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Why is it so hard to find a woman who likes older men?

posted 8/31/2011 6:26:34 AM |
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As a man who just turned 50, it amazes me that so many women are turned off by us older guys! they think that we are not fit enough for sex any more or that we can't keep up in the bedroom!
I wan to be just one voice and say that yes, we have a sex drive a 50 and some of us have a high one at that!!! There are those who can out perform a 20 something year old male in the bedroom and have the woman wanting more of it and then giving it to her 3 or 4 times in one night! There is no bragging going on here, I am just putting thought and facts out there seeking answer to why are you woman so turned off by us?

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lunanegra

Aug 31 @ 8:06AM  
Few isolated cases don't equal the collective. I like older men, but in my experience it feels like theyre trying to be 20 because theyre having a mid-life, want someone young, dumb and naive or they have a very unhappy marriage they wont leave.

Some wouldn't be so repellant if they stuck to ageing gracefully. I'm just saying.
sugarnspice005

Aug 31 @ 9:42AM  
I agree with what Luna says, and, I may add, sometimes younger women don't want to feel like they're "dating dad" so to speak. Men aren't the only visual creatures either, us women are visual also, and, like you guys, we have a "image" of what turns us on also.

And, some are just little snots anyway.
soft_touch938

Aug 31 @ 10:15AM  
What age group do you have in mind? Eighteen or twenties? Come on man...they feel like their dating their daddy!

Your emphasis in your blog is focused on sex so don't you think they know that's all you're out for? Young doesn't necessairly mean dumb.

I'd like to know why men 50 and up are so gung-ho for the younger women. You don't have anything in common to talk about yanno. Is it an ego thing? Young women to show off and say "Lookie what I got!"?

You crow about your sexual ability at your age but hasn't it ever occured to you that a woman your age could be just as sexual as you are? She's free from raising kids, sure of herself, knows what she wants and she is experienced.

Or does that scare you? She'll KNOW if you're as good as you say...or not. She expects good performance and she'll know when you're feeding her bullshit.

Is that why men want younger women...because they think a young gal will look up to them, adore them and not be wise to being used for sex or that a few glitches in the sexual performance won't be recognized?
Wordsofwit

Aug 31 @ 12:47PM  
For the younger woman to consider an older guy, it's not how much dick you can give her but rather how much cash you can spend.
Wordsofwit

Aug 31 @ 4:12PM  
Is that why men want younger women...

A lot of men are visual and the younger women are pleasing to the eye. A lot of guys who like younger women like young, well built, good looking women. You can take everything from commercials, to TV shows/movies, even singers and porn and what you see in women are usually good looking ones with nice figures.

That being said, I think that there is a lot of fantasy involved or trying to recapture the past. I don't know of any guy who fantasizes about a plain looking, dumpy, mature woman. It's just not something you want to visualize.
aftershocks

Aug 31 @ 7:11PM  
You crow about your sexual ability at your age but hasn't it ever occured to you that a woman your age could be just as sexual as you are? She's free from raising kids, sure of herself, knows what she wants and she is experienced.
Exactly! Well said, Softie!

I don't know of any guy who fantasizes about a plain looking, dumpy, mature woman. It's just not something you want to visualize.
I don;t know of any woman who fantasizes about balding men with a beer belly that takes 2 or 3 inches off of an average 6" cock. Who is too proud to admit he needs Viagra or other ED medication, whines about using condoms (because he can't get his cock stiff enough to keep it on) and brags about his oral skills because all he wants is to get sucked off.

That said, what I look for is ENERGETIC AGE. Some 50 year old men are really old ... they seem as old as many guys over 60. Then there are guys over 60 who have the energy and the stamina of men 10 and 15 years younger than them.

Another thing to consider is WHERE you are looking. You may not find "real" many woman of any age from the Boonville, Indiana area here at AMD.

And it might not even be your age. Your profile says you are 5'4", and women tend to prefer taller men. Good luck to you and may we all get lucky...
40DWM

Aug 31 @ 7:59PM  
I guess that you don't have any of 'em hugging you, grabbing your wallet through your pants, and saying,

"Oh Baby.....you've got such a big W-2"
onehornytoad69

Aug 31 @ 9:35PM  
I have No Problem getting Laid...but this ole Monkey can't climb just any ole Tree!!!!
I'll be 52 the week after next !!!
I can teach most men..and a Hell of a lot of Women......( be them..... Old or Young)...many things about sex..hell... many things about themselves..!!!
Gotta look in the right places!!! They are here...but ....you will have to be patient!!! (sometimes! lol)
Don't worry Be happy!!!

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Why is it so hard to find a woman who likes older men?