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LYING...(I Don't Know Why Your Doing It Bugs Me)

posted 3/10/2012 1:02:14 AM |
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Alas, MD quirks are doing it EVEN MORE: Not only can I not get emails out here, I also notice my account isn't acceessible on the regular site and repeated requests to send me a Password link aren't resulting in my getting it from the Powers At Be....

all adding to the migraine I've had, ever since a date invited me out for a pretty expensive first date dinner, lectured me on how much he hates lying, then DID IT...

(Yeah, he called me a bitch; makes HIM a Hypocrite, but I'm the one who gets verbally abused)

This isn't about me being a "good girl" metaphorically or otherwise; regrettably, it's an acknowledgement of my own limitations. I've said, over the years, that, as a writer, I could never write stories...make them up: The fact is, I can't keep track of the labyrinthine trails to nowhere lying leads to, and so, it's just a helluva lot less stressful IF I DON'T TELL ANY.
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As it happens (I may have mentioned it before, but it bears repeating), I'm over 20 years sober, addictions free; to that end, it's well known in 12 Step recovery circles an infamous joke that applies to addicts of all kinds

"How can you tell when an alcoholic is lying?"
"When THEIR MOUTH is moving"

(I suppose I should consider the Oral Sex applications here...I'm thinkin, hey, when someone gives it and is talented but lies about liking it?)

The fact is, I'd rather have the truth...I mean, I'm not looking for any more complicated foreplay than spelling the four letter version of my first name correctly (and you can copy that)

Oddly, even when it comes to matters of sexual encounters, the truth is just a whole lot more efficient: Frankly, I believe the last word on this truly belongs to a Blonde Barney Fife of a Charismatic Evangelist down Bible Belt way...

The Gospel According to Ron Carpenter (Pastor, Redemption World Outreach, Greenville SC) sure fits us here, as well as any other kind of interaction:

"If they'll lie about a LITTLE THING they WON'T stop at Little"


Tonight, I'm equally disturbed, by both my dinner companions hypocritical righteous indignation over being caught as he was and MD Gremlins inability to restore outgoing email privileges to me as well as my Password sent to my standard email address.

Good Lord, I'm a great gal...sincere if not a bit skittish; Don't commit sins of omission OR boldfaced lies and surmise it's okay to beat me up because of YOUR CRUEL LACK OF RESPECT FOR ME.

I deserve better than this crap...and it isn't getting us where we wanna be with each other, and not something I can fix.




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somnium

Mar 10 @ 9:52AM  
it's well known in 12 Step recovery circles an infamous joke that applies to addicts of all kinds

"How can you tell when an alcoholic is lying?"

"When THEIR MOUTH is moving"

Also applies to politicians just as well- even more so in most, if not all cases!


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