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posted 8/19/2011 2:33:15 AM |
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The last three women I've been with has made me wonder if something is happening with the ladies. Not being disrespectful or anything like that.
The 1st one told me straight up about 3 months into the relationship she was wanting a long-term relationship. ok...11 days later she left for her home state. She said she changed her mind about long-term and I was not the problem...she wasn't sure what she wanted.
The 2nd one said she wasn't sure what she wanted...
And 3, she was a one-nite and within two days said she thinking of a long -term relationship with someone like me but turns around and hookups with supposely a exboyfriend...then wants me back for long-term relationship...oh no.
They all said I didn't do anything wrong...they just seem confused about what they wanted. Some of my buddies and other friends are have similar fates with women.
Do women really know what they want in a relationship? I would like to know please.
Thank you

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Aug 19 @ 6:32AM  
Maybe they just came out of a relationship.That could have been very good or very bad and be in a holding pattern to see how they feel what they want. Maybe you just choose ones who have never known what they wanted. Just appear stable on the outside. But thats just IMO. Good Luck someone out there .

Aug 19 @ 7:34AM  
Just my observations. You ever hear the old "It's a woman's prerogative to change her mind" ? I think it's an old excuse, that many really don't know what they want.
For the last few months, my ex-g/f has been iming me....admit she's confused.
Want's to dump the guy she's living with, and move back in with me. Next day, is
happy that's he's talking marriage, and wants to stay with him.
24 hours later, re-hashing 'us', and wants to get back. She dumped me for him, and has a history of leaving one fella, for something newer.
ALWAYS looking for a place to land, for when she decides to leap. Perhaps 'yours' too, are always looking for a 'safe place' to land.

Aug 19 @ 8:50AM  
My comment to that and always has been is:

'Women fascinate me... I just wish they came with built in Help files!'


Aug 19 @ 9:27AM  
Don't know what to tell you...only getting your side of the story here. But, from what I'm seeing, the three you listed sound "flighty", can't make up their minds. Are they young? Early 20's maybe?

And 40DWM..that ex.......RUN! That's all I've gotta say!

Aug 19 @ 10:14AM  
How old are these ding a lings???
Sound pretty immature and mixed up to me..

Aug 19 @ 2:13PM  
Sorry about not giving the ages of each women. 1st one was 52, five years older then me at the time, 2nd one was 41..six years younger at that time, and the last one was year younger then me.
I know the first two was not on the rebound. the 3rd one i don't know....

Thanks for your comments...guess I'm having bad luck...just making sure there wasn't a new trend going on that I not heard.


Aug 20 @ 2:57AM  
They are using you till someone better shows up with the goods...whatever that means...apparently you have got yourself into a stream of unconcious woman. You can't generalize all woman. Everyone is different. be aware and wary and if you don't know if they are on the rebound then you don't know them well enough to have a long term relationship.

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