Look guys...consider this venue as if you are at a party or a bar...do you walk up to women in a public place and say..."wanna see my cock?"..."wanna watch me jack off?"...or, "wanna fuck?"...
consider this site as a kind of party...people talking, mingling, trying to get to know each other...approach women as you would in person, friendly, perhaps flirtatious, but not rude or graphic...perhaps then you will get a reply...
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conrad1111
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Mar 5 @ 11:34PM
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i can't imagine how many ridiculous messages women must get from 'no pussy' gettin' fellas who don't know how to 'approach' virtual women...let alone the real thing
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emewz44
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Mar 5 @ 11:36PM
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Great advice! and i have been laughed at for the same comment. 
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NYCStud3135
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Mar 5 @ 11:41PM
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lol its hard to believe people actually do that.
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NightOfOld
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Mar 5 @ 11:43PM
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Good advise darling.
I have never sent a email like that.
But i know plenty others do. hope
they listen. 
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Looking4ever
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Mar 5 @ 11:45PM
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Might be hard to believe, NYCStud, but, trust me, it happens. And then they are pissed when they get turned down. Gee, wonder why? Some really treat this as an internet whorehouse, figuring if they want it all they have to do is say so and we are expected to comply. Fortunately though, most guys (that I've heard from) are fairly decent. A few think that they are expected to approach with the come on and when told that it was found to be offensive, offer an apology. I appreciate that about those that can take that bite of humble pie.
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BelAir789
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Mar 5 @ 11:45PM
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Is it rude to say I like your undies?! 
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bvatl
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Mar 5 @ 11:52PM
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Actually..... "Wanna fuck?" works amazingly well.....
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conrad1111
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Mar 6 @ 12:06AM
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^^^^
sure it does
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ShadowsAngel
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Mar 6 @ 12:16AM
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Actually Conrad... bvatl is correct when he says that it works amazingly well. If it didn't work they would stop using it and as every decent woman on the site can tell you the volume of "wanna fuck" emails isn't going down.
"Wanna fuck" is kinda like shooting fish in a barrel. You are gonna miss a few, you will wound a few and you will have a few that go belly up.
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conrad1111
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Mar 6 @ 12:20AM
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suspicious, but I'll take your word for it 
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GryGoast
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Mar 6 @ 12:23AM
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Ya ... "wanta fuck" prolly dose work ... if what you want is to get fucked.
I prefer a lil more
Godspeed
Master Gry
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DickSlippery
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Mar 6 @ 12:23AM
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So...after we get 2 know one another...wannafuck?
DS 
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scotsmon1000
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Mar 6 @ 12:59AM
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No disrespect dear--- but if a woman showed me her naked ass with a rose tattoo--I just might think she was trolling for action!---ya think?
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scotsmon1000
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Mar 6 @ 1:01AM
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Excuse me--heart tattoo--got a little excited!
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100PERCENTFORD
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Mar 6 @ 1:06AM
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hey u said it so well.. couldnt put it in better words myself cupcake....its just like meeting in person... i like your profile u look really nice
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joe_mch
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Mar 6 @ 3:02AM
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Wanna see my cock....sorry...I love you
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Natgoat
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Mar 6 @ 3:17AM
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NO . . I wouldn't...!
I'd say " Well! . . What Lovely Hair..!! Is it difficult to keep it so Pretty..?? "
- Some guys{BelAire} have such low class that they don't realize what they're missing...having their face *Slapped* more often than the 3-Stooges...!!!
- A _Lady_ thinks that Manners Count...!!! -
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Natgoat
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Mar 6 @ 3:19AM
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. . .d b . . .
May I have the next Dance...?? . . 
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FFMatt
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Mar 6 @ 3:31AM
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No disrespect dear--- but if a woman showed me her naked ass with a rose tattoo--I just might think she was trolling for action!---ya think?
And if she is looking for action? With a ratio of over 10:1 men to women... she gets to be as picky as she wants. and if 9 out of 10 of those guys deside to send her "Wanna fuck" e-mails... and one of them actually tries to have a decent conversation with her... who is she going to choose... I mean Fortune may favor the bold, but the unusual characteristics always draw the most attention.
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FFMatt
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Mar 6 @ 3:33AM
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btw lass, wanna fuck? 
    
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TomJ4458
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Mar 6 @ 3:43AM
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That may be true in certain circumstances, such as a yuppy bar or at a political fund raising but unless Bill Clinton were appearing I doubt that you'd be wearing nothing but thongs. Go figure.
