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Are You Fucking...Or Are You Making Love?

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  KitKat25

Since this place is technically a sex site...I thought I would actually post a blog about sex. I know...shocking isn't it.

So today my lil' pervs...the topic on the table is sex...or rather fucking...and making love...whichever way you refer to that fun activity that takes place beneath your bedroom sheets.

When you find that special person...and you two decide to slip away for a little bit of mattress dancing ...I want to know what you peeps call it.

In your mind...are you fucking...or are you making love?

Me? IMHO...whether we're doing a quickie on the kitchen table...or something a little bit longer in the bedroom...I've always made love with the guy I was with ...simply because I cannot bring myself to just fuck someone. I maybe a little old fashioned...but the term fucking just seems so cold and impersonal to me...and I'm simply not wired that way.

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tassie1

Jan 30 @ 4:10AM  
neither

cos you won't put out




tuff guys don't make love, they make fuck
lunanegra

Jan 30 @ 4:11AM  
Fucking always struck me as a specific type of sex whether youre in a relationship or not. Its quick, hot, sweaty, sticky, and probably breaks a bed frame or two.

Making love is also a type of sex to me, regardless of relationship status. Sometimes, you wanna undress, caress and make the sheets a mess.

Fuck does feel kinda of impersonal, but sometimes I cant say I'm in the mood for lovey-dovey. I can take either one, because its sex!
KitKat25

Jan 30 @ 4:32AM  
Tassie:
neither cos you won't put out
Psst...that's cuz I don't want to upset Mama Taz.

tuff guys don't make love, they make fuck


Luna:
Fuck does feel kinda of impersonal, but sometimes I cant say I'm in the mood for lovey-dovey. I can take either one, because its sex!
I like your description Luna. It made me think about this topic from a different POV.
Wordsofwit

Jan 30 @ 6:44AM  
In lieu of intimacy and romance (which is rare) I have always found sleaze to be a great alternative
Lisa46

Jan 30 @ 6:48AM  
I have always found sleaze to be a great alternative


and that my friends is putting it correctly
RevDocLove

Jan 30 @ 7:29AM  
It's fuckin' makin' love if you love to fuck
flavorbuster

Jan 30 @ 8:43AM  
Are You Fucking...Or Are You Making Love?
Let me go Chinese fortune cookie on you. If you are trying to make love & not in love then by all means that is most certainly fucking. The word sex is a polite way of expressing the meaning of fucking so if you got someone inside of you moving up & down like an oil derrick then you are fucking or just getting fucked.
aftershox

Jan 30 @ 9:08AM  
Yes to both.

I need a mixture of hot raunch, sleaze, rough, kink with dirty talk mixed with some tender lovey- dovey love making with eye to eye contact and tender words whispered breathlessly to each other.

And I prefer to be surprised. I don't want or need to know which it is going to be. And sometimes it changes mid-fuck.
flavorbuster

Jan 30 @ 9:18AM  
One more thing then I'll shut the fuck up. Which came first , the chicken or the egg ? Who cares a hen & rooster had to fuck to make either one of them.
simply because I cannot bring myself to just fuck someone.
So if you were in love with a guy who didn't love you as much you wouldn't let him just fuck you if he was up front & said he was just horny ?
somnium

Jan 30 @ 9:34AM  
In a word: One girlfriend I was with, liked quickies too! I always equated quickies with just fucking because both were just horny at that moment! But we made love too- which starts much earlier, before actually culminating in the actual act of fucking, which in itself, is usually the end result IMO.

StraddleMyNose

Jan 30 @ 10:05AM  
When I was a little younger I used to use terms more like fuck and screw when it involved sex. Now with some age and maturity, I like the term "making love".

I'm one of those that really can't sleep with someone if I don't love them.
flavorbuster

Jan 30 @ 10:16AM  
I'm one of those that really can't sleep with someone if I don't love them.
Here goes Straddle with another one. People use sleeping with someone as fucking them so they are not making love or sleeping .... They are fucking !!! .....
hog77297

Jan 30 @ 10:18AM  
What the fuck men like it all! Love making, fucking,nasty raunchy sex, or long slow tender loving it all gets a nut and that's what we all want in the end!
StraddleMyNose

Jan 30 @ 10:39AM  
Here goes Straddle with another one. People use sleeping with someone as fucking them so they are not making love or sleeping .... They are fucking !!!
Hey, you give part of yourself to someone whether you call it making love, fucking, or screwing, so why give it to someone you don't love or care anything about? I would rather not have a lifestyle of fucking someone just because I'm horny. That's just too cold, shallow, and empty to me.

Sure, when I was younger, I didn't put a lot of thought into it until I got a little older, and my outlook on life changed. That's how I am anymore.
StraddleMyNose

Jan 30 @ 11:02AM  
Btw, the woman that I share myself with will be getting all my wild, freaky, and kinky side as well.
Luvrgrl

Jan 30 @ 11:39AM  
Well....Kat-I am with you on this one...however....I must admit that in my last "relationship" if you want to call it that....was really just a "booty call" because I set it up that way. I set it up that way because I was not about to let my feelings get involved. So...I guess it's fair to label it "fucking"...although there were certainly several times when I would NOT have called it that.

