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Stumbled into this word when I was a teenager, but never gave it that much thought. Good or bad , I didn't know. All I know is, it's for boys who's going through puberty.Sometimes I heared people who have overactive sex hormones does it.

When I started chatting, I was always asked if I masturbate, then ends the chat. Because I grew up not even speaking the word. I'm almost 40 and I still can't say it, like some women my age so casually discuss it with other adults. Many times, I have given it a thought, what exactly is masturbation. How does it affect morality? I feel the need to discuss it because a lot of people tell me it's a part of our needs. Dumb as it may, just the thought of it scares me and makes me guilty. Please don't judge me, I just need somebody to enlighten me. It does gives me pleasure seeing my partner doing it in front of me.

I wanna hear both sides' point of view on this matter.

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Jan 26 @ 5:47PM  
there is nothing wrong with it in my opinion but I do know people who feel the same way as you do, I look at it as a health thing, I mean really it helps release a lot of tension and stress and I think it is something that is completely natural, that is just my opinion. i gotta get it somewhere

Jan 26 @ 5:49PM  
Absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation... It's certainly healthier than casual sex... and it IS sex with someone you love!!!

Jan 26 @ 5:59PM  
First of all maturbation is not a moral issue. If it feels good and you are the one doing it then that is fine. However if you were to masturbate out in public then that would be a whole different thought.
Some times you have to masturbate for health reasons. Say if you get so horny you feel that you are about to explode then you should do it. You are the only one that knows what makes you feel good.
Masturbation can be done manually or with devices the choice is yours but to begin with you should do it manually so you know the exact spots that are sensitive.
for further info I believe there is a website called the Complete Book of Masturbation which might help.
And no you won't go to HELL for masturbating.

Jan 26 @ 6:04PM  
Masturbation is normal and healthy. It burns calories...doesn't cost anything (unless you buy toys!) and makes you feel good! Unfortunately alot of religions (including the one I was raised in) have made it taboo..and even a 'sin'. I don't believe that at all. No reason to feel guilty for doing anything that makes you feel good and doesn't hurt others.

Jan 26 @ 6:04PM  
I dont understand why some people are filtered and are unable to comment on my blogs, is there something I need to do on settings, as far as I know, all comments are set to be automatically approved, Never meant to block anyone , I swear.

Jan 26 @ 6:14PM  
NOthing wrong in that dear...I have been doing that since 2 months now

Jan 26 @ 7:22PM  
They say, use it or lose it. I use it one way or another.

Jan 26 @ 7:28PM  
The question remains, was I joking about wearing a condom to masturbate? I mean my hands are calloused, and they provide a nice barrier to that. Also there is no mess to clean!

People got blocked because you set your demographics, no biggie!

Jan 26 @ 8:07PM  
canu, you think I should use one to as barrier from my nails?

Jan 26 @ 8:41PM  
Don't even give masturbation a second thought- it's perfectly normal and healthy, inspite of the fact of hearing "one will go blind doing it!" Well... I'm here to tell ya, I can see just fine after all these years!!

Animals do it too except they don't have hands! (poor thangs).I remember a dog once that used to hump his favorite hump towel once in awhile- funny stuff!

Besides having it feel good and in place of a lady partner, I figure it helps to keep my plumbing clear, so I don't have to call Roto-Rooter - J/K!

I want to meet a lady who's into mutual masturbation myself! Where the Hell are you???


Jan 26 @ 8:52PM  
geena if you are uncomfortable thinking about doing it i doubt you will enjoy doing it. 90 % of sexuality is in your mind so if your mind is not into you won't opinion for what it's worth.....

Jan 26 @ 10:11PM  
Yeah, I can't think straight till I take care of "business".

Jan 27 @ 11:51AM  
Geena, I gave you a kudos for your frankness babe! I can tell you this sweet lady, it is true as a young man/boy i found masturbation was an amazing thing! The sensations and of course seeing my penis get hard and grow was so cool I thought! Findinga magazine with nude pictures of gorgeous women certainly helps. The first 6 months or so, I would orgasm and know sperm! Then one day I was bopping the baloney when spurt, spurt and I had a mess to contend with! As I aged and women were becomming more and more involved, it really sunsided. Masturbation is actually normal and healthy at any age! The only thing I noticed that really bothered me was my eyesight kept going bad after I started and an abundance of hair grew on my hands! Try it geena!

Jan 27 @ 2:44PM  
Geena: I grew up in the 50's when Masturbation was a 4 letter word and nobody spoke of it. I learned about it by attending a boy's school where masturbation was a recreation used with Playboy or Penthouse magazine. I'm nearly 57 and still masturbate daily. It keeps everything working. Reading your Blog suggest that you don't indulge in the joys of masturbation. Go to a online store like Adam & Eve and order a G-spot vibrator, many cost less than $20.00. Go to Search on your PC and type in: G-spot. As a woman, you can achieve many more orgasm than any man can. If masturbation proves to your liking and you want more them look for a Sybian machine, more costly but it will send you where few women ever go. Good luck in the future.

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