First of all, this blog ROCKS!
Yes I am fat, I wear a size 20 and shop in the plus size stores. But that doesn’t mean I am not cute or attractive because I am. But 90% of my sex appeal has nothing to do with my looks. It has to do with my personality and attitude. I am very outgoing and open minded and I don’t have a problem saying so. Men find my sexual openness very attractive. I also have a very strong desire to please men in anyway I can and they seem to pick up on that. I don’t know how true it is but I blame that on my Asian half and being raised by my mother to be very nurturing of the opposite sex.
Next, this statement here could have been written by me - though I couldn't have said it any better! You hit the nail on the head with this one, at least, in terms of my experience. Attitude is everything - though sexy lingerie and giving great head helps :)