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Tips from a rapest.

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:


1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.


2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women whose nothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut Clothing.


3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off and can be easily overpowered.


4) The time of day men are most likely to attack and rape a woman is in the early morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m.


5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms.


6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.


7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.


8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it.


9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands. Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.


10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small
talk, I can't believeit is so cold out here or we're in for a bad winter. Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a lineup, you lose appeal as a target.


11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.


12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.


13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh-HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it hurts.


14) After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble.Start causing trouble, & he's out of there.


15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.


16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

If you have daughters, sisters, friends, please share this with them.

It just might be a matter of life and death

Godspeed and good hunting

Master Gry

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Feb 4 @ 10:52AM  
Very informative. I'll buy my girlfriend a club and tell her to shave her head bald...

Feb 4 @ 1:09PM  
i am new .........but i will say......... .that it has been my experience that if you have no other choice.....and you are in a do the reach in and look a little acared and maybe like your gonna cry maybe beg a little lie ." no no please dont ... then reach down grab the WHOLE package BALLS AND UNIT be quick about it ....and squeeze and i do mean SQUEEZE as hard as you can and you can pretty much render any man useless and in tears long enough for you to run and get the freak out of there.......... ]
thanks for listening

Feb 4 @ 2:38PM  
Great blog! Thank you for caring.

Also, I would consider biting off an ear or lip off if I have to.

But I also carry a switch blade on my keys...I open it up when I am in a parking garage if I "feel" danger, I heard a whistle on a key chain is good too.

My problem is that I am fearless at night and sometimes alone. You shouldn't be alone if you can, ever...and ATM's are a problem out here.

Feb 4 @ 5:10PM  
The one thing that gets to me about this is the fact that it only holds a 3-5 yr In my eyes that is total bullshit.

Jul 18 @ 2:51PM  
Most excellent advice....

I was told some by some women who were getting attacked...that worked

one woman put her finger down her throat and threw up all over the man.... he went away gagging himself.

another woman just made an effort and just peed all over herself... again guy went away gagging.

Also taught some self-defense by policeman.... said to kick the shin with heel of foot when grabbed from behind..... hurts like heck... no protection over bone.... and they can't run because of the pain.

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