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posted 1/5/2012 10:23:35 PM |
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  aftershocks

Make me happy that is.

Why do people think another person can make them happy? Why do they think someone else is responsible for their happiness, or when that special someone lets them down or dumps them.. why do they blame that same person for their unhappiness?

Or circumstances, whether they be joblessness or the threat of losing a job, why blame circumstances for feeling unhappy?

Happiness is a choice, a personal choice. It really is that simple.

I have a bunch of shitty things going on in my life right now, but I choose not to grumble. Life is good, even when it isn;t at its best.

So again I say, I dare you. I dare you to make me happy. You can't. But go ahead and try anyway.
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sugarnspice005

Jan 5 @ 10:41PM  
Good point. We are responsible for our own happiness.

Well hell, I can't make ya happy if you're already happy!
sinkx

Jan 6 @ 12:48AM  
i can make u happy like u cant do yourself...for a little while anyway...
onehornytoad69

Jan 6 @ 1:13AM  
My 2 cents are....
You are 420 Friendly!!!

Its true..that happiness is a Choice..
But..a person can't see all that... when that Special someone tells them... Good Bye...It Hurts!! PPL have emotions...!!
Back..a few years ago..When my boss told me..I had to go....It Hurt!!! Hell, he had Tears in his eyes..when he told me that!!! No..I was Not Happy....!! I'm a Realist...I knew it would be hard for me to get any Job at my age..., Yeah I kept my chin ..up..and was not Negative...but I was Not happy!!! I was Content at best....I guess
How Can I Make you Happy?
You have to be Happy with your Own life..1st!! Noone could have made me completely Happy..if I was not happy with Myself!
How can I make you Happy?
Call me on a Long Weekend if ya wanna.....and Maybe I could make ya A lil Happy!!! Just saying...
40DWM

Jan 6 @ 8:53AM  
( sigh.... ) There just ain't no pleasing some people

That's why I say, "The best revenge, is to live a good live".
Ewe_Wish

Jan 6 @ 10:40AM  
I agree that we can only make ourselves happy, but sadly outside forces can shake our happiness no matter how hard we try not to let it. I am a happy person but there are things in my life that make me dissatisfied. I am sure that is the case with most ppl. having someone walk out on you or losing your job..........that would qualify for most ppl as a reason to disrupt their happiness. People get hurt........it doesn't mean that their whole happiness depended on that person that walked out on them, or their jobs, but as humans we have feelings and we get hurt. But how long we allow that hurt to disrupt our lives is what is important. Or if we go out to find someone to replace the one that walked out on us.........than that would mean we are counting on someone to make us happy instead of getting over the hurt of losing that person and getting on with life.........yes we all hope to have a special someone in our lives....but we should never count on it,.........break ups, death......lots of reasons why we cant be with the one we love...it is up to us to get through it and go on to enjoy life again...........its short enough as it is........if we don't make ourselves happy.........its just a waste of time.

Good blog.
theSkwirl

Jan 7 @ 1:49PM  
I just handed over the nut and walked away grinnin.

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