Well, I can't speak for the women around here, but lemme give it a try:
1) Cock shots are a dime a dozen around here. I think the women are pretty much jaded and generally unimpressed. A hint of your face will probably garner more positive attention;
2) You need to give the women a reason to trust you. You say you're good looking, honest, kind, drug- and disease-free? Love sex? Join the club! Pretty much every man says that on here. Until you start interacting regularly in forums and on blogs, those are just empty words.
3) The following phrase in your essays:
a woman’s legs raped around my head .. I know you meant "wrapped", but some spelling errors just can't be ignored. Correct that!
4) No strings attached is a tall order. I know it's in my own profile, and I don't mean to sound hypocritical, but the truth is that the regular posters on here are in general seeking a more meaningful connection than what's implied by "no strings." Myself included. In fact, my whole profile needs an overhaul because it's full of confused B.S... but that's another story.
5) In summary: invest heavily in this site and you will reap your reward... but it could take a while