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posted 1/22/2007 3:19:15 PM |
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Alright, I took the day off work b/c I'm not feeling well. Along with not feeling well I'm rather lonely and utterly horny. It's been TOO damn long since I've gotten laid (or done the laying...) Back to my topic...
I've been talking to a very nice (and very sexual) and good looking man. We all know they exhist... just take a look around our community here.
One thing led to another this afternoon and he and I ended up "releasing some tensions" over the phone. I'm not in the habbit of doing this (shit I don't even masturbate all that often anymore, but thats a whole other blog) but I just wanted to for the hell of it today.
Just now as I was getting dressed again, I thought to myself "Gee, I wonder if I blew it with him. Will he only ever look at me like the whore who moaned on the phone for him?"
Now, what the FUCK is that shit?
Why do I feel as though relationships are either romantic or sexual? They can be both... right? I'm a pretty sexual person (duh..) and I like sex often. No I don't feel that I have to be in love with someone to fuck them. But why does it make a man think differently if I have one thing on my mind just one time?

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Jan 22 @ 3:30PM  
jst thought i would give ya kudo and agree with ya 110%
rock on

Jan 22 @ 3:51PM  
Just one of those things we will never quite understand, I think...

Men want a lady in the streets, and a freak in the sheets, and they don't always end up being the same woman, sadly.

Personally, I find that if I send my naughty pics to someone, or engage in some naughty phone or online fun with them, I am less likely to want to meet them in person, only because I generally don't let myself get that freaky with a guy on a first, second or even 3rd, 4th or 5th date even... Once I have let go, I am almost embarassed to meet them face to face.. but then, I have all kinda of hang ups, so who am I to comment?

Good luck, hope you can turn this around and make it work in real life!

Jan 22 @ 3:54PM  
I am not sure how interested you are in this guy but if your just looking to get some does it really matter what he thinks. If he is a very sexual guy he shouldn't care anyway. I have several f**k buddies that all know about the others and actually find it a turn on that I am so active.

Jan 22 @ 4:31PM  
Men want a lady in the streets, and a freak in the sheets, and they don't always end up being the same woman, sadly.

put pretty well.....

Jan 22 @ 6:37PM  
You sound like a pretty normal woman who really knows herself, so don't berate yourself about it. If he is open sexually, it should be of no consequence, as he was probably wacking himself at the same time.

Jan 22 @ 7:24PM  
well you dont have to be so in love to have sex or make love

Jan 22 @ 7:54PM  
Hop into a hot bath with a bottle of Jack Daniels....You won't feel better but you won't care

Jan 23 @ 10:39AM  
LadieDarkStarr, first of all we are both Saginttarius' and we do not live that far apart! We are both sexual and I for one understand! As Bill Clinton used to say "I feel your pain"! It is not about a guy differentiating between the two it's one of them can scare the bageezies out of many men and that is fear of any committment with a woman! If it sounds like your interested then often the wall comes up! I don't know how to explain it but in essence that is one of the reasons men are known as pigs to some ladies! Sex is far more emotional to women than men. Phone sex is cool because there is no eyes to see in the soul! A man will say anything if it means getting fucked! Imagine being in the thrwos of passion with a guy and just before he isw about to come say "Marriage" or Committment" etc. He will lose his erection and that will be the end of his cumming! It's nature! men make babies, women nurture. Yes things have changed since Geico cavemen! There is however, that lucky roll of the dice where the guy may want the committment! Nah!

Jan 23 @ 7:19PM  
Personally for me they have to be both romantic & sexual...The way you got yourself ready for that man the other nite...Believe me I would have definately appreciated the thought behind it...I want a woman who I can be romantic with but at the same time so hot for it that she is a freak in the sheets...SO there are some of us guys out there who want both!

Jan 24 @ 9:26AM  
A kudo to you for this blog. And you should not feel bad as you had a good time too.

Jan 24 @ 10:21PM  
Princess Kissy hit the nail on the head. Guys want a lady in the streets, and a freak in the sheets. As long as you show some class along with some ass, things should be just fine. In my experience (not sure how usefull it is, but I'll say it anyway:) when a woman and I meet and begin a relationship under sexual terms only, it rarely turns away from that. The only relationships that have worked out for me in the long run are ones that started with a genuine mental connection...then further down the line finding that we have a strong sexual connection as well. I'm not saying you must date a guy for months before getting sexual, but I think for a relationship to last, you must first establish a solid non-sexual connection. If you have already done that, then there should be no problems..."the whore who moaned on the phone for him" (which was so deliciously put..) is then simply a (very nice) bonus... :) I actually could go on and on about this, because I have quite a few elaborate views on the topic, but I need to get some sleep... :) Hope this helped a bit.. ;-)

Jan 24 @ 11:41PM  
very well put. relationships should be both.

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