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The "Chemistry, Alchemy & MAGIC" Of BDSM

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The "Chemistry, Alchemy & MAGIC" Of BDSM

What is the "Chemistry, Alchemy & MAGIC" Of BDSM?

In My mind the answer is quite simple, but also rather elusive.

Chemistry is when two substances interact with each other to form something new. Each substance is transformed via the interaction. This reaction can occur on its own or may require a catalyst. In BDSM this interaction can be that of D/s as well as M/s amongst other things. When O/one finds a suitable partner as I term it 1 + 1 does not equal 2 instead 1 + 1 equals 11. Most would think of this as an additive function, but in BDSM I see it as one that is exponential. Where the sum of the parts is so much greater.

Alchemy is when one can change lead into gold. Once again a transformation that is seldom seen. Yes, today with modern technology it is possible to actually do this transformation, but the cost is prohibitive. In BDSM I see Alchemy as the transformation within the dynamic of where the cost is not prohibitive and the return on the investment is great.

MAGIC is when the sixth sense is involved. For it is that which you can not see, smell, touch, taste or hear. It is that part of the BDSM dynamic that you can ONLY sense. It is the sense from within each O/ones core being.

These are the three elements of BDSM that I always seek and try to obtain.

They are so very elusive and even at times unobtainable. However, when all three elements are present the end result is spectacular and a thing of both beauty and joy for the lucky O/ones.

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Jul 12 @ 7:17PM  
MAGIC is when the sixth sense is involved. For it is that which you can not see, smell, touch, taste or hear. It is that part of the BDSM dynamic that you can ONLY sense

very good......sometimes you find that 'one' where you know what they think and or feel...i even gave up tryin to understand WHY or HOW ..i've learned to simply accept it and enjoy it....

good one sir....kudos

Jul 17 @ 8:46PM  
BDSM is not always a guarantee of chemistry, alchemy or magic. Just like love and sex are never guarantees of chemistry, alchemy or magic. Sometimes intimate experiences are empty.

I know many enthusiastic wannabe Doms who tote big black bags of floggers, restraints and other toys. They know how to hold a flogger, they know how to attach nipple clamps, but they have no idea how to connect with another human being. Or at least they do not seem to know how to connect with me.

That said, when I find myself in the presence of a Dom who possesses the chemistry and magic that makes me want to drop to my knees and please him in every way imaginable, it is beautiful and wonderful

Sometimes I am nice to the wannabe Doms, and don;t say anything. Sometimes I am not so nice..

Jul 17 @ 11:26PM  
I think that synergy is wonderful in any type of relationship but it is rare. That is what makes it special when that alignment takes place.

Sep 20 @ 11:40AM  
I still l really like what you say in this post.

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