelation with what HE would do.... it's hard to answer. But, IF sex with a lady was just ok...... I would never say anything to that effect. IF it was pretty darn good, I still don't say much... (too many years of having kids in the next bedroom)..... BUT, a couple ladies I've encountered over the years were really, and I mean REALLY good at performing oral sex and yes, I said so afterwards.
So, if he said it was great, there's a pretty good chance that for him it was.
I've never asked a woman how was it after I've performed oral sex. After the 3rd or 4th orgasm in a row, I'm reasonable sure I'm getting all the right spots. I can't recall any of them ever said it was great in so many words, but many of them simply said..... thank you..... afterwards.
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lookingforsomeonewhocares
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Jun 1 @ 3:53PM
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Personally, If she is not doing it correctly(as I think it should be done to me) I correct her. There is no need in letting her go through the trouble if I'm not enjoying it fully. I expect the same out of her when it's my turn to return the favor. If I'm not doing it right, tell me about it(haven't had that problem since I was taught how to by a woman much older than I was at the time), Having said that, if I compliment, you can take it to the bank I mean it.
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touch_the_sky
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Jun 1 @ 6:26PM
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I'd say it was great no matter what. That way you know she's at least going to keep doing it, and practice makes perfect, right? Tell a girl or guy that they aren't so good at it will only stop them from wanting to do it.
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love_glove
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Jun 8 @ 7:02PM
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well, if he says without bein asked then you can bet it was great, if you ask then you should listen carefully to his tone of voice: "it was grrreeeeeeat" means it was great, "it was great" means it wasn't. You are greeeeeeeat! Fa
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tmarkert2003Yaho
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Jun 8 @ 7:38PM
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I NEVER tell her it was good unless it was..
I would take it as a compliment..
I have only ever had to say the negative ONCE and that was because she was sucking so hard she left a hickie on the head of Jimmy!!!!!!! Peeing was HELL for days
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Stillalone778
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Jun 9 @ 4:05PM
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I personally always say its was great your the best. I just feel bad afterward. cause blow jobs are sorta like a one sided deal.
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worldexplorer46
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Jun 17 @ 1:01AM
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Honesty and communication is Number 1. If your blowjob was good he should say so, if not then he should tell you what he likes and vise versa
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abodyman4u2
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Jul 29 @ 7:21PM
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O.K, here it is,If a woman gets you off, with a blow job,you say that was great! If she swallows,you say that was the best I have ever had. If you dont get off, you say thanks, and continue on!
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LadyMarie
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Jul 29 @ 7:27PM
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Well, I think if the man's eyes roll back in his head and I bring him to ejaculation..then I can assume the blowjob was a damn good one
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ou81289
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Jul 30 @ 1:51PM
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I agree there is really no such thing as a "bad" blowjob. Some are definatley better than others. Even if she doesnt ask Ill tell her it was good cause as one of your other responders said, "it increases the chances of a repeat performance." For me personally it could never happen enough.
If you notice on the overwelming majority of the womens essays on this sight, the answer to the question of what they do well sexually is oral. I suspect that most guys are like me and they tell them that no matter what. The percentage of women who are actually "good" or "great" at it is really quite low.
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bigal01
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Aug 15 @ 10:15AM
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any blow job is better then none bbut i have given praise to women who give good head and corrected women when needed i also ask a women if im doing her right or do i need to change 4 her i take no offense communication is vital to a good sexual relationship by the way wanna blow me lol 
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buckeyebillie
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Aug 17 @ 5:13PM
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If you want to give a good blow job, then let it be great for you. Let yourself get into it fully. When your man feels you enjoying it.........it increases his enjoyment many times over. The more you get into it the more he gets excited. As a man, I try to give a woman every sensation that I think would feel good to me if I were lying there. When the blow job is finished, if both are sensually satisfied, and they can be, then it was a great blowjob.
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onions2006
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Aug 18 @ 4:22PM
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Communication is key to great sex in any way.Saying what you like and how you like it.Its all about pleasuring your partner,not yourself,thats her end of it.If you are not afraid to tell all,it will be the most satisfying.
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hornyguy1955
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Aug 25 @ 4:41PM
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HI,I WOULD TELL HER IF SHE IS GIVING A GOOD BLOW JOB,I WOULD BE HONEST WITH HER,THE SAME GOES,IF I AM EATING HER,I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF THE WOMAN I AM WITH,LIKES THE WAY I AM EATING HER,KEEP EVERYTHING OPEN,TALK TO EACH OTHERS,
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allforyou999
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Aug 28 @ 5:02PM
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What a turn off for me is when the lady starts and she stops and says, don't cum in my mouth . It is a major turn off
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latinescapade
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Sep 6 @ 3:52AM
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Simple! 99.99999% of men love a BJ! So however great or not it actually was we will almost always praise our partner. With that said, when a BJ is really good we show it through actions (they speak louder than words). Our toes will curl, our eyes will roll back, we may even make chipmunk noises... lol So don't believe everything we tell you, it's the body language that will let you know the truth.Than again, even with a not so good blowjob we will be very happy and thankful!
