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I've only had one big love in my life, and unfortunately, he and I never made love/had sex. I've slept with a few men that I didn't love, and the sex was just...boring. I'm sure some people can sleep with whomever and have their world rocked, but I guess I'm just not like that. Anyone else have the need love for good sex syndrome?

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Dec 18 @ 8:56AM  
I would say that the majority of women have to have the emotional link, at least infatuation, of love/romance to really sustain a good sexual relationship. I have known a significant number of men (but by no means the majority) that are similarly wired.

However, a lot of guys are like me in that talent and looks are all that we need for good sex. That being said, if the emotions are there with the loins and the heart being charged, everything is amplified.

I am stereotyping here, granted, but most women want the whole enchilada... all or nothing. That is why they wind alone or get into a series of crash and burns.

They often say, "I won't settle for anything less." Isn't nothing something less? BOB can only take you so far

Dec 18 @ 9:23AM  
I'm with you both Pixie. I've had a few sexual encounters since my divorce, but do not make bootie calls or seek out casual sex with just anybody. Some connection is necessary for good sex. And I've heard myself say many times, I won't settle. I believe I'm referring to a choice in partner. Don't ever remember saying "nothing", lol. But even so, may I suggest that nothing is better than a bad experience.

Dec 18 @ 10:31AM  
Interesting that two men responded to your blog first instead of any women. These gentlemen appear have enough experience to know how emotions and sex work together for women and themselves.

Some women are so desperate for a steady companion they will put up with loads of BS including less than satisfactory sex. Then there are others like us who will not settle. I think it's better to be reasonably happy alone compared to being very unhappy and feeling alone in a relationship that doesn't work.

Good luck!

Dec 18 @ 12:10PM  
I've only done the "bootie call" a couple of times in my life when I was younger...wasn't that satisfying. Sure, I've had boyfriends/significant others...I loved them at the times I was with them, then I met the love of my life, and I realized just how awesome making love can be.

It isn't just you Pixie, for a lot of women, if there is love for their partner, it's awesome.

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