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EPE - Erotic Power Exchange

Erotic power exchange is any situation where the partners, of their own
free will and choice, actively and willfully incorporate the power element
in their lovemaking (and usually for a great deal in their relationship). Erotic
power exchange is best known as either BDSM, S&M, D/s or sadomasochism,
but these terms are all too limited, incorrect and too often confused with
stereotypes and forms of mental illness, which is why we like to call it
Erotic Power Exchange (EPE).

Erotic power exchange can take any shape or form within a relationship
between a man and a woman, a man and a man, a woman and a woman,
or any possible combination you can think of (and probably more than a
few you can't). From little things like simply blindfolding a partner when
making love to anything like 24 hours a day, 7 days a week dedication or

The shape and form it takes totally depends upon the fantasies, situation
and boundaries of the partners involved. As long as it is informed consensual,
safe, sane and voluntary it's called erotic power exchange. If any or all of
these four elements are missing, it's called abuse.

Next, erotic power exchange requires a specific environment. Call it a
biosphere, if you like. What it requires is a very sound, honest and sincere
relationship, intense and open communication, trust, a lot of mutual
understanding, an open mind, lots of love and care and a fair bit of creativity.

People will often ask: what's wrong with straight sex? Why add things like
power exchange. Well, there's nothing wrong with straight sex. But there
are people who want more out of their relationship. Maybe even more out
of life. Those are the people who will identify the power element that exists
in every relationship and start to work with it, play with it, explore and
experiment. We all have to deal with political power, for example, but not
all of us become politicians or even take an interest in politics.

Giving away power to your partner can be an immense erotic sensation.
Being tied up, relatively helpless and being launched by your partner into
your own fantasies and dreams - some submissive call that sub space -
can be thrilling, relaxing and revealing at the same time. Pain, tickling and
all sorts of other impulses - when administered with care and skill - can pump
up your endorphins, giving you the same sensations that participation in
intense sports will sometimes create. On the other hand, the dominant
partner will feel the adrenaline flow freely through their body, giving
them a very powerful feeling and a very intense and caring emotion at
the same time.

No, the people who do it don't need it to have an orgasm, but yes, they do
need the power element to be present and used in their relationship.

Erotic power exchange is a very individual, personal experience. That's why
it's very hard to describe what it is exactly. The only element all these
people have in common is the fact that they are fascinated by the power
element. What they do, how they do it and why may be completely different

Erotic power exchange is an umbrella argument. One couple may fill it in as
tying her up in bed, another may be fascinated by the idea of a "strange"
man walking into the bedroom capturing her and a third may have a
relationship where she serves him in any aspect. Erotic power exchange is
like golf: it's highly individual, you're the master of your own game and
you're also your own referee.

It's entirely about what you want to do. You don't have to copy others.
You don't even have to agree with what others do. It's your game, your
thoughts, your fantasies. It's what you and your partner share. It's being
able to explore the borders of your mind and imagination in a very safe

To many people erotic power exchange is not just about sex, but more of a
lifestyle. Most people who do it will recognize it as something very personal,
something very much belonging to themselves. To many it's simply the way
they express themselves.


Master Gry

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Feb 2 @ 1:47PM  
leaves me ....... longing ....

Feb 2 @ 5:28PM  
Excellent. It's not often that I learn a new concept that helps me think about something sort of confusing in a much clearer way. Kudo!

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