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my bf is a nice guy but he has a problem he cums in about 5 min all the time is there any thing i can do to help him

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Feb 1 @ 7:09AM  
Try one or all of the techniques below with him.

Techniques to help with PE!

Squeeze Technique:

To make this technique work, you need to be prepared to set aside private and uninterrupted time three times a week. Don't be tempted to give up if after a few tries nothing seems to be changing. It can take a while to get the hang of it!

· The place to squeeze is just below the glands, the rounded part at the top of the penis. If you have a foreskin, pull it back so the glands is uncovered.
· Stroke and caress your whole genital area. This consists of the glands, the shaft of the penis, the testicles or balls, the area behind the balls, which is called the perineum, and the anal rim. 5 parts altogether.
· Practice touching and pleasuring all these parts so you are very aware of how each part feels in the stages of arousal before you are going to come.
· Now increase your pleasure to a high state of arousal, and when you reach the point when you think you will come, squeeze the penis hard and hold it for 20 to 30 seconds. The erection may go down, but you can get it back. If you were too late with your squeeze, try again later and squeeze a little earlier in your arousal.

· Repeat this three times before allowing yourself to cum.

Do this three times a week and you will begin to notice an improvement in your ability to control your ejaculation?

Start Stop Technnique:

Overcoming Premature Ejaculation takes time and effort, but should be almost entirely successful. PE is usually caused by anxiety and lack of attention to what the penis needs. Often there are other worries too, about pleasing the partner, being discovered and feeling embarrassed, or ashamed. The stop start Technique below can be big help, Try it.

· Find time to practice, Set aside three 20-minute slots each week, and make sure you can be alone and uninterrupted.
· First use your favorite technique and begin to masturbate very slowly, noticing carefully the sensations you get in your penis during the increasing levels of arousal before ejaculation.
· At the point just before you would come, stop touching and wait for the intense arousal to go down. You may lose the erection, but you will get it back. If you were too late stopping, and came, try again later, and stop a little earlier in the arousal.

· Repeat this three times, trying to work up to the twenty minutes. After the third time you can allow yourself to cum.

Do this three times a week, and after three weeks you should notice an improvement. You can also do this during sex, when you get the urge to cum pull out, let the urge subside for a few seconds, Switch positions or stimulate her manually during this time and then continue.

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Feb 1 @ 7:44AM  
You must be superhot to get that done.
most guys relax after a few weeks with the same woman, giving him all the time to let her get hers (if you know what i mean).

If it has been longer, then a condom might make his penis less sensitive, hence making it take longer (unless she is hot as hell).

last option is to make him cumm 2-3 times quickly, then relax him with a masssage and suck him into his third erection. then ride him like the horse from hell. if he still comes after 5 minutes, then you are just too hot, and he just too horny..... Way beyond my scope of cures.

Hope this helps.

Feb 1 @ 8:38AM  
Gain about 175 pounds, he'll find ya unattractive and won't cum so quick.. LOL

Feb 1 @ 9:27AM  
get a new b/f
ok ok....i got it outta my might google premature ejaculation ......i know there are lots of way to hold off .........some can work for hours....takes 2 to practice........n time....oh..and you prolly need to be a bit gental on his ego as ya'll work thru

Feb 1 @ 10:04AM  
Get him a cold beer after he cums, give him 10 minutes to enjoy it and blow him back up. The second hardon is guaranteed to last longer than 5 minutes.......and don't forget the lube. Or if that doesn't work, come see me.

Feb 1 @ 10:13AM  
Not much you can do, but one solution is that prior to your have sex together, he could masturbate. This will start the whole recycling process over and it may extend the time prior to him ejaculating.

Feb 1 @ 10:16AM  
Of course there is another solution. You could take your hand and put a deaths head grip at the base of his cock and hold it for as long as you want to have sex. Of course the bad side to this is that he may pass out or his balls will explode.

Feb 1 @ 11:23AM

Feb 1 @ 11:36AM  
At about 4 minutes and 30 seconds FART!

Feb 1 @ 12:26PM  

Feb 1 @ 1:31PM  
Get a book called "How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild) by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.

Feb 3 @ 3:04AM  
Yeah, make him eat your pussy for an hour first!

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