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I wrote a blog about how this site looks and feels like high school and I got responses to my blogs saying "why only find the negative blogs?" written by the very people that write them, and a very rude response full of swears and personal insults, shown as nothing but with the intent to harass me. I took that blog down because the people that complain the most about the negativity are the ones that start it and keep it going.

So you dont want negativity anymore? Than dont write about it, dont post your frustrations about all the idiots or the morons, dont complain that they exist on this website.

Truth of the matter is, this is a free site and no one is better than anyone else. Your online self that exists is just that, please dont tell me you parade offline with your soapboxes and picket signs with the same intent to defame or harass other members because they do not agree with your point of view. If that was the case, you wouldnt have a job, because your manager or employer would not see eye to eye with you in the way you conduct your business. You would not have your children, the state would take them away, because they would not see eye to eye with you in the way you raise them. You would not have a home because you and your landlord do not see eye to eye on the way you keep your apartment- or your bank and you would not see eye to eye on the way you pay your bills.

So lets get on with it shall we? Dont say your tired of all the crap. You yourselves have shown your jealousy for other members- whether because they gain attention that you yourselves want (negative or positive) whether they are better looker, have more life experience, or have a better job or better education than you, even if theyre younger, are hopeful, are dreamers, are not pessimists, are not people that dwell on the shit. Ive seen numerous blogs written by girls and boys complaining because people email them with the intent to make them feel foolish. But lets cut to the chase.

YOU WANT IT TO STOP? Than YOU need to stop, you people who post your 1,000 blogs saying youre sick of it. You need to re-evaulate the way you handle yourself here. This is a COMMUNITY, meaning there are lots and LOTS of different people. No one is going to stand with you at every roadblock or problimatic situation. No one is going to agree that Joe who wrote about dick sucking bitches was out of line. No one is going to agree with your ideas of personal hygine whether skid marked panties are gross or exciting and sexy. No one is going to think yorue wonderful or perfect. Just because youve been here for a year, month, or week does NOT give you the right to OWN the content that other people put out there. It does not give you the write to shut it down. IT does not give you the right to censor poeople. Because the only content youre going to be left with is what YOU write and those with likeminded interests. And I know thats what youre after because then YOU would have all the attention. But guess what? Less and less people would read because they find you boring with your never changing ways. They will leave the site because there are sites out there were different people are allowed to congregate.

Just because youre 40, 50, or 60 does not mean you know the way websites should be conducted. Where is the law on the internet where guys looking for one night stands arent allowed to post that? Where is the law that boys arent allowed to post their blogs going to personal websites, photography sites, or even their paysites? Why report them if THEY didnt email YOU with their website address, but just because YOU chose to read their blog and it offended you. Guess what? You offend people too! You arent free to be an asshole, a jerk, a bitch, or some stuffed up monkey with a stick up his ass quoting what is fair and what is not.

I dont worship the ground you walk on, and Im not alone. Just because I know people online doesnt give me the right to use that as a chance to group those who are my "friends" and those who are not. And those who arent, I odnt have the right to alienate them because I dont agree. Ive seen a lot of people deleted and it started from the core group of "friends". Ive seen a lot of people harassed, defamed, tagged as being idiots, or made to look like fools. You dont have to post blog names, when people read all your blogs and posts from others they know who youre talking about. ANd they are no longer the fool, you are. You cant let things go.
YOU, YOU, and YOU, and HIM, and HER, and THEM, and THOSE TWO, THREE, FOUR, and TEN! You need to stop. You need to shut up. Yes, that's right. SHUT UP! Stop talking! Dont let those fingers slip over the keys and keep your shit going. I think if anyone gets deleted, its people who have written dozens of blogs trying to make other people look foolish. Ever notice the people that didnt mean any harm dont keep the crap going? You humiliated them enough, and they didnt feel it a necessity to fight with you. But you keep on, and on, and on, and on, and on, and you wont drop it. And either, you report those people because they didnt agree with you, made a general statement that YOU found offensive, or you reported them just ebcause they existed. Just because people arent up to your personal standards, arent cool enough to run with your crowd, doesnt mean they shouldnt be here.

