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posted 2/17/2013 6:06:47 PM |
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  elbachelor

I sure hope all of you "elite" members are happy. Looks to me like anybody who use to write blogs quit, got banned, or got fed up with the abuse.

I sure wish people could be objective without being plain ass rude. This site use to have ten or twenty blogs a day. It's so bad, now the spammers are blogging to fill the void.

Maybe, someday, people can write and express an opinion without ignorance.......

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Wordsofwit

Feb 18 @ 10:55AM  
I don't think being "fed up with the abuse" has much to do with it. It has been spiraling down for two to three years. As it did the whole scene became increasingly boring and people faded away. There are quite a few that still pop in and lurk according to my friends list. But they rarely post anything.

I guess I would generally be in the "quit" category. Others have their reasons but for myself I am not going to waste my time writing something that no one will read
sugarnspice005

Feb 18 @ 8:27PM  
Nope, didn't quit. They still check in. When they have something they want to say, they will.
redbronze

Feb 19 @ 1:05AM  
I don't blog anymore nothing to say really. Maybe you can kick start this whole pervia thing or some newbies can. Otherwise we are here just reading or checking in with folks.
J1958

Feb 19 @ 4:02AM  
I've been following the blog for some time without contributing. What I have noticed is that anyone who says anything interesting to read is immediately set upon, ganged up on, alienated and banned. Doesn't make for much but a bunch of drive-bys begging for pussy and a place for long-time bloggers to make diary entries about what they did today and what occupies the vacuous galaxy between their ears. ha ha...no offense. I guess this is the best way to get invited to leave by the regulars who think they own the site..
Wordsofwit

Feb 19 @ 8:22AM  
^^^ Everyone has a right to their opinion. I just find perspectives like that to be borderline paranoia with a persecution complex and, well, somewhat peculiar
Wordsofwit

Feb 19 @ 8:24AM  
What I have noticed is that anyone who says anything interesting to read is immediately set upon, ganged up on, alienated and banned.

Yeah, I guess we ran everybody off including ourselves
Built4speed2

Feb 19 @ 10:59AM  
The battle for 'middle earth' is over but with a slightly different outcome. Everyone has been run out of The Shire and are on the other side of the sea.The orcs and trolls have won......lol.
xquseme

Feb 19 @ 11:32AM  
Just a guess on my part, but...

It seems that one participant in particular held a pretty deep grudge for being banned, shunned, ignored, set upon, or whatever, and made it his/her life mission to bring the site down. When such a character continues to harangue a group for so long, it is rather inevitable that the group will deteriorate. Group members learn to take a defensive posture toward any newcomer as an initial reaction, as it becomes a way of life after so long.

Paranoia or OCD notwithstanding, said character has some issues that will plague him/her throughout life, unless and until the problem is addressed.

That doesn't bring the site back, however. I remember when I first joined, and I was content to sit back and watch with little participation, as the site was buzzing with activity. Kinda doubtful that such a recovery will occur any time soon....
Wordsofwit

Feb 19 @ 11:59AM  
^^^ Good to see you again, Jerry You are spot on None the less, I still contend that the downwards spiral was based upon a snowball of boredom.

As far as the site coming back, I don't see that happening any more than I see it really dying. There are too many people that remember the good old days that check in to see if anything is happening and to connect with long time, online genuine pals
elbachelor

Feb 19 @ 12:04PM  
To a point, you are all right. This site was going along pretty good a month ago. It's to bad things went downhill.

The vanilla site is still going strong. There is a variety of things to discuss and express a opinion upon. Sure, there is some bickering, but that is what a blog is for.

I hope people come back and start writing again. I like to read different views on subjects no matter how obtrusive or skewed they may be.
StraddleMyNose

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Feb 19 @ 12:22PM  
I agree, it would be great if this site got back to what it used to be.
moresex69

Feb 20 @ 10:08PM  
Oh goodie, goodies, a pajama party for all you boys......lol. You can have popcorn, and skittles and maybe even some rocky road ice cream......yummy......LOL. Can't wait until Saturday....makes me so happy I could just tear paper



As ever was,
Drcocktail
xquseme

Feb 21 @ 12:30AM  
Seriously, dude. With all due respect...pick up that Prozac scrip, willya?? It'll do you
some good...
xquseme

Feb 21 @ 1:04AM  
Ahem. I was writing to "moresex69," AKA Dr. Cocktail, and not YOU, elbachelor...
unless you're one in the same. If THAT's the case, you need a DOUBLE DOSE!!
elbachelor

Feb 21 @ 1:07AM  
Then I am sorry for the comment. It will be taken out....

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