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posted 1/26/2007 11:15:27 PM |
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  Luvrgrl

I fucked up yesterday.....I made a choice to do something and it hurt someone else. I was acting out of my own selfishness.....we talked about it....I was forgiven....so get on with it, right? Easy enough....we have quibbles, spats, arguments and go through random bullshit everyday right?

Well after having some time to think about what I had done, it occured to me that there has to come a time when I make a decision to realize the value in what I have rather than climbing on a high horse to brag about it.....what gives me the right to be so selfish? I have been asking myself for years why I can't manage to make a relationship work....and now it occurs to me.....because it's always been about me....what a fool I have been....but there must have been a reason why it took until now to realize that....maybe...just maybe......I have finally figured out just what it means to "Love the one you Win".

I have been given a gift....a gift is meant to be honored, cherished, treasured and cared for. I was not given this gift because I deserve it....I was given this gift because I am loved enough to be chosen as the one to care for this person who has come into my life.....there is no greater gift......

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tlc0766

Jan 26 @ 11:21PM  
good one luvrgrl yes I think we have to give in order to receive, it's all a two way street, sometimes one gives a little more than the other and vice versa but in the end it should always even out.
DickSlippery

Jan 26 @ 11:23PM  
What U are experiencing is the onset of wisdom. Congratulations...

PS Does this make U a MILF?

Kisses

DS
GryGoast

Jan 26 @ 11:26PM  
Bless you girl, your one of the ones that get out of life before the burning bridge colapsed
Rockstar8869

Jan 26 @ 11:28PM  
You sound like a wonderful woman......

Kudos for lifes lessons...
NightOfOld

Jan 26 @ 11:29PM  

It seems you have learned a valuable lesson. Yes it is a give and take situation between two people. It can never be just me. Although in my own life I like to be
giver more then a receiver. But then I have no one to give to. So much love Not sex, but real love. And just can't get it out. Makes you wonder.
DickSlippery

Jan 26 @ 11:39PM  
A worthless Kudo 4 U just cuz I like ya

DS
NightOfOld

Jan 26 @ 11:43PM  

Perhaps that is my lot in life. To live alone and share my heart and thoughts with everyone.

I'l try putting it another way.

And what am I to you, you say ?
A meteor that lit the sky ---
That burnt a hole and went it's way.
A meteor of love was I .

And what are you to me say I ?
In darkness you're my shining light --
The sun by day that lights the sky.
Without you what would be my plight ?
lucian777

Jan 26 @ 11:47PM  
More people need to realize that! Good Luck
ynot7769

Jan 27 @ 12:00AM  
SOME lessons just hurt.....it's nice when the pain can be gone past n not lose what we have ...............key is to learn from a mistake n not repeat it.........sometimes there is a bottome to the well of forgivness from our mate..........
FFMatt

Jan 27 @ 2:46AM  
I know this story all too well... my last relationship ended after 2 years... (and she was 6 years older than me so I expected her to be a little better prepared for a relationship than somebody my age)... And I tried my hardest to get her to understand that I was willing to slow my life and plans down to make time to add her in... but she would take advantage of that and not give me the same respect. After a long time of trying to teach her to understand empathy... I finally gave up on her. I wish her much happiness, but I'm happy to be rid of her now. LOL. sounds aweful... so i'm glad you can figure out this concept before you lose the one you love...

... heh I considered not posting this as it does give some background on me... which I don't normally post.
miss_k8

Jan 27 @ 2:48AM  
thanks for sharing.thats good that u are realizing these things now before its too late.and im happy for u for getting a second chance.i always go by this saying:one can nevr really appreciate someone's value unless they're gone".im proud to say that in all of my relationships,ive always appreciated the person im with and ive always expressed how thankful and grateful i am that they are in my life.at least when something happens and it doesnt end up the way u like it,ull have fewer regrets.good luck to u and never give up on ur search for happiness.keep in touch
joltman20

Jan 27 @ 5:17AM  
Great insight. Put me back in my chair.
Lisa46

Jan 27 @ 8:10AM  
I have been given a gift....a gift is meant to be honored, cherished, treasured and cared for. I was not given this gift because I deserve it....I was given this gift because I am loved enough to be chosen as the one to care for this person who has come into my life.....there is no greater gift......


so well said kudo to you!
maggiemae1969

Jan 27 @ 12:24PM  
excellent post
MEMEME69247

Jan 27 @ 12:51PM  
At least you realized what you have,,,,and want,,,,there are sooo many people that never realize it until it is gone.....Lena

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