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NaturalMan247
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Sep 6 @ 4:07PM
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If the guy is still coherent enough after a blowjob to be able to critique it even with just a few words,then it was not good enough,nah!,I am joking!,seriously,when a man says it was good,he is being sincere,even if it was not the best he ever had,
all men love blowjobs,and any decent man will show you his appreciation of your effort,if not in words,then by kissing your head or stroking your hair,to let you know that you that your efforts are not going unnoticed,and to encourage you along the way. If by some chance,he gives you some constructive advice on how to do it better,if he is polite about it,then you should give it some thought,because
this means that your skill is worthy of improving upon,and he will most likely reciprocate on you as soon as he recovers! If the man is crass enough to say it was no good at all,without any advice or appreciation,then you should dump him like there's no tomorrow,and find a guy with some class who deserves your intimacy. Dumbblonde? I don't think so! Even just by asking this question,shows me otherwise!
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darthmaul
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Sep 6 @ 6:11PM
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if a woman gives a good blow job...do you tell her?? If she gives a not so good one
Preface: There's no such thing as a awful blowjob.
But there are ways of telling. Does he vocalize? I'm not the most vocal of guys, but I'll let a woman know "yeah, that's good" or "I like that" or "keep doing that". And if it's really good, we will make chipmunk noises, and depending on our ability to reach you, to stroke your hair, head, cheeks, boobs or hands.
And if we're twitching uncontrollably after-the-fact, it's either a epileptic siezure, or it was completely fantastic with an orgasm TOO THE MOON!
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redman68938
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Sep 6 @ 7:59PM
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well i never had any complaints , but a very good indication if a woman is enjoying what your doing to her is she cant stay still and trying to get away ,lol if she squrming the she will also moan . one day a good friend of mine was talk to my girl at the time she told her about how good i was. most ladies if its good they wont stay still. as for getting it if she good at it then i will tell while shes doing it , besides most girls will look you in the eye to see if shes doing good . but if she bad at it , she will never get me to pop a nut ,lol and the worse of all is if she gets her teeth in the way , then i would just come out and tell her she sucks at it
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leathernlace42
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Sep 7 @ 11:44PM
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Hey db, I used to wonder the same thing.
No feather in my cap here, but I heard comments so often like "OMG that was the BEST BJ I've ever had in my life", "Best since I was in college", "WOW, *sigh*, WOW", saying these things all sprawled out as if they had just ran a marathon or lifted weights for the past hour when i had done all the work....one guy even got very defensive at one point and accused me of being a "professional" and thought it was some sort of set up (yeah, that was freaky).... anyway, being a woman, and having no real way to compare my "techniques" shall we say.... i thought that all guys tell all girls the same thing so i wasn't much impressed.
But then my ex said something that caught me by surprise... he said... "outta ALL the women i've been seeing, NONE of them even come close to giving as good a head job as you and that really pisses me off" (now you know why he is my EX, anyway that's another story for another blog)... It got me thinking...
I've been with several men who've gone down on me and there was the "okay, this just isn't working, let's try something else" (of course i would never tell him that, i'd just guide him to a new position) and the "hmmm, he's pretty good, I can lay here and enjoy this for awhile, just take alittle longer, but mmmm", movign up to the "hey...he's done this before, oh yeah baby, don't stop" and finally the "OMG, grab the sheets, squirm, squirt, scream...hallelujah I've gone to heaven!
I do express my appreciation sincerely and honestly and to the degree it was appreciated and have cum to believe men do the same! To sum it up, if he/she enjoys it and shares his/her appreciation and both are satisfied...that's what it's all about!
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yoursextoy314
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Sep 11 @ 3:17AM
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Hi Dumblonde If you gave me a good blow job I would let you know by licking your PUSSY jest as good. Lynn
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ImAbaadMan
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Sep 12 @ 12:41PM
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A bit off subject, I know. But I think that if a guy is going down on you and you aren't getting much out of it, you should direct him. Let him know what you like. How else is he going to know that his technique is in need of refinement? Also, what works for you might not for someone else. I know that for some women, its all about a little sucking on their clit, while other are more sensitive, and prefer light stimulation to the lips and clitoral hood, others really like the skilled use of hands.
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