My man & myself enjoy bondage. We met on a sex site after he searched for a woman by typing"Bondage". I am submissive and enjoy being with a dominant man. I am also very new to this lifestyle and am game for many new things. My man alway wants to do me tied up doggy style, no other way. He pertends to accidently try entering my ass but i will yelp and move and he apolizises. He always wants to lick and suck on my assshole but it tickles and dont do much for me. In my mind it is so much an exit, not an entrance. Well he knows I a not dominate. We have tried I failed badly. He has told me he cant have regular sex,....does not do anything for him. (We did have regular vanilla sex first 5 times together) He wanted me to lick his asshole (i can't) I have no problems licking balls & skin between balls & ass. I have used a butt plug on him while he jerked off. He loved it. Well now he is talking about a fem dom fucking him with a strapon. I dont know if i can do this. I am the type of woman that what to have her pussy owned and controled by her man.I want him to bring other men home and let them use me. I want to be his fuck toy that he enjoys sharing and still grow to love me. Can anyone help me to understand what he wants and needs. I do care for him.
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freelancepa


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Oct 29 @ 11:56PM
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I hate to say it, but your man is either in denial or just hasn't figured it out yet. He is obviously gay!
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redhead4u58

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Oct 30 @ 12:23AM
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The more I think about it......I see so many more clues. I think u r right. I thought this only happen on TV. Lol.
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skip1944


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Nov 4 @ 12:10PM
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He sounds gay, or at least bi. All is fair in your bedroom, if you both agree. For him to try to force what he likes on you, is wrong on many levels. He is mis-using your desire to be dominated. If in the heat of a good cum, and you want to finger, dildo, strap-on, butt plug his ass...so be it. But not just so he can get off by using you.
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bbadny

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Nov 9 @ 4:51AM
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sounds like he wants to be more of the in you relationship.
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prevert69

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Nov 9 @ 2:59PM
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He's queer...thats it you can look the other way all you want but he wants it in the butt first it will be a woman then later ...a man..i'll drop you aline for a B&D,S&M site for you to check out..if you havent done so .
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handycandy1388

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Nov 10 @ 8:27PM
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Yeah... He's gay as fuck.
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thebiggerthebetter

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Nov 11 @ 5:49PM
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He sounds like a closet gay guy. Personally, I don't have any desire to take it in the ass(or give it to a guy in the ass) like most other gay and bi guys do, but I do like to take it in the mouth. ;) I still love women and always will though.
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redhead4u58

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Nov 16 @ 10:48PM
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UPDATE!!!! He has informed me that he is not bi. He states that he needs to have a domintrix do nasty things to him! So what do u gents think of this?
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