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Is there such thing as being too nice?

posted 2/9/2007 3:37:07 AM |
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  Rune_caster

I mean yesterday I sure went beyond my duties trying to help someone with thier car problems (read last blog)

I also had a woman take advantage of me about a year and half ago. Had her tell me she and her gf wanted a relationship with me only to have her break up with me only a few days later. The only reason I ever heard was from her gf several months later how it was all her idea when I got to michigan to use and hurt me, how she was never intrested in a relationship and had done it before. I even traveled all the way from Dallas up to Michigan by bus just to see her and that's the gratitude I get from her?

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mr_smedheader

Feb 9 @ 3:55AM  
Should have driven, mate. Can't be any worse than the Dallas to Florida drive I made.
StraddleMyNose

Feb 9 @ 4:29AM  
Ya gotta be careful...
BelAir789

Feb 9 @ 10:48AM  
You need cheering up, you should send yourself a virtual gift!!
cabl_guy

Feb 9 @ 12:33PM  
Unfortunately, in today's society, niceness equals weakness or vulnerability. That doesn't mean quit being nice! Just watch out for the users that'll fuck you over for being a nice guy. They're a dime a dozen!

Been there, done that, learned the hard way. Count it towards experience and watch for the same BS in the future from others. Being the 'nice guy' pays off in the end. Just watch out for all of the jackasses on your way.
DoIDetectAHIntOfTuna

Feb 9 @ 12:35PM  
Dallas to Michigan?!? Dallas to Florida?!? Holy crap those are pretty long drives just to see a woman. Is it really worth the commute?

I never realized men travelled so far to hook up with women until I saw last week's "To Catch a Predator" where a guy drove six hours to meet up . I think the longest I drove for an internet hookup was 80 miles.
GoDiva

Feb 9 @ 3:10PM  
I agree with comments. I remember when I just started going out to bars and connected with someone right away. The one comment that I remember that night that put me on notice was..."you look like an easy mark"....It went over my head until the realization that followed later.....

There will always be takers...more takers than givers.

Rune_caster

Feb 9 @ 3:30PM  
Yeah, I thought it was worth it at the time, I went by grayhound bus lines all the way up there and back. Next time I will take a plane there... lol

Finding out that her gf really loved me and was still in love with me months later was a little heart breaking though.., At least I have a very good friend that I still talk to that I would like to meet again someday still as friends.
Argit01

Feb 9 @ 5:56PM  
In answer to your blog title
Is there such thing as being too nice?
The answer is yes. It makes people see you as a fake or after something even if you are a genuinely nice person.
Raven_Silverfire

Feb 12 @ 1:56AM  
>hug< I'm sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately, there is such a thing as too nice. it happens to me alot. People walk all over you then until you finally get fed up and say something, to which they tell you you're just being bitchy.
Rune_caster

Feb 12 @ 2:05AM  
Raven_Silverfire thanks for the Hug.

No I will be alright, I just need a real gf not someone online that doesn't live near here...

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