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On the edge

posted 12/3/2011 4:43:05 PM |

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rdsingle

Every other month I have days off during the week. Since my kids are all back in school I was able to enjoy the pleasure of a woman. We dont really get along and over the years we have had sex just to take off the edge of not having someone full time. Both of us are looking for fulltime relationships. Definately not looking into each other. Normally we fight like cats and dogs. My question is do you think we are being hypocritical. We have had casual sex while loking for others. So far neither of us have come close. What do you think. Casual sex while looking, good or bad.

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somnium

Dec 3 @ 5:24PM

Sounds like you and/or her may feel guilty! If that's the case... why? You're both adults- if both of you are aware of what you have going and if it works for the both of you, what could be wrong with that? If you or both were married, different story but, I take it neither of you are so, why worry about it? Enjoy it!

Just my 2¢ worth and then I probably have change coming back!

sugarnspice005

Dec 3 @ 6:47PM

As far as I'm concerned, if it's working for the two of you...then it's working. I don't see anything "hypocritical" as you aren't "cheating" on each other, or cheating on a significant other.

onehornytoad69

Dec 3 @ 7:30PM

Yanno....
If you don't like the Situation... stop it!! Only You know...!! None of us can help with that!!!
If not..carry on!!
I once had a lady like that... mine was just someone I met online...,(Yours sounds like a X... [e57)
I worked with her hubby!
They were separated......but,... It just didn't feel right! So... I had to stop all that!

Go with your Heart man!! Only "You" can Help you here!!!
My 2 Cents!!!

pinklipstick2

Dec 3 @ 8:46PM

Think this is up to you and her. But if it was me I know I couldn't have sex with someone I had a lot of fights with. Cause That means I don't really like them . But thats me .

Ewe_Wish

Dec 4 @ 12:30AM

Being honest is really the best thing to do.........so you both know you are not really interested in each other except for the occassional sex.........so be it.......but if one of you starts seeing someone else ...........be honest and tell the other one..........but I should caution you........if you two fight now..........let one of you start seeing someone else.........then jealousy will kick in and you will really fight.........even if you don't want each other......if one of you starts seeing someone else.......the other is going to be jealous it wasn't them who found someone...........so just remember that..........and be prepared......but otherwise do what you want to do guilt free.

Stubbsy

Dec 4 @ 1:02AM

hypocritical: professing feelings or virtues one does not have

Uh, no.

Casual sex while not in a serious relationship is neither good nor bad.

rdsingle

Dec 4 @ 11:37AM

I thank you all for your comments.

Strega

Dec 4 @ 12:58PM

As for me, I don't do the casual sex thing. It just never seemed to end well for my friends who did. Someone usually ended up feeling used and abused. But to each his / her own. If you fight a lot, are you sure both of you on the same page with this?

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