I think a lot of the trouble on this site and MANY others is that there are far more fake people than real! What I mean by fake is that the profile is completely made up by people who work for a company that own many swingers sites. A prime example is Just Hook Up & Fling (which is advertised here) is completely FAKE! There is not ONE real person on Fling, which if I remember right is owned by Nasty Dollars a front company that owns over 30 wed sites. If you create an account but do not enter any photos or information you will still receive about 5 messages with in 5 minutes from “people” wanting to meet you. The second you start paying for it these “people” will either disappear or will NOT respond to any message you send them. Once you stop paying for it these very same “people” will start sending you messages asking why you never responded to their messages! There is no way to stop this, face it there are a lot of lying, cheating people out there who only want YOUR money because they are either to lazy or stupid to make it in the real world.
In the late 90s my wife & I were members on Adult Friend Finder. Back then this site was legit & we met many couples & screwed the hell out of one or two. We are still friends with one of these couples to this day. About two years ago we dropped ADF because they also started spamming its members with FAKE people. ADF would post message to you stating that a “new member” just got on, but for the first 3 days only “Gold Paying Members” can view their profile. After three days the “new member” was no longer there & this happened “EVERY time”! I think the people who own ADF also run Get It On & several other sites that spam the hell out of people.
With that said you may not be able to stop it, but you can find out who some of the fakes are. Open a person’s profile and save one of the photos they post to your desktop. Open a web page called Tineye dot com (use a “.” not the word) & click on the “browse” button located next to the “Upload Your Image” option. Go to your desk top, find the image you saved there, click open & let the web page do its thing. After a few minutes you should see a list of how many other web sites this image has been used on. The more web sites the more FAKE it is! At this point you can click on the various sites this image were used at & see how many different user names, ages, & geographic locations are associated with this image!
Another thing that will help is never use your home, work email address. Setup an email account with Yahoo or something, but do not use your real name, or any personal information at all. Use this address to set up your account on these swingers listings so when the spam messages start to come in it will not hit your home email. Once you are comfortable with the site you are on & feel safe there change your email to something else if you like. It is that first email address you enter that the spammers and con-artist scum will see first & hit the most.
I’m sorry to be so long winded with this post, but I thought this info should get out. There is nothing wrong with sex. There is nothing wrong with people who just want to get together & fuck each other silly. I also see nothing wrong with people who setup a site for swingers to hook up & charge for it. What I don’t like are the lying, cheating ass holes who only want your money! I am very willing to bet that most of the profiles you see with a pic of some hot babe on it is not really a woman at all but some 30 something, fat limp dick lard ass living in his mama’s basement!
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