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posted 12/30/2011 2:13:10 AM |
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  ladybootscooter

I popped on for a few minutes tonight, basically to see who was alive and kicking. I don't remember the last time I even logged on, much less posted anything. I know it's been months and I'll just leave it at that.

Then I posted that while I didn't go through with the move west (much to Sammy and Crissy's disappointment!!) I had found happiness beyond what I ever thought was possible! I'm happy to report still 'over the moon happy'!! I've moved in with the man I met and we just spent our first Christmas together as a family. It was awesome! His three grown children and their spouses and kids, his ex wife and her husband (yes we all get along and it works alot better for the kids this way!) and my parents came and spent the day Christmas Eve. All in all a total of 18 for Christmas dinner! Now while I missed my own son and his family terribly through this holiday season, it helped to have a large crowd, little ones and a baby in the house that day!

I worried in the beginning, that his kids might not like me or approve. I mean we did jump into this move in thing rather quickly according to most folks standards. But I couldn't have been farther from the truth! They have accepted me and welcomed me into their family as though they were my own kids!! Even adding me as a family member (stepmom) on their FB accounts! Even my parents had a blast and think the world of my love!! Mom calls him her 'new son in law'! No, we've gotten married, and have no intention of doing so anytime soon! We've agreed that if we still feel this way in 5 years, we'll get married. Until then, if it's not broken, why fix it?

So while I'm recognizing a few of the user names on the blogs, many are total strangers! I had alot of fun here through the long years I've been a member, but it's time to finally cancel out my account! Most of you that I care to keep in contact with, I already do on FB or you have my private email addy. If you don't write to me and I'll send it to you, but for now.........Merry Christmas and the Happiest of New Years to each of you! May you find what you seek!! If you wind up even half as happy as I am you'll be a lucky soul indeed!

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Ewe_Wish

Dec 30 @ 2:25AM  
I totally understand you canceling your account..........it had been a year since i had been here and I came in thinking i might cancel but hey its a place to check in once or twice a day.........and my b/f works and I don't.........so its something to do during the day or in evening after he has gone home or i get home lol now enough about me lol

I am so happy for you Stormy.....I had just written you an email when I saw your blog........I am glad that special one you have been searching for came into your life.......and someone you do the things you love to do ...........like riding motorcycle. I will miss you here..........but i know where to find you on FB so its not like we will get in touch. You and I have had our ups and downs, totally my fault I will admit, but i do know one thing..........the fact that we lubs each other and will always care about each other.

I hated to here J has to head back to afghanistan. The fact that he is leaving his young family at home bothers me knowing how much it weighed on my daughter-n-law and grandson. You know I will keep them all in my thoughts and prayer.

Go Stormy..........get on with your life and be happy. thats what is important is being happy............I hope that all you ever wished for comes true.
HairyPus

Dec 30 @ 2:34AM  
Farewell Ladybootscooter and a happy life to you. I haven’t been here long and never heard of you, but something tells me you’ll be back 24-hours into your first quarrel with new bf…maybe under an assumed name to save face.

Your final post has been helpful to me in the quest to understand the complaints I read about AMD blogs.

Clearly this post is most appropriate to FB – it’s anecdotal and only has interest to your family and friends. I think you became a member here and carried this kind of prose to AMD BEFORE FB was available. What I realized reading this is that there’s a good rule of thumb that would severely improve the general tenor of these blogs. And here it is:

There’s a difference between what you think and what you did. What you think has a place in the public dialog. What you did is a matter more suited to venues such as FB.

If we confined our blogs to what we think, the gossipy character of these blogs would vanish and they would become far more thought-provoking and universal in their appeal. No insults intended to Scooter or others still posting FB oriented material to these blogs -- just my take on it.
Strega

Dec 30 @ 2:37AM  
I am so happy that things are going well for you. I wish nothing but the best for your son. I know how it is to have your kids deployed. Hopefully they will all be home soon.
JustAnAvatar

Dec 30 @ 7:34AM  
Clearly this post is most appropriate to FB – it’s anecdotal and only has interest to your family and friends.

As opposed to, say, an insipid "analysis" of the GOP Presidential field that reads like a college freshman paraphrasing Gloria Borger?
onehornytoad69

Dec 30 @ 8:09AM  
Good Luck to ya sweetie!!!
I wish you.. only "Happiness"....
stephykink

Dec 30 @ 8:35AM  
JustAnAvatar (how true)


As opposed to, say, an insipid "analysis" of the GOP Presidential field that reads like a college freshman paraphrasing Gloria Borger?



Perhaps you could enlighten us with your own analysis on the correct blog.

***Gloria Borger is an analyst from CNN who raised some specific questions to Ron Paul during an interview regarding newsletters from Ron Paul which were from the 1980's and 1990's as regards to his racist comments. Ron Paul walked out of the interview.***

Such is the case with this off topic comment, both walked out without providing information.
JustAnAvatar

Dec 30 @ 9:02AM  
On this site? Why?

