I have just read a very well written blog by a fellow MD alum trying to explain the desperation pit that alot of people fall into on the flipping internet dating sites. I have to hand it to him he did a very good job explaining it and was very knowledgable. The one thing he seemed to leave out was Have Fun. I mean in all seriousness responses from emails that you send out are not responded to soley on how well you wrote it. Think long and hard if you have ever had a bad day? Did you feel like meeting someone new online? Or wait maybe it was a heavy flow day(i see the joke) and her/his(not as likely with his though) email box was over flowing and they decide they just dont feel like reading when the get past number 3 or 4 or even 2. All of this can happen with out anything done wrong in your email or even in your heading. I tend to agree with the fellow I mentioned before and belive that you should stay away from the LOVE THE PIX LETS CHAT(tried it just to see what happened 4 out of 24 responded on another site) . I would love to meet my soul mate and have lots of little soulmated babies. I think the best way to meet someone and to come across closest to yourself is to maybe go into thinking just of being friends nothing more or less just a friend that you can email and laugh with. There is no wrong or right way to meet the person your suppose to spend that rest of your life with. If your suppose to meet in the ladies room of local bar or whatever. LIfe isnt about doing something wrong and then beating yourself up about it. Fricking take the lesson from it and let it go. Love has a way of finding us when we least expect it. I have alot of friends with GREAT online success stories and as of today I have a friend with one of the worst you could ever imagine. Both spectrums of it and not much done different. ITs a crap shoot out there so just toss your dice and deal with the results.
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Some times you just need to ride the whirlwind till you find a way off
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