You cant stop progress. What youre trying to do with the dozens of "We of AMD" is trying to stop this great idea of free speech and expression. And guess who those people are that dont continue those emails, they are people of AMD too! But they didnt believe it was right to censor people, and they didnt find it a good idea to keep the crap going. The 20 people that posted that email were 20 of 1,000's of people here. Now dont you feel foolish? If you really were people of AMD you would write the company, you would call and express your concerns. But youre maintaing the confrontational stance of writting a blog? Why? Becaus eyou can spend your time choosing your words carefully, you can hit delete if something doesnt sound right. When you actually talk to someone face to face or on the phone there is no backspace key. Once you look like a fool, you look like a fool.

And those too full of themselves, those who believe they were, are, and always will be right wont even bother to read everything I posted. Youll just go ahead and post your comments how I am wrong. That EVERYONE shouldnt be allowed to say the things they want to say. THat EVERYONE who isnt you should be blocked and reported. I bet youll even go one step further and report me because I do not agree with you, but youll base it on some other false thing. Youll use your friendships, alliances, and whatever else necessary to stop those who are trying to stop you. You are bigots, ignorant, but you will be blindsided with your own reckless behavior. You will keep up the act that you are the prom queen and king w

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sundance64

Jan 21 @ 6:19PM  
damn character limits! I hate when that happens!!
pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 6:22PM  
You will keep up the act that you are the prom queen and king with your mighty royal party. But guess what all you "big dogs"???? the time is going to come where you fight each other to be crowned number 1! Youre going to turn on each other and the fun will end. And then YOU will be censored and no longer to exist. Have your account thrown away like you dont even matter and you never did. ANd I cant wait till you realize how wrong it is to stiffle someone else. How wrong it is to smother the various ideas of others. and when that day will come guess who will care? NO ONE, because you burned your bridges.

Just because you exist online and have a persona, have friendships, have built your paradise does NOT give you the right to rule over AMD. This is a community for the 1,000's of people here, not just you. SO, CUT THE SHIT!

Is it fun here for you anymore? Is it fun writting blogs how everyone else should be censored and how everyone is wrong? Is it fun where you cant read jokes anymore, where you cant read things that insire you, or thinks that make you question yourselves? Is it fun reporting people for your own personal satisfaction? Blocking people but first emailing them with the last word to speak your discontent? Is it fun posting blog responses full of hatred and insults? Is it fun where everyone has the same ideas? Are you bored yet with your own words? Do you ever go back to read what you wrote when you first got here, about how new and fresh things were? Because now you have made tings stale. You have made things the same and the same and the same, and negative.

If you dont want those negative people to exist, than delete your accounts, or better yet. BETTER YET! Start your own website! This one is free and belongs to other people (the public), it doesnt belong to you. If you want a place where your word rules supreme and you are the right and everyone is wrong, than start your own website. Youll have the freedom to show only certain content and delete the rest. Youll be much happier where everyone is the same. THIS IS FREE!!!!!!!!!!! AND GOD BLESS IT FOR BEING FREE!!!!!!!!!! SO, you wotn lose any money when you leave and the door wont hit ya on the ass becuase it will always be open. Because guess what? All opinions are welcome, whether you like it or not, and you are ALWAYS welcome here.

HEY AMD Customer service please delete ALL THE BLOGS! Make people start over and give them better rules because they cant seem to obide by the ones you posted. Give them more rules and restraints, tell them they can only address things once, they cannot backtalk, they cannot be rude to other people, they cannot harass or insult-- and if they do, email them with a warning and tell them exactly what they did wrong, because people are having a helluva hard time seeing what is the wrong way and what is the right way to coexist with thousands of other people!!
pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 6:32PM  
And the last words, because I HAVE better things to do. If only you all could put all the passion of disdain, hatred, and discontent into better things. Into productive things that make your offline life blossom and create those alliances in real time that you seem to have created here. More effort is caused from creation than from distruction. If only you could spend less time here and learn to coexist with people offline so that it becomes easier here. Be better at managing your time, because all the hours spent on humilaiting others, and writing blogs full of complaints and cries, could have been spent better on things that actually mattered. You have made this site something pitiful. Something were people are afraid to be themselves or even speak, and a site where people are tired of reading your crapola. Stop thinking about YOU, and start thinking about OTHERS. The world consists of billions.
erotica_writer

Jan 21 @ 6:41PM  
I keep attempting to find the fascination with "Blogs and Blogging", finally I find one that isn't a wannabe newsletter and that was written by someone with a brain and that rarest of all commodities "Common Sense". Thanks for write, it was a please to observe your righteous indignation.
friendwperks

Jan 21 @ 6:44PM  
*sigh* I get along with some of those 20 people and even respect some too.

