Above all else, He/She cherishes His/Her submissive, in the knowledge that the Gift she/he gives Him/Her is the greatest Gift of all. He/She is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Him/Her, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious Gift.
He/She is in control of Himself/Herself first and foremost, so that He/She may control others. As a stern and demanding Master/Mistress, He can cause His/Her submissive to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, He/She will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Master/Mistress will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He/She is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.
He/She would never ask a submissive to put Him/Her before her/his career, or family, just to satisfy His/Her own pleasure.
To win His submissive's mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, He/She knows He/She must first win her/his trust.
He/She will show His/Her submissive humor, kindness, and warmth.
He/She must always show her/him that His/Her guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her/his attention, that this is a Man/Woman that she/he can learn from, and trust His/Her direction.
He/She is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, He/She will fight for His/Her lady's/gentleman’s honor.
He/She proves to her/him that He/She is Someone she/he can lean on, and depend on.
When it comes time to teach His submissive her/his lessons of obedience, He/She is a strong and unyielding professor. He/She will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from His student.
Never does He/She use discipline without a good reason. When He/She does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
He/She is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her/his wants and needs.
He/She is patient, taking time to learn her/his limits, and knowing that as her/his trust in Him/Her grows, so will T/they.
He/She never has to demand ritual behavior by her/him
She/he responds to Him/Her out of the want of pleasing Him/Her.
Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment.
He/She understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Him/Her.
He/She is secure enough to laugh at Himself/Herself and the absurdities of life. Open-minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His/Her tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love.
He/She understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other.
And B/both of T/them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.
As the Dominant to my submissive I know that she/he gives herself to me in mind, body, soul and spirit and does so of her own volition. In me she/he has placed confidence, reliance, faith, hope, and dependence.
I will endeavor to ensure my submissives needs and desires are learned, and her limits are respected at all times. I understand that the gift of submission is priceless and will cherish it always.
Through my actions I will demonstrate that I am in complete control of myself thus allowing me impress upon my submissive the need to relinquish any control
she/he may subconsciously retain in order to facilitate our erotic power exchange.
I accept responsibility for my submissive ensuring that each decision I make in her regard is the best for her body, spirit and soul. Never will I place my submissive in jeopardy, nor will I compromise the trust she/he has placed in me.
In order to bring my submissive to new heights and understanding, I will work to achieve a vast knowledge of all aspects of the lifestyle, thus allowing me to be the teacher that she/he so richly deserves.
I will honor, defend and guard my submissive at all times showing that my love for her will provide a safe harbor in times of adversity.
My Dominant self is rooted both in reality and in fantasy, yet I can easily differentiate the two never allowing the fantasy world to overtake that of the real world.
In times of distress and hardship, I will shed the role of Dominant and provide for my submissive, a supportive partner and confidante.
While often unrelenting and strict, bringing my submissive to tears, I will always kiss away the tears that are shed showing my submissive that while stern, my heart belongs to her.
I vow never to lift a hand to my submissive in anger. When punishment is needed it shall always delivered with a tender and discerning hand and for a valid reason.
I pledge to my submissive patience and understanding, tolerance and steadfastness allowing us to grow and nurture the bond we have established so that it may withstand the test of time.
Above all else, I will wear the title of Dominant with great honor. Knowing this title is earned not just given or taken.
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