True to form, I jumped to conclusions first, asked questions later. Turns out my fuck buddy who made the comment about me having extra "cushion" when I fell down on the ice, did not mean a thing by it (as some of you who posted to my previous blog predicted).
After having no contact with one another since the comment was made, he approached me today, telling me how sorry he was for making the comment and how awful he felt for making me feel bad. He said he had no idea that weight was
an issue for me, and promised he'd never go there again!
Then it was my turn to apologize to him for jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst instead of just telling him he'd hurt my feelings straight up then and there.
We've kissed and made up. He invited me to go away with him next weekend.
It just goes to show that communication is SO important! I really learned my lesson about assuming things. Next time I'll ask questions before I leap! 
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Looking4ever
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Feb 18 @ 1:36PM
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Oh, gawd! You mean you're human?  Wow! I'm glad that got straightened out. 
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ynot7769
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Feb 18 @ 1:37PM
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 yeahhhh for you
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MEMEME69247
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Feb 18 @ 1:38PM
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Good for you,,,I truly am happy for you.....
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PrincessKissy
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Feb 18 @ 1:38PM
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Aww, so glad you've worked that out, and for the good, too! 
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ValentineGirl214
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Feb 18 @ 1:49PM
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I think we all have been guilty of jumping to conclusions to fast. Glad things worked out for you!!!
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alexfrommiami
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Feb 18 @ 2:06PM
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that's why men always want to see women naked.
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canuhelpme258
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Feb 18 @ 2:27PM
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 I'm so guilty of leaping first lol.... I need to learn that lesson.
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wtxman
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Feb 18 @ 5:32PM
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Thats a good lesson for all of us to learn,A kudo for you.
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enigmalone
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Feb 18 @ 7:07PM
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we all jump to conclusions
especially in lust< I as a Man/child do so even b4 I'm envolved. I see things not there..challenge myself and question.
Now, we wonder why shit happends?
Lol...
Go slow lucious lady and enjoy your friend...who know's might be the one!
Best wishes,
Brian 
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StraddleMyNose
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Feb 18 @ 8:24PM
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Glad you guys worked it out!
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uhohs
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Feb 20 @ 12:30PM
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Communication is the key to happiness. ^_^
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