What do I think of that? 
It's not for me. Don't want the drama of a pissed off wife showing up at my door. I mean, some women can get pretty nasty mean when they are cheated on. Just don't want to wake up to my house burning down, or my tires slashed. Would really suck if I just had the car painted and it got keyed. Ya know...all those minor things that make life miserable.
Don't get me wrong, I'll not judge a person who is cheating on their spouse. That is between them and their spouse. If there is something wrong in the marriage that the hubby has to look elsewhere, then it's either time to hit the divorce court, or, go home and fix things with the wife. But I refuse to become the wife's target when she finds out and is pissed off. I happen to enjoy my quiet, stress free life.
What's that you say? She knows and doesn't care? Then why the "secret"?  Even though she does know and is "ok" with it.....no she's not. She's just saying it for whatever reason. A lot of us women are like that..say one thing, but mean something else. Isn't that the popular belief? Actually, I do say what I mean. I hate playing games. Unless it's cards or something.
Some people, they do like that "thrill", it's a turn on for them. It's just not for me. I wouldn't want it done to me, so I wouldn't willingly do it to another.
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flavorbuster
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Jan 19 @ 5:21PM
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Do you have a married woman's man hitting on you ? Surely you aren't playing with some preowned beef.   ?
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flavorbuster
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Jan 19 @ 5:44PM
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Oh sorry !!! The wait for approval has got you singing like a mocking bird. ... 
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lunanegra
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Jan 19 @ 6:14PM
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They have their reasons, but don't ever drag me into it emotionally or physically. Its also funny that when a man cheats, the scorned go after the other women...um, whatever happened to equal asswhupins?
At any rate, I don't find it "exciting", "taboo", "glamorous" etc and so on. Most people get married for the wrong reasons, by family, what society thinks or fear of being alone. Holding out from commitment until you find the right one has to be the bravest thing a person can do.
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Lisa46
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Jan 20 @ 6:20AM
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Unfortunately I understand when a married man goes elsewhere. I have numerous friends and their wives had told me they aren't interested in sex anymore. And of course me being me  ARE YOU NUTS!!!!  They do blame some of it on menopause but then I suggest going to the doctor and getting something. But they just don't care as long as their spouse don't talk about it 
Me I wanna feller 
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soft_touch938
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Jan 20 @ 9:02PM
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The first guy I was with just over a year after Wayne died was a scoundrel. He was divorced but unbeknownst to me, he was living with his ex. I thought he lived with his brother and when I got stoooopid and let him move in with me, well, guess what? Yeah, ex showed up on my doorstep one night...beating like a madwoman on my door. He was too chicken shit to go to the door but I wasn't.
I opened it and told her I'd send him out and shut it in her face. Then she was beating on the door window so hard I thought she was gonna break it...I was PISSED!
I yanked open the door and she proceeded to push her way in. I grabbed her by the front of her blouse and backed her right out the door and shut it behind me. I then made it clear that she needed to get off my property. That I could give a shit less about her seeing him but this was my property and by gaud she wasn't gonna raise hell on it...end of story.
She was so surprised because she was accustomed to bullying people (and all the women he played around with) and didn't expect me to take matters in my own hands. I sent him out and he told her to go home, he'd see her there but he never went. She called and purred to me that he was on his way to see her and I laughed cause he was sittin' with me at my kitchen table. That's the last she ever got in my face!
Yeah, Luna's right...when a man screws around, why does the wife/gf get mad at the woman??? She should just take a deep breath then de-nut HIM! 
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StraddleMyNose
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Jan 21 @ 7:14PM
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I don't blame you. Stay away from that is the best thing you can do.
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theSkwirl
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Jan 25 @ 8:28PM
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Not a secret one.. no.. only if I hear from the wife herself that it's ok.
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