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posted 12/17/2011 12:11:49 PM |
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This Blog was Inspired ....By this Blog..
Actually this Quote..............

Actually nowadays, I really don't want to FUCK!
Yes, the words that I never say ...

What I want is to make love and really I've been doing that all along ..

that's just me ... I have to adore the man, his mind and his character ..
to find him adorable and have a great attitude about being intimate..

I have been blessed to have shared time with some really special men.
I hope she don't mind me using it?
but before we get to that..a lil story.....bare with me plz...

I Fell in Love...with the Only Woman I had ever dated!!!
We were Married at a very YOUNG age..... we had our children at the beginning of our Marriage also....
She was my soul mate...I have No Doubt about that!!!
anyways....we fucked that up!! (and I said WE)

After we Separated... I found it hard to Just FUCK...any Lady!!!
I went on that fishy Place..and met a good many.....of very lovely ladies....!!! But...I didn't even want Sex!!! A good many of them did!!! Some even told me soooo!!! that time...I was still hurting from the Loss of my Marriage ...I guess?!! IDK...
After some time passed...I began to loosen up a bit....and found a lady that I had gotten to know ...very well...and Finally ...we had sex...well I guess...We Made Love!!! I'm not the type of Guy that can just up and fuck any ole woman!!!!
I'm thinking by me having a relationship with One woman for so long...that it made me that way....!
In other relationships....there was one Lady..I adored...but the 1st time we had sex..was a real Flop..on my part!!! I Don't have ED...but I did that day!!! WTF?
By the next emotions had built up....and we made Love... all day Long!!! Damn I Miss her!!!

I know that everyone is Different....
But please do tell...guys..can you Just Fuck any woman?
Ladies...What does it take for you to have sex?
Is it just attraction? Will that do it?
Do you need some Chemistry? How well do you have to know your Partner..before you can have some Awesome Sex?
What is it...that makes you Want someone..Sexually?
What does it take to Turn You On!!!!?

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Dec 17 @ 12:39PM  
After a nice dinner date and general conversation- a nice long cuddling session starting with cloths on and our favorite drinks, along with conversation about our selves, both of us working a piece of clothing off here and there on the other one, touching, little massages here and there, kisses and some tongue action, leading to whatever feels good to each other, which is part of the conversation about our selves to begin with- how else are you going to find out what feels good to your partner?


Dec 17 @ 12:44PM  
For me it has always been part of a LTR. Even back in the 60s and 70s I wasn't going to hop into bed with just anyone. Now the male members of our band would screw pretty much anything with a vagina after a couple of drinks, and then wondered why their wives divorced them. They took sex, drugs and rock and roll a little too far.
What does it take for me to have sex with someone? They have to be intelligent, and I have to care for them. We have to be on the same wavelength outside the bedroom as well.

Dec 17 @ 12:53PM  
I'm sitting here thinking .. it's hard to remember's been wayyy too long. so apparently whatever it takes hasn't happened in a while .. I do think chemistry has a lot to do with it .. I remember the sparkle in his eyes when he smiled .. the kisses on my neck .. not too many words have to be said .. he was very attentive ... brought flowers and lots of hugs.

Dec 17 @ 7:11PM  
I agree with Strega on it being part of a LTR, and yes, chemistry and attraction. I can't just up and have sex with someone if I don't even know their name.

Dec 17 @ 7:16PM  
Well it doesn't necessarily take love.......I have sex with men that i just liked.........but there has to be more.........there has to be a chemistry...........we have to be friends........I don't do strangers just because it takes time for me to find that certain thing I find attractive about them (and not just looks) I had well actually have a good friend who was just a fuck buddy........we had a great time..........spent time doing other things.........but when it came right down to it...........there was just not enough there to be in a commitment with him.

Dec 17 @ 7:52PM  
Interested. If a woman cant keep my intrest then there is no sense to having sex. Chemistry is fine. But if your bored with each other before you will probably be bored during sex. As for a stranger, i like to find out more about a woman before having sex.

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