At first glance no one would think that getting hit by anyone else for any reason could be in any way satisfying. I mean... there you are positioned just so, to make a target of yourself for the other person to apply hand, paddle, hairbrush, or some other instrument to your bottom; and for what? You know it's going to hurt. At least most people think it will.
But does it? How is it the body can convert what would seem to be painful and the mind something so humiliating into something else. How can a red and sometimes bruised bottom be arousing? What makes a person want to take a position exposed to another for the sole purpose of being smacked continuously on their bottom or other parts and come back for more?
Endorphins are neurotransmitters with an opiate like structure that bind to pain receptors and produce a sort of euphoria when they build up in the body. The continuous, steady application of spanks allows the buildup of endorphins over a period of time. Pain is magically converted to pleasure. Warmth spreads through the body. Sexual arousal takes place. What could be a painful, humiliating, insult, becomes a warming, friendly pleasure shared by two people undergoing a sexual arousal for mutual benefit. This takes practice to achieve for the spanker. It is mostly an acquired taste for the receiver, but many are sort of "born to it". Each must know or sense what the other can do to enhance their pleasure. For the spanker it is how hard, how long, just what is the "correct spot" to apply the spanks to at that moment, what they say, how they look... all this and what implement provides at that time the right amount of mix of "sting" and "pressure" for the varying state of the receiver's level of feeling. The receiver emotes by the way they move, the sounds they make, the looks they give, the arch of the back, the reflex to the impacts. Both play a part in the dance. It is an art.
Then there is the psychology of it too. To place yourself on someone's lap with your bottom exposed, or be otherwise positioned to their benefit, relieves you of responsibility for a time. It expresses trust, denies threat, and allows you to let yourself be carried away over a period of time when there is no time... only the steady buildup of feeling... the gradual accumulation of that euphoria that is not just internally, naturally "drug induced", but also related to the spanker's knowledge of what they are doing to you and your knowledge of what you are allowing to happen. To thus expose yourself is a release. So much so that many people can orgasm from it. When properly done, using a steady rhythm and the right pressure at the right time, it is sexual in a way only equaled by intercourse itself. For most, the friendly banter associated with it is also exciting. To be told that "this time you're going to get it good!", or that "I'm really going to enjoy this!" while you are taking a position or "I think we need to do this a lot longer!" or maybe "Is it getting warm yet?" while the spanks are being applied, adds a little titillation and excitement to the endeavor. Then there are the hours or even the day or two afterward when merely sitting down reminds you of the spanking itself and the pleasure you shared both during it and what followed.
This is fun. This is excitement. This is safe. This is comforting. This is sex without intercourse. This is spanking.
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