BUT... "pleasebediscreet" is right

pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 6:48PM  
Thanks friend, but I don't necessarily want to be right... I just want to be heard.
Stubbsy

Jan 21 @ 6:59PM  
Why say in 4 or 5 words what you can say in 10 or 20?

Is that the point of the blog?
pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 7:01PM  
Its like the memory game- usually when you read something over and over, it starts to sink in and you remember what you read.
BananaBoy4u

Jan 21 @ 7:02PM  
Well said pleasebediscreet! I sure hope this is not a run at the folks a lot like dulsinea did about a week ago where she took on everybody with her "Censorship" blog. She took a stand, held her ground, didn't take "No shit off no Indians" and people finally let her alone. now she posts less controversial things and appears to be accepted. Once again.......Good Job! Kudos to you!
pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 7:05PM  
People should be accepted regardless. We shouldnt have to get the ok from select few participants if we are allowed to be here or not. TY Banana.
JJN4Fun

Jan 21 @ 7:15PM  
Sweetie - are you jealous that I get more hits than you? Look, you said it yourself:

I don't necessarily want to be right... I just want to be heard.

Hmmm, maybe the very people you're bitching about feel the same way. Maybe we just want to be heard. Or, one step back...maybe some of us just like to write. Oh, now there's a thought...a writer who likes to write...Imagine that!

Wake up, hon; you're doing exactly what you're ranting about....trying to dictate who can or can't blog and what they can or can't blog about. And let's not forget the subtle name-calling you're doing with your snotty, self-righteous tone. You are exactly the kind of person you're talking about. Just because you don't have 4 months and 60 blogs under your belt doesn't make you less guilty of ranting, pointing fingers, and putting people down. What makes you think you're so much better...or right?
JJN4Fun

Jan 21 @ 7:17PM  
now she posts less controversial things

Racism, politics, and the war in Iraq...yes, I'd say that less controversial.
ArchAngyl84

Jan 21 @ 7:23PM  
Simply two words...Thank you...
pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 7:24PM  
Here's an idea- DON'T FIGHT ON THE BLOG!
pleasebediscreet

Jan 21 @ 7:26PM  
Sweetie - are you jealous that I get more hits than you? Look, you said it yourself:

I don't necessarily want to be right... I just want to be heard.

Hmmm, maybe the very people you're bitching about feel the same way. Maybe we just want to be heard. Or, one step back...maybe some of us just like to write. Oh, now there's a thought...a writer who likes to write...Imagine that!

Wake up, hon; you're doing exactly what you're ranting about....trying to dictate who can or can't blog and what they can or can't blog about. And let's not forget the subtle name-calling you're doing with your snotty, self-righteous tone. You are exactly the kind of person you're talking about. Just because you don't have 4 months and 60 blogs under your belt doesn't make you less guilty of ranting, pointing fingers, and putting people down. What makes you think you're so much better...or right?

Sze. I was right about one thing, ur doing exactly what I said u'd be doing. Again, PLEASE don't try to prompt fights.
JJN4Fun

Jan 21 @ 7:29PM  
You're right - don't fight in the blogs. Now this I can agree with you on! Have a lovely evening!
cumingcppl

Jan 21 @ 7:31PM  
Everyone keeps saying that this is a mature site, however people keep complaining about he said she said bullshit. If someone favors someone then so what? If someone disagrees or doesnt like someone, then so what? It is up to that person and if you can't take negative, postive, or any kinda attention for that matter, then you don't need to be on a MATURE site, much less blogging. People whine soo much, Boo Who and grow the fuck up.
ShadowsAngel

Jan 21 @ 7:49PM  
Not trying to start a fight... but if you are going to tell others to "sit down and shut up" then you need to be prepared to have them tell you that you are guilty of the very thing that you are ranting about. Bit of advice... climb down off the high horse and really think about the ugliness that you yourself are guilty of encouraging with this diatribe of yours.

Cum2dayIsay

Jan 21 @ 7:54PM  

I'm definately sure I can't add a single word to the BLOG, nor would I want to.
Interesting, the power of the word!
Hope you have a great evening pbd, and I would love the gift of "the write" you display so well.
Nice job!

