All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope. All the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, there's someone perfect who might be searching for us.
~Kevin Arnold~
This quote is so true. So true... I'm searching for that perfect someone. I found him once before, but I screwed up. Now I want the same kind of person back or at least someone like him.
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Wordsofwit
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Apr 22 @ 11:06PM
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I can relate, but after 20 years, I have given up and blown it off.
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PinkToeNails
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Apr 22 @ 11:07PM
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Exactly!  ...... Great quote! ... 
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RevDocLove
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Apr 23 @ 9:28AM
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As one of my tee shirts says..
I May Not Be Perfect
But I'm So Damn Close
It Scares Me
 
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sugarnspice005
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Apr 23 @ 5:48PM
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I had that "perfect someone". There will never be another like him. And I keep looking for that special someone.
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PeachyKeen
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Apr 26 @ 6:25PM
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It's understandable... we all want to love and be loved. However, I think we are making the same mistakes over and over... it's why the divorce rate is so high.
One of the things that is missing in raising and teaching children is how to relate to one another in a non-dependent way in all relationships. We don't even touch on this subject except in what NOT to do.
No one person can complete us. We have to be complete within ourselves first. We have to learn to practice self-honesty, to accept, love and respect ourselves before we can begin to do these things with another. If we place hopes and dreams completely upon another person to make our life a happy one, we will inevitably be disappointed.
It takes a lot of hard work to become non-dependent... it isn't an easy path. However, if more people learned how to do this we would be happier within ourselves and our relationships personally and professionally
Searching for the perfect love without doing the internal work needed is a fool's game and results in broken relationships that could have been avoided.
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