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posted 1/24/2007 3:45:10 AM |
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I think all guys on here feel the same, and every other sex related sight.. there seems to be an over abundance of guys on them, but now women...and alot of women on ALL the sites are nothing but ads' for other sites and lead no where. My question WHERE are all the REAL woman at in NJ and other states, other sites hidden among so many fakes they are hard to spot.

I know more men probably are looking for sex outside of their current relationships and that the few women who do really come here looking for something more are swamped with more e-mails than they know what to do with, but pls, if your out there let us guys know, some of us are decent guys just looking for what you want, and those of us who cant understand that some women are just here to talk should learn to stop bothering them so true people looking for a connection can make it.

I know its a sex site, but come one there has got to be some class in the world still. Real women you need to speak up and let us know you are real, because in this age of automatic responses and form fillers its hard to know who is the right woman to send a wink or a mail to so that you get a real response from a real woman.

Just a rant in the dead of night


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Jan 24 @ 4:02AM  
Stick around awhile. Real women are on the site and they do speak up. Something worth having isn't going to happen overnight. Give it some time.

Jan 24 @ 4:09AM  
believe me when i say i have no illusions that women just fall from the sky, i know things take time, i just wish i knew who's profile i was passing up beceause im so sensitized to fake one to see real one's right in front of my nose.

Jan 24 @ 6:51AM  
SORRY!!!!! There are no real women in New Jersey.

Jan 24 @ 7:44AM  
The real women on the site are active, they are posting blogs and playing in the forums, you should try it yourself, you'd probably be pleasantly surprised! Good luck in your search!

Jan 24 @ 9:36AM  
Let me preface this by saying that there are a lot of good people here! But, if you're honestly here to try and meet someone you can really care about, well... the jury's still out on that one!!

I've experienced several connections with women here! I know the ones that (I'm familiar with anyway) will never go beyond being friends! Others, I've had email exchanges with, have either simply quit emailing or canceled their subscriptions. What's up with that?? Four and counting so far, for cancels! Is it me? A resounding NO! There are a lot of childish, fickle people here, that don't belong here!!

I've had two really hot sessions (one on this site and one on another- the 2nd one for weeks!) and then- nothing! It's like they (they meaning these two- not all women of course) like to pump guys up, then drop them! That's not being rude, that's being cruel and a user! Sugar 'n spice eh? Uh huh!

One lady I emailed for a few times, I really like and still do, she is within an hour's drive. Our essays matched up pretty well too- then POOF- gone! WTF?? I've even had a short IM session with one lady then POOF- gone!

I've gone back and reviewed my emails and an IM session and really can't see where I may have said something that would piss them off! I let them set the tone during the first exchange or two. I give what I get!!

If you're a women, you have the pick of the litter- not just this site either! So women can afford to be picky! If you're a man- good fucking luck!

I suppose one is out there for me but I haven't seen her yet!! Sooo, I'm putting my time back into my business- I've neglected a little too much- this and other sites like this, are too addictive for my wealth!!

Anyway, that's my take so far!

Jan 24 @ 10:28AM  
Yeah what lookin said, she's real I'm real go play in the forums that's where a lot of us real women are!!

Jan 24 @ 11:43AM  
most of us been there done that so we DO understand....hey ..hit the peopel with no expectation maybe but for some fun...and just let things flow...might be amazed .......we'll be watchin for you

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