Cum2dayIsay

Jan 21 @ 7:54PM  

I'm definately sure I can't add a single word to the BLOG, nor would I want to.
Interesting, the power of the word!
Hope you have a great evening pbd, and I would love the gift of "the write" you display so well.
Nice job!

Cum2dayIsay

Jan 21 @ 7:55PM  
Sorry for the DOUBLE post ---
Stubbsy

Jan 21 @ 8:18PM  
Here's an idea- DON'T FIGHT ON THE BLOG!

Hmm.. if you think someone disagreeing with you is a 'fight' I'm not sure what all that bullshit up above was. Weren't you basically saying (in a rather long-winded fashion) that there is room here for people with differing viewpoints?

skinonskin

Jan 21 @ 8:23PM  
Heh... last time I checked, our country still has more or less the freedom to say or do what we want- so long as we don't tread on other people's rights! At least I came onto AMD with that in mind! Dunno now!

We're supposed to be grown ups here but just like Yahoo's message boards, there are people who insist on promoting their own self interests, no matter what the topic is at hand! Now, Yahoo's daily news message board(s) is getting a makeover (which means you can't post a comment anymore until Yahoo restarts its boards again)- all thanks for the few brainless twits that have hijacked the boards. So, everyone else suffers, because of a few grownup wannabes, acting like the childish idiots that they truly are!

If this crap keeps up, I'm thinking of moving somewhere else, because all I want to do is meet my lady- so we can enjoy our lives together- is that too much to ask for DAMMIT??


tlc0766

Jan 21 @ 8:35PM  
The blogs yesterday were a simple way of showing that we don't like to see someone named and posted about in a very negative manner. Hell yes we have royalty here we have a Queen Bee and our King of Pervia is a Woman, and they did not ask for these titles they earned them. Nobody said you can't express your opinion! but they did say they will not stand up to someone being an ass and singling out one individual!
cutecarrie6969

Jan 21 @ 9:25PM  
Blog Rules (Yes, there are some rules.)

1. Do not "broadcast" messages to readers. Example: webcam requests, sex requests, etc.
2. Blogs that are "simply" of what you're seeking - this is what your profile is for.
3. You may not post any copyrighted material, unless you are the copyright holder.
4. If you post a joke you must tag it with "joke" and poems with "poem".
5. You may not post any private emails in whole or in partial.
6. You may not include user names in your subject.
7. Your blog can not "target" a specific user.

Where is the law on the internet where guys looking for one night stands arent allowed to post that?

Rule one and rule two. There are rules here on what you can and cannot do on the blogs. All that I ask is that people follow the rules. Much of the rest of what you are saying I agree with. Just calm down everyone. Don't take everything so seriously.
Pudge2you

Jan 21 @ 9:28PM  
Like I said on the one you took down... I still don't think you are reading all of the blogs. There are a few here who don't write 5000 word rants or one line pick ups...

But hey I'm just in highschool, what do I know anyway...
ynot7769

Jan 21 @ 10:36PM  
hmmm not bad....but ya mighta gota bit wordy....your point is understood......any chance you misunderstood some of the folks blogs you read prior? oh and
But hey I'm just in highschool, what do I know anyway
Pudge!! thats too much!!
zippy50

Jan 21 @ 11:10PM  
Isn't this the nice thing about the internet? Before this, where could you say what you had on your mind to so many people and get an honest response? I really think that the part about blogs that I like the most is that people can give me their honest thoughts without worrying about whether I'll hit them or not. What ever answer i get isn't sugar coated. Yes, it hurts some times and there are always a few ass holes that respond in any way that might make them feel powerful but in the end it's all truth. Very rare in my day to day life. Even the negative is a breath of fresh air to me.
Thick8forUn04

Jan 22 @ 12:22AM  
Yes,there are whinners and bitchers on this site,and yes,some negative blogs,but there are also some nice people here to,but i can see what your saying,dont let them get to you,you will see who some of the decent people are,LOL just remember,opinions are like assholes,everbodys got one
weasell_l