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cktocl
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Mar 6 @ 6:43AM
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Interesting..... I had sent you a pleasant e-mail intro awhile back. We exchanged to e-mails. The others I sent were ignored. Yet I did not sent photo of my dick or ask if you if you want to fuck.
So if being polite does not get your attention and you are repulsed by the wanna fuck question. How does on get your attention?
There seems to be a double standard here.
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Lisa46
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Mar 6 @ 8:32AM
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good point blonde!! but you as well as I know it isn't going to help!! MEN think cause we are here they can stilll be rude!! common courtesy is gone i think 
but maybe just maybe it will come back someday???
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Taisen
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Mar 6 @ 9:05AM
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Well I prefer the nicer messages and I ignore the ones with " hey wanna fuck " . Now I try to be nice and reply to anyone who is nice to me but not to be rude not everyone who is sending me nice messages are what I find interesting.
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donwv69
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Mar 6 @ 9:32AM
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hey dumblonde can we say HELLO GREAT ASS NOW LETS FUCK lol , sorry had to say it , i dont think i would want to fuck someone unless i at least talked to them had a drink or dinner or something
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mr_smedheader
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Mar 6 @ 12:34PM
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The people who need the advice are never going to be the ones reading blogs.
I think you're preaching to the choir.
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curious1380
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Mar 6 @ 12:38PM
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Great statement from a "real" woman I never understood how women put up with all the trash on sites like this Kudos to u
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devilstar05
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Mar 6 @ 12:47PM
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I'm never rude in the slightest bit, but I never get replies, which I understand is because I have no picture post...I guess the question would be...how do you want to be approached?
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maliciousdestruction
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Mar 6 @ 1:30PM
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Hey now, at closing time in a bar, Wanna Fuck seems to work fairly well, of course sometimes in the morning i wish it hadnt worked so well lol, at closing time everyone looks better.
But i get your point, cant believe men write emails that crude.
Malicious Destruction
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ynot7769
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Mar 6 @ 1:56PM
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good info
damn shame of the fact is those who probably need it the most....can't or don't read 
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maggiemae1969
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Mar 6 @ 2:02PM
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everybody is really saying the same thing......... let me add this ........ if you are respectful , kind and considerate ,that is exactly how you will be treated...... so you pick how the lady responds upon hitting send ........... 
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33john
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Mar 7 @ 12:14AM
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your photo is hot as hell,, I may post something under a photo,,, this is playing..... you'll never get that same responce in an Email....
I have to respect any woman that will post a nude or semi nude on this site.... so far I have to say everyone is great on here....
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Natgoat
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Mar 7 @ 2:07AM
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....Speaking of ' Go Figure...' . .
I've got Photos posted {One like 'this', and one like 'this'} and my Profile is filled out{Openly and Honestly} to within an Inch of it's Life...!!
. . . . . And my polite letters STILL get Ignored {more often than not} . .
Maybe I'll try new photos....with my checkbook in One hand { wads of $100 bills hanging out of it..} and a leash in the other...leading to a collar...around the necks of
Tom Cruise and Ben Affleck..!!!
It's Bloody Frustrating...!!!
. . I'm about ready to chuck the whole process and start 'Woman-Bashing' ...and see how the shoe fits on the other foot...!!!
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taksiarz
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Mar 7 @ 11:48PM
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maybe you're right, but do you sit at the party with almost naked butt??? lady??
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aspertame
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Mar 8 @ 12:03AM
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Am I peering into your gorgeous eyes baring the windows of you soul? Or am I seeing your tatooed ass wearing a thong. Is there a double standard here? what do you expect?
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sumdaysoon
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Mar 8 @ 1:39PM
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friendly and/or flirtatious does not get many responses either......or it could be that i am married......at least i told the truth........but if i had 150 e-mails a day in my mail i would have to just delete some too.......
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asexpartnerwanted
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Mar 9 @ 5:32AM
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blonde - agree with you 100%
I get replies to all my mails - okay well most
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33john
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Mar 12 @ 12:11AM
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Blonde is 100 % on the money,,, she in her photo is showing her tatt,, it is on her ass,,, and very HOT... she is not asking you to fuck her ,,, I don't see a reguest you watch you jack off....nor to see your pee pee....... take the E mail for what there worth,, trash'm....... as far as partys with thong wrapped tattoo ass,, bet your ass ,, bike ralleys , river party,, beach flings .. there all look don't touch run whata brung....
on the other hand I look at your photo and Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm boy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!     
