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posted 12/12/2010 7:20:54 PM |
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Six and a half years ago, I got divorced. Since then, with the exception of one Christmas with my family that was a nightmare, and one Thanksgiving with them that was a little fun because I got to introduce the Brit to Thanksgiving, I have spent every holiday, every birthday, alone.

Quite frankly, I'm freaking TIRED of it. Tired of not having friends or family nearby to hang out with. Tired of feeling like I just don't matter. Tired of feeling sorry for myself. I'm just flat out tired.

I'm not looking for pity from anyone else, just explaining why I probably won't be around too much till the holidays are over. Hopefully once they are done, I will be back, with a vengeance, being my usual sarcastic, obnoxious, fairly funny self.

I do wish all Pervians the happiest of holidays seasons, enjoy your family, your festivities and your fun.

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Dec 12 @ 7:26PM  
Hugs for you. I wish there was something I could do for you.

Dec 12 @ 7:30PM  
I may flirt and carry on, but Most of all I can be a good Friend!
I don't "Listen and Tell"!!!

Dec 12 @ 7:57PM  
Hang in there, Chrissy!

Dec 12 @ 8:17PM  
I have spent a lot of holidays on my own through the years. If I did not have friends and family close by I found a charity that could use my help and volunteered on the holidays. It varied from year to year from serving Christmas meals in a soup kitchen to playing Mrs Claus at a children's hospital three years running. It helped get through the holidays on my own.

I am sorry you feel alone on the holidays. I hope things get better for you.

Dec 12 @ 8:35PM  
I know whatcha mean... now add the age of 67 and it gets worse! But... I keep telling myself, I could be some really unlucky person and be even worse off............ so, that helps and trying to add a little humor in my comments and/or blogs seems to help too- essentially trying to boost my own spirits, with my own silliness! Dunno if any of that makes any sense or not but it's my train of thought the past few months.

I could blame it on a lot of things beyond my control in the past but, that's all water under the bridge as they say! What I