Jan 22 @ 3:00AM  
I am absolutely awe struck..thank you..
man4funf

Jan 22 @ 4:20AM  
Well OP, That was very intense writing! I am not a regular poster here, but I am a regular reader of the blogs. And I have read blogs on many other sites. And first off, you guys here are Fantastic! I have never seen so many talented writers in one place. I have read things that make me laff and make me smile for hrs. And i have read things that made me cry, and I also felt that for hours. You all should be proud.
You cant drive down the road without a camera watching you. Every store and business has cameras. We are losing are freedom daily. They monitor our spending habits and even tell us how to raise our families. All the new cars have chips in them so they can find you anytime they want. I think we should really look at what we are upset about here. If everyone would agree to disagree. And also agree that no one human being is capable or has the knowledge to judge anyone. Then we can do what we want here and just respect each other. If we didnt have Kings and Queens, there would be no order. If we didnt have the rebels and conflicters, the Kings and Queens wouldnt have to keep themselves in check.
It takes all kinds to make this world go around. And the government is always wanting the people at odds. Democrats vs Republicans, The rich/poor, the black/white, the catholics/jews..educated/not educated, the homeowners/homeless..etc...That makes it easy for them to take away more of our freedoms, while the people are distracted argueing among themselves.
I dont know where i am going with this, but I feel we are better than we are acting here. I am also guilty of negative comments in blogs, and I appologize for that. But im not perfect and sometimes i think i know more than anyone. So boot me out, kick me out, but i will never give up my freedom of speech. I will try to be more respect of others tho. And that is an obligation that i feel we all have to each other. ...Peace Always and lets have fun in our uncensored part of reality.
joltman20

Jan 22 @ 8:01AM  
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They probably heard you on PLUTO! Please take a Chill Pill! ( Paxil works well)!
dulsinea

Jan 22 @ 12:35PM  
Geesh Sxze...you read all that?!!! I heard the tone and the lecture and skimmed through in about 3 1/2 seconds!

The whole thing is starting to give me one of the biggest chuckles in my life! I posted ONE comment on ONE blog and have been hearing about it in 50 different blogs in very not-so-subtle ways....

(and I'm not vain enough to think this was only directed at me....it's just comments of a select few that keep going on and and on and on...)

I'm trying to figure out the logic of all this....one controversial statement in one blog that has generated a dozen different blogs that are cyber bitch slapping!!

C'mon folks....get over it!!
dulsinea

Jan 22 @ 12:37PM  
and hehehe....she said "shit"

That's what started it all.......
pleasebediscreet

Jan 22 @ 1:48PM  
Nope, didn't write this blog about you or for you, Dul. It's a general statement towards this community of AMD.
JJN4Fun

Jan 30 @ 10:01AM  
Yes...coming back around to this blog - I've not forgotten the vile bitterness expressed here.

pleasebediscreet - While you and some others were ranting about other members ranting about other members being trolls, one of them was taking your rants, hiding behind them, and using your anti-censoring, freedom-of-speech platform to harass and stalk me and others. What you failed to realize - presumably because you exercised your right to chose to not read certain blogs, so you were not fully informed - is that our rants and calls to take a stand against such trolls was not simply because we didn't like what he had to say...as you seem to believe. If you had taken the time to listen to what some of us were saying - to read the other blogs where the shit was happening - perhaps you would have seen that. If you had, I think you'd have seen that we are all on the same side - we all believe in the things you're ranting about...freedom of speech, a welcoming community wherein everyone is equal, open-mindedness...and that the troll in question was engaging in illegal and threatening behaviors - but, for whatever reason, you did not.

It is because of your position in this blog that I decided to post information about the issue of cyberstalking. It is taking "troll-ism" to an extreme and it is illegal. It is not someone simply speaking his or her mind in opposition of someone or something - it's far more serious than that. I've noticed that you and several others on this blog haven't commented on any of my cyberstalking blogs...I hope this doesn't mean you're so against me as a person that you refuse to read anything I post. This isn't about "fraternizing with the enemy" - you are not my enemy; nor is this about "admitting defeat" - I've already said we are all in agreement on your basic concepts. This is about taking a very serious issue very seriously. I can only hope you do, lest it ever happen to you.

Best wishes,
Nomi
pleasebediscreet

Feb 7 @ 5:05PM  
I had an offline life to attend to, so no, I haven't been furiously checking your profile to see what new and inspirtational thoughts you've put out there. Besides, I thought you left, but I guess not.
pleasebediscreet

Mar 24 @ 11:49AM  
Update, I'd like to applaud AMD for deleting the negative members! Case in point Nomi aka Sxsze aka JJN4Fun.

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