I was no less off topic than the post I was responding to.

But it's interesting that (a) the laest incarnation of Cocktail rushed in to defend it, and (b) that you read it as a defense of Gloria Borger.

My point is merely that I prefer LBS' s post to shallow, cable TV style blathering.
ILgal

Dec 30 @ 10:21AM  

ooooooooooooo for crying out loud did you have to turn it into yet another political blog

this poor lady is trying to say good bye .. knock it off already
HairyPus

Dec 30 @ 11:30AM  
My post about Scooter’s farewell is a serious observation about the nature of blogs and the metamorphosis of AMD blogs juxtaposed against the evolution of others better suited to material of an anecdotal nature. I thought it was a relatively astute observation and I still think the quality of this AMD blogs would improve if we worked to write about what we think, rather than things we’ve done with friends and relatives. No slight was intended to Scooter or anyone else, and I said as much in my post.

Why, then, would some Golumesque entity rise from the mire of provocateurs to recall an earlier blog I wrote, and say about it:

As opposed to, say, an insipid "analysis" of the GOP Presidential field that reads like a college freshman paraphrasing Gloria Borger?

Several years ago when I posted a profile on AMD, my bf posted his. While I did not blog, bf did. He was greeted by at least a dozen messages welcoming him to the blogs. Long gone attitude. Now it seems, the site is laced with venom and populated by snipers eager to insult the most benign commentator.

I work to arrange my prose to this post in a conversational tone, but it can be raised to the level of well-published novelist with zero effort. Just so…in my most lethargic literary reverie it will NEVER qualify as insipid or sink to the level of college freshman. Nor will my spot-on political analysis ever fail to inspire consideration of an issue. I wonder if the sniper can say the same.
somnium

Dec 30 @ 11:41AM  
ANYWAY:

I too, am fortunate to have an ex and her husband as friends and have been to their home with my daughter and grand kids for the holidays, as well as them celebrating the holidays at my daughter's place, for years now! Makes enjoying the get-togethers, much more pleasant!

Good luck in your new adventures LBS!!


ILgal

Dec 30 @ 11:46AM  
calm down HP .. go back and finish making your dip...

you'll never getted fucked with your mouth going 90 miles an hour..
rdsingle

Dec 30 @ 12:43PM  
Good luck lady.
HairyPus

Dec 30 @ 1:25PM  
you'll never getted fucked with your mouth going 90 miles an hour..

The trick is knowing when to zip it up and when to zip it down
ILgal

Dec 30 @ 1:43PM  
HP I think you ..as you would say ...

you have made an excellent point that requires no debate
JustAnAvatar

Dec 30 @ 3:04PM  
ooooooooooooo for crying out loud did you have to turn it into yet another political blog

this poor lady is trying to say good bye .. knock it off already


Nope. My intent was not to turn it into another political blog. I was annoyed by the snotty digs in HPs comments under a blog that was clearly not addressed to her:

I haven’t been here long and never heard of you, but something tells me you’ll be back 24-hours into your first quarrel with new bf…maybe under an assumed name to save face.

I found it particularly annoying that she would go on to tell LBS that this blog was inappropriate, because I had just suffered through her sophomoric political observations posted to a site that isn't in the least political.

Yes - I read her response. She's brilliant, at least in her opinion, although I don't agree that obvious observations that come straight from nightly cable coverage are worthwhile just because she feels she writes sparkling prose.

But hey - I rarely come here. HP will remain a regular because she clearly needs to gratify her ego by posting overwritten essays with an audience that's not going to be too critical.
ILgal

Dec 30 @ 3:25PM  
Hey don't let a chick with an over abudance of words run you off.. I'm sure her battery will run down pretty soon.
girlcountry

Dec 30 @ 3:29PM  
Hey LBS....great to see you here! I am so happy for you and glad to hear that your life is going so good. May you have a great New Year and many blessings to you!!
ladybootscooter

Dec 30 @ 4:50PM  
Cheese and fucking rice people!! This is EXACTLY why I'm getting laid daily and some of you never will!!! Get a clue, it's not a political site, never has been, never will be! It's supposed to be an adult dating site, so said I would like to assume that talking about sex and relationships is allowed, encouraged even.

But it doesn't really matter whether you drone on and on about Republicans vs Democrats and the state of the piss poor selections for the Iowa Caucus. Because what it all comes down to is you apparently have plenty of time to drone on, but as for me.........I'm off for some wind therapy, to be followed by a nice romantic steak dinner out, then coming home to fuck our brains out!! Jealous??? LMAO

Have a nice life.

As to my friends near and dear that I've made on here........love ya'll, wish you the happiness you all deserve!

Happy New Year!!

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