For the Ladies…and guys if you’re curious posted 3/5/2007 11:57:31 PM | 5 kudos what's this?     report abuse

ksk72

I get a lot of questions about how I think and do things in real life and after reading a few blogs, comments and emails I get, I think some of my answers would help some of the women on here a little to. This is not meant to be insulting in anyway and is nothing but my personal views. I just spend a lot of time talking to guys that tell me all the time “I wish I could find someone like you” and a lot of time on and offline getting the How do you…from other women so I am putting my answers out here for everyone to read.

The big question I get all the time is. How do you get all the men you get…
They are very often referring to the fact that for some (self centered bitch) reason they think I date men (when I am single) I am not worthy of or that are out of my league so to speak.

Yes I am fat, I wear a size 20 and shop in the plus size stores. But that doesn’t mean I am not cute or attractive because I am. But 90% of my sex appeal has nothing to do with my looks. It has to do with my personality and attitude. I am very outgoing and open minded and I don’t have a problem saying so. Men find my sexual openness very attractive. I also have a very strong desire to please men in anyway I can and they seem to pick up on that. I don’t know how true it is but I blame that on my Asian half and being raised by my mother to be very nurturing of the opposite sex.

Part 2 of the first question is how do I keep them begging for more.

Very simple again, I take care of my man. There is almost no limit to what I will do for the sake of my man. I take a lot of pride in my abilities and yes even have a slight ego about it. This desire to take care of my man is not only in the bedroom but in my everyday routine as well. I also make sure to keep things fresh and new. The same old routine gets boring for anyone. Experiment and have fun once in awhile it will make everyone happier.

The Other question I get all the time is how I remain so upbeat and happy all the time.

Well that’s easy as far as the rest of the world is concerned they can all Fuck Off it’s all about mind over matter. I don’t sit around dwelling on the worthless, mean spirited, unhappy opinions of others. I just figure their life must suck and I never let it get to me. Other people’s opinions don’t truly have anything to do with my daily life if I don’t let them. The assholes of the world don’t come home with me and ruin my life. I take everything with a grain of salt and move on. I try to keep positive things around me and push away the negative. If I happen to have a down moment I just remember the things in life I do have that many don’t. I have my beautiful son, I have the love of a wonderful man and my two dogs that always seem to know just when mom needs a big slobbery kiss to get her mind off things. I am a firm believer people need to learn to enjoy the things they have and stop living for the things they don’t have.

And I live by my own golden rule:

If everyone would just lighten up and have more sex the world would be such a happier place.

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