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This is my first BLOG. Some of you have had questions about the whole sex policy that we have over here. I must admit that sometimes it is very confusing; even to us in the Army. I will try to lay it out the best I can; please keep in mind this is an ARMY BLOG and it might be very different in the other services.

OK; the word is FRATENERZATION. It basically means “are friends with”. This means no favoritism, hanging out together on off time, dating, and SEX! The word goes back a long time and it has changed a lot over the years. Believe it or not; when I first came in the Army at the end of the 80’s, single officers could date single enlisted. It sure is not that way anymore!

A few rules: Officers (Lieutenants, Captains, Generals, ect) can NOT fraternize (be “friends” with) any enlisted soldier (Privates, Corporals, Sergeants, ect)

A single officer can date a single officer; a single enlisted can date a single enlisted. But ONLY if they are not in each others chain of command. A female Lieutenant can not date a male Captain who is her commander; a female First Sergeant can not date someone who is one of her male Platoon Sergeants, Squad Leader, Privates, ect.

And the BIG one: Married people can NOT date! That is the one everyone forgets; and get in trouble for. Married people leave their spouses and get put together with a bunch of other lonely married people…It turns into High School; a very dangerous High School where people are trying to kill you. All women are a very hot commodity; they can have sex with anyone they want. And for a women who has been married for years and might feel a little neglected. It is a dangerous situation waiting to happen.

I forgot one important thing. You do not even need to be screwing someone to get in trouble; just the “perception” of fraternization is enough to get charged. So if you are married and you eat lunch with a married women more than one time; you guys MUST be shacking up! At least that is how everyone else sees it. Of course in the end it all comes down to one single word; JELOUSY… People hate it when someone else is getting it and they aren’t! It is just human nature.

So that is why porn is such a big thing over here. That is why guard towers have a roll of toilet paper and a trash can; it is a lot safer to take care of it yourself! Of course sex will ALWAYS happen. No one can stop it; but Uncle Sam sure does try.

I hope this helps clear some things up. If anyone has any questions please ask; or feel free to comment on anything…I have thick skin; I can take it! Thanks for reading this and have a great day

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Feb 25 @ 7:23PM  
I know one thing that might help........and I'm sending it your way now!!

Feb 25 @ 7:40PM  
As long as the job gets done, it should be a don't ask don't tell thing. I don't agree with married people fooling around, but it is a different situation over there, I'm not saying it's right but I can understand the stress and the fear and that you just want to have some of the feelings again, because you never know what might happen. I was in the Air Force and I remember it as being officers and enlisted did not date, but I know overseas it seemed a little bit more relaxed. Please take care of yourself over there and stay safe!!

Feb 25 @ 7:57PM  
Must be hard to find someone you are 'allowed' to be with. All the rules and who can do who and who can't. Just remember BE SAFE over there so you can come home and do whoever you want!!

Feb 25 @ 8:16PM  
Thanks for the Info....Be Safe,,,,,

Feb 25 @ 8:20PM  
Damn, all this talk about sex is making me horny! I wanna fraternize - ASAP.

Feb 25 @ 8:20PM  
Just think of all those horny men in one place, Sxze

Feb 25 @ 8:26PM  
Mmmmm, I know! Men in Uniforms...yum!

Feb 25 @ 10:49PM  
Sxze your right all that sex talk and men in uniforms just makes me horny

Feb 25 @ 10:55PM  
Speaking of Jealousy...Lets get something straight. I have what you want. There is no question about that. As for the one below me...I want to know what she sent...Do tell Dear Boy. Im curious. Not jealous. I only hope its not what I have reserved for you.

Feb 26 @ 8:39AM  
well I sure hope know one gets caught umm visiting with each other!!

I'm not in the army can I help I'll bring sxze and kissy with me

Feb 26 @ 1:44PM  
To you and all the other service men/women defending freedom.....

Feb 26 @ 1:56PM  
Hey Lisa can i go too????

Feb 26 @ 7:01PM  
So Ladies....since women are such a commodity overseas.......I say the gov should make arrangements for us women to go and Help take care of the "Army"......I am sure we could have a plane filled in no time.. ..God Bless and keep you all Safe till everyone comes home!!!!!!

Feb 27 @ 9:54PM  
kudos to you for writing a blog!!!!!

and damn.... I would have been in trouble a long freakin' time ago if I had been in the army!!!! lol!!!

Feb 27 @ 10:02PM  

Mar 1 @ 7:19AM  
Don't forget....

No doggy style is allowed... LOL
Dumb ass rule. I love doggy :( .

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