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duwant1
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Mar 12 @ 12:20AM
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chantel
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Mar 27 @ 11:28PM
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Couldn't agree with you more. 
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funnygirl730
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Mar 29 @ 5:51AM
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to the guys responding to this pointing out the nude pics.most woman are looking for great sensual sex not to fuck and a man worth anything knows there is nothing sensual about wnana fuck.
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Lancer525
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Mar 29 @ 10:53PM
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I've not posted to many blogs, nor have I sent out a great deal of mail "trolling" for candidates, but have rather been fairly selective in my overtures, in that I have attempted to comply with the requests, likes, dislikes, and interests of those ladies who I find attractive. Imagine how disconcerting it actually is to write a thoughtful, tasteful, and profile-specific message, only to have it ignored.
"wanna fuck" may work for some, but I could never treat another human being that way, much less assume that just because this is an adult site that a Lady is anything less. So that's out.
I might be the tenth guy, the other nine having tried that line, and I still get ignored.
I think the best explanation came from the charming lady across the state who actually bothered to reply, and divested of herself the opinion that I was probably on the wrong site, because I sounded too intelligent and polite to be straight!
Go figure.
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Thick8forUn04
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Apr 16 @ 2:44PM
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i said something like that on another adult dating site and got comments back like,are you gay.LOL.
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Pegasus_
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Apr 17 @ 10:02AM
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To the guys who blame the choice of picture a woman posts:
While I agree with you if the picture is overtly sexual (since we men are visually stimulated) there is a difference, and you can usually tell from the picture what the intent is. In 'blonde's case, the picture is clearly designed to show off her tatoo, and maybe just tease a little bit, since it IS on her butt.
I think some of the problem is generational. With todays rediculously easy accessibility to wanton and gratuitous porn in the comfort of your home, as well as women wearing less and less on TV it seems, someone raised in this environment is less likely to be instantly turned-on by a picture like Blonde's. For those that are a bit older, less is more, to put it succinctly. So I think for some, a picture like Blonde's is an instant turn-on with associated implications, while for others, it's just cute, which I think was more her intent.
To the ladies, perhaps it's best to liken "wannaf--k" mails to cat calls, wolf whistles & horn honks (which are just as stupid.)
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regularguy354
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Apr 28 @ 3:18PM
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I hear you! What's funny is the number of women I've corresponded with and when they turn their cam on, they're already naked or almost naked. Sorry, I'm not often interested in that.
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funromanticer
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Aug 30 @ 11:05PM
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Hi all I have read your posts and thought I would say something lol. I will say this almost everyone is more than likely on this site to talk at least talk about sex. Other wise you would be in site that does allow the things that this site does. I mean get real you have pics of womens ass and mens dicks and even people fucking lol. Some one may be saying they are not wanting sex but to just meet some one special. The real question is special at what lol.
Some women want a man to take her slowly some want a man to take her now. But I think if every lady was honest you would say I am looking for sex of some kind for the end result of me being here. Same with the guys or we would all be in a site where the rules are much more controlled. Its fun to talk sex it is waht adults do. Some use more refined words like oh baby eat my vagina and some say eat my cunt yuo fucking bastard lol. So begins the game of finding the right way to approach the lady you want lol. It really is a game.
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cyzygy06
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Oct 14 @ 11:37AM
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You're question has some merit, however you can't directly translate this site to a casual party. I agree that the "rude" apporach rarely (if ever) works, but this site would probably be better compared to a sex party, rather than a social club scene. Taking a look at your profiles pics, would you be angry at a guy for staring at your chest, ass, or feet while he's talking to you? Most likely, yes. But those are the visuals you've chosen to portray yourself in here. So my retort to you is, if you want something more than "wanna fuck" type comments and questions, post some additional pics that show that your a real person, as opposed to just feet, tits, and ass (and what a nice ass it is, but I digress)... I don't EVER open with a rude or obscene comment or question, because I know that behind every pic is a real person. But you can not get angry because you post yourself in that light...however men will be men, regardless of what you post...but you'll have better odds of finding a decent guy if you shed better light on yourself.
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allen739
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Nov 5 @ 5:14PM
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This website is only for girls who put out. None of us have the right to get offended because we are all sleazy whores.
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PrincessKissy
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Nov 5 @ 5:46PM
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This website is only for girls who put out. None of us have the right to get offended because we are all sleazy whores.
Another career fist fucker show what life is all about for him
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charmer63
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Mar 10 @ 10:33PM
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well your hurting the numbers game here for us guy's who have a clue already, thanks!
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