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So Why Are We Here??

posted 1/31/2011 5:02:41 AM |
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I was looking over some things the other night and it dawned on me. No great epiphany or anything, But, the simple realization of What are we really doing here. I came here for what I thought were obvious reasons. I seek sex. Dont you?? I know some of us are looking for long term and other things, but, doesnt it all boil down ( or get really close to ) nothing more than sex?? I know we are all not compatible with each other and thats why there are posts and essays. We should be respectful of those guidelines and be honest about our intentions. Sometimes, when the criteria is close I invite to check me out, just to see if there is a remote possibility of meeting. If not, I move on. I dont have a pic posted for personal reasons. Some may say thats childish, but, I think it's good practice. You want see me or something, you can write and ask. Some of us are married and seek what we are not getting in our relationship we are in. Hey sometimes bad things happen to good people and we just dont have an out. Yet. But even so, if a person writes/contacts/winks whatever, the recipient should at least be courteous enough to look them over, make a decision and let that person know. We are after all adults here, and I'm pretty sure have over the course of our lives handled rejection a time or two. If you havent, then maybe you havent lived yet. We get over it. It hurts, but, hey if theres not to be theres not to be. Just let them know. But then I thought, if we are all seeking this same option, why cant or why arent we finding/getting it where ever we may be? What has us pouring out our needds to total strangers?? Simple, we dont want to mingle with neighbors we live with, we want our privacy and discretion respected and therefore must seek it elsewhere. If your truly honest about your posting and really want to meet for whatever, then you should be here more frequently. Not every 3 or so months. Unless thats how long in advance you have playdates set up, then WOW you really are something to behold (or hold onto or something).All Im saying is take a chance at chatting with someone. Get to know a bit, then maybe when time is right, let it happen. Or if your so inclined, invite over and let it happen. It pains me to know there are ladies out there seeking what I offer yet dont respond. Maybe its the pic thing maybe not. My profile, like yours is out there for all to see. And while there have been answers and replies and chats, I am still curious why there arent more. Especially given how many of us are seeking the same things. Lets hear what you think.

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