First off, my girlfriend of 8 years. We were engaged but things would just fall apart. We would reconcile and it would be great for a while. Well, things turned bad again and she left me last May. For about 3 months, she would come to me for sex and knowing I still loved her, I should have stopped her. But hoping if we continued a sexual relationship, we would grow back together. I was wrong, she met someone and ended all contact with me.
Next, is my neighbor who moved from New York. She moved here, having a boyfriend back in New York. They were planning on making a long distance relationship work. We started hanging out a little and I created feelings for her. I confronted her and she told me too forget those feelings so we could continue a friendship. Alright with this, she came on to me and even called it off with her boyfriend. I was having sex with her all the time, even sleeping in her bed for about 4 months. Out of nowhere, she says we can no longer see each other.
What do they both have in common? They were both taking several things for depression and schizophrenia. Both were crazy.
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lunanegra
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Feb 13 @ 1:45PM
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What do they both have in common? They were both taking several things for depression and schizophrenia. Both were crazy.
That's an unfair assessment- I dont think there's a correlation between bad relationships and mental illness. It could've probably went wrong because of bad timing or other circumstances. Also, why not call out your own faults; you slept with them afterall. If you knew they were sick, why didnt whet your dick with a sane girl, then? Just sayin'- takes 2 to tango 
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funnywhapper
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Feb 13 @ 2:06PM
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seems quite normal for the norms of our day in age.;..
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funnywhapper
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Feb 13 @ 2:06PM
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seems quite normal for the norms of our day in age.;..
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drcocktail
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Feb 13 @ 4:55PM
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They were both taking several things for depression and schizophrenia
Quite possibly that might have been your first clue, especially the schizophrenia.
BTW, if you want comments, click on 'myaccounts', then change your comments to accept all. Nobody will post to you after seeing "Your comment will wait for approval".
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MsShuto
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Feb 13 @ 5:51PM
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. It could've probably went wrong because of bad timing or other circumstances. Also, why not call out your own faults; you slept with them afterall. If you knew.
If you're going to write, learn your sentence structure...It should read "It could possibly have gone wrong", not could've probably went.
Adam relationships and mental illness do have a direct correlation, infortunately they do not become readily apparent until much later in a relationship. I believe the duration of your dating in both cases should have given you some indication that potential problems could exist. Quite possibly the benefits of sex may have inhibited you from pursuing answers you may have been reluctant to ask. 
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adams84
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Feb 13 @ 5:54PM
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My 8 yr relationship did have many circumstances that played into it coming to an end.
My neighbor did not mention she had any mental problems, and she was the one that attacked me for sex. 3 months in, was when I found out she had the problems.
I am not perfect, in no way. I made my mistakes, but I do want a "sane girl".
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Sunshinegal35
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Feb 13 @ 6:09PM
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I dated a guy once who talked about how "crazy" women are. He spoke incessantly about his exes who were also "crazy". After six months of dating, I realized he thought himself perfect, therefore no matter how SANE I was, I would still land in the "crazy" category.
I ended things and of course he labeled me "crazy".
I think sometimes a bad relationship can make someone nuts.
Anyone could be on antidepressants in this day and age- but the schizophrenia would worry me.
I guess we all should look before we leap into the sack.....
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adams84
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Feb 13 @ 7:17PM
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I'm not saying all women are crazy. I was just venting about my last 2 relationships.
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