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posted 3/1/2007 5:49:31 PM |
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As you can all tell from my pictures (posted here and others that I keep in a privet file) I have a very vast collection of lingerie. And I used to be a pure romance consultant, so the sex toys are varied too. I have some outfits I bought specifically for someone, and some sex toys I used with an ex. Now that I'm dating someone seriously, should I feel wrong about wearing and using these items with my new man? I know it sounds silly but sometimes when I think about the fact that Bob used this toy on me, or this was Joe's favorite outfit... I feel that it just dirties the whole thing. Im crazy, I know that... ::shrug:: what about you? Ever use toys and outfits bought for you and used with ex's with current men? Or have you been the current man? Would it bother you?

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Mar 1 @ 5:54PM  
If your current partner is happy with you wearing outfits or using toys that hold memories of former lovers then why should it worry you. I bought my ex some sexy lingerie and never got to see her wear it but if she did so for another lover it would not bother me.

Mar 1 @ 5:55PM  
well it just depends on what you are comfortable with, personally I just see it as a good excuse to buy new stuff

Mar 1 @ 5:57PM  
Hey! I used to sell Petra Lingerie! I have a pretty good sized collection my own self! And speaking from experience, sure I use my toys with a new man, and wear the lingerie too. It's not like I haven't washed the lingerie or sanitized the toys! lol Now would I let him use certain toys that he had from a previous relationship on me?? No Way! But toys are expensive (or at least my good ones are) and I see no point in throwing them away and they're sure not something I would sell at a yard sale!

Mar 1 @ 6:04PM  
I think because you are the only woman the lingerie and toys have been worn and used by it's ok. I agree that I wouldn't let him use some toy he used on another on me, but as long as he is ok with it--why not??

Mar 1 @ 6:53PM  
As long as they are clean? Who cares? They are just props.. it's YOU who he loves not the toys or clothes.

Mar 1 @ 7:34PM  
don't promote the fact that this was 'joes' favorite toy and he sure knew how to use it., this is your new man. he should understand that your no virgin, that you both had a past. use them as a tool to teach him what you like. thats part of the fun of a new relationship. to learn and explore. i've never been a big fan of lingerie, it looks nice, but it ends up in a pile on the floor, toys can be fun for hours and hours, be easy on the guy, he might even be compairing you to someone in his past too

Mar 1 @ 7:47PM  
I think as long as you did not keep commenting about him, I'd be okay with it.

Mar 1 @ 7:53PM  
If your partner has a problem with it, it's his/her problem. Not yours. If it were me, I'd say bring 'em along.

Mar 1 @ 9:37PM  
Ladie,,,,This is just me,,,,I have a large selection of toys,,,,I would never use them on my new man,,,If I had used them on my previous partner,,,,for the fact I would not want my new partner to do likewise on me,,,,,If they were toys I only used on myself,,,well of course I would use them with him,,,,,As for my Lingerie,,,,it is my Lingerie and would not see a problem with it....Good Luck with your decision....


Mar 6 @ 10:04PM  
OK...first:The toys are Urs. Unless U were shoving a dildo up his ass, in which case let him take it with him. As 4 the lingerie...well, that shit iz Urs 2!

Sure...this outfit may have been Joe's favorite, but if U give it a chance I am sure it can be Bob's favorite as well. (BTW, take it all off if U want 2 see my favorite!) So long as U like wearing them...wear them!

Me personally? I never understood spending all that money on shit that gets worn 4 a minimal amount of time B4 being ripped off Ur naked ass. THEN I started cross dressing! Once I had walked a mile in Ur pumps, I then understood how it could make U feel sexier - even if U are the only one who knows U are wearing it!

I don't understand it, but it iz 100% true that a $70 pair of La Perla panties feels better on Ur ass than a six dollar pair of Hanes Her Way panties ever will. Same thing with the rest of it. U can spend $15 once a month on a cheap bra, or U can spend $60 once a year for Victoria's Secret.

I fucking 4got what my point wuz. I started thinking about Ur ass in those La Perla paties and BING everything else just VACATED my fucking mind!!!! I guess that means Im done with this comment, huh?


Apr 9 @ 6:56AM  
I wouldn't worry about it. I have been with a lot of women and it never even entered my mind that an outfit was taken off for somebody else or worn for them. Same with toys. For that matter I never pondered questions like who licked this clit before. Never gave any of that a thought. You don't get a new bed after every break up do you?

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