So I guess it kind of sort of depends on just exactly what the circumstance might be.....but in the context of your question....I think sometimes even in a committed relationship that there is a difference...and that's ok.....and there have been times when we all have "just fucked" someone.....I don't like to call it that either...but....I guess I'm a bit more pragmatic these days.....all in the name of protecting my wounded heart! Hopefully Mr. Right will get here soon...
chocolatemilf

Jan 30 @ 12:00PM  
A fuck is just a fuck....simply put. ...It can be with someone you just want to hook up with, or it can be a lunchbreak sweaty bout of afternoon delight with you s/o.......more grunting and thrusting than anything else..often time constraints exist...... Sometimes it does the trick....
But making love...there is an implication of love there....it's more deliberate and sensual to me.....more caressing and I find that it involves FOREPLAY.....(Very important)...it's also less geared towards the gotta get mine mentality... .....JMHO..
PeachyKeen

Jan 30 @ 2:53PM  
This is an excellent demonstration of the different ways men and women are wired... it's all enjoyable depending upon the person, timing, romantic feelings or lack of them.

Personally, I enjoy long-n-slow lovemaking when the person and timing is right, but I also appreciate nooners or getting off in lots of places when time is limited. Sometimes there's nothing like a quick fuck to make one's day!
PeachyKeen

Jan 30 @ 2:54PM  
oops, forgot... good blog! here's a greenie sliding your way.
Wordsofwit

Jan 30 @ 2:59PM  
Sometimes there's nothing like a quick fuck to make one's day!

Will you quit flirtin' so I can start squirtin'?
RJ53

Jan 30 @ 3:10PM  
It depends on my emotional involvement with the other person. I don't have sex outside of relationships so I guess a good example would be when I first got married to my last husband it was making love but after he turned into a dickhead dictator and the feelings were gone it became just fucking him so he would shut the hell up and go to sleep. I see it as a big difference between the two.
KitKat25

Jan 30 @ 3:30PM  
Great comments peeps!

So it sounds like the general census is...it's "fucking" when it's fast and dirty...but "making love" when it's slow and coupled with foreplay and emotions.

I still think it has nothing to do with the length of time one is doing the horizontal mambo...it's really all about the emotions. Case in point...I've turned down my fair share of guys if I didn't feel "it" when we were at the moment of truth.

That's why I know I'm making love with a guy when I slip between the sheets.

LadyRamRod

Jan 30 @ 4:17PM  
right now neither, KitKat lol
ksk72

Jan 30 @ 4:20PM  
I like variety in the bedroom. Sometimes we fuck, make love, get freaky, have a nooner and whatever else we feel like.
sugarnspice005

Jan 30 @ 6:36PM  
It's fuckin' makin' love if you love to fuck



Excellent point Rev!!
rdsingle

Jan 30 @ 7:30PM  
When you are more interested in what your partner wants and is getting out of sex its making love. When its get what we can while we can its fucking. Both are enjoyable. Not getting either now. Thats what happens when a relationship gpoes bad.
Jumpback

Jan 30 @ 7:53PM  
I call it dreaming.
flavorbuster

Jan 30 @ 9:28PM  
A fuck is just a fuck....simply put.
You wanna
KitKat25

Jan 31 @ 12:16AM  
It's fuckin' makin' love if you love to fuck
Oh hell Doc...now you're just showing off!
KitKat25

Jan 31 @ 7:32PM  
Thanks so much for the greenies...and all the wonderful comments.
visionquest82

Feb 18 @ 10:29PM  
All three have their merits in any relationship and i wouldn't want to miss out on any of them...
DRDAVEU2CREW

Mar 3 @ 2:23AM  
When I was just a Teen, we used to call it gettin' down! I have made a lot of love to my wife of thirty plus years, but I still love to just fuck once in a while! It all depends on my mood, lately more for fucking than luvn I guess cuz I'm not getting much luvn and it makes me so crazy I just gotta fuck soon!
KnightsSearch

May 20 @ 3:41PM  
as a young man I called it bumbing uglies

than it was just down right heat pasion and fucking

now that Im older I finding I like to hold her first speaking softly to her play and than enjoy slow love making and hold her afterwards

but not afraid of a quickie LOL
walkntune

Aug 29 @ 8:09PM  
I think it all falls back into whether you are a giver or a taker.I am old fashion and i would never want bring any disrespect to my girl and would always want the place of making love to be a special place where we share each other in ways the world never sees.There is a part of myself I give to her and to her only! Anything other then this is not real and not a real love.The way the world treats sex is truly disheartening!
catwaka

Jan 24 @ 9:03PM  
Sometimes I make love and sometimes I make fuck...It is all about the feeling you have for each other...just my thoughts...I cant just lay down witha woman anymore for the sake of sex... need feelings..just saying!!
vern69

Jan 24 @ 10:33PM  
I would go with "making love". Fucking just don't sound as nice and inviting.
r_jones52

Jan 27 @ 9:55AM  
Making love is the journey! Fucking is the destination!
DEVILSADJUTANT

Feb 5 @ 10:45AM  
You fuck a whore . You make love to a lady or to the lady that you are in love with . Since I have never fucked a whore and never will I make love to the woman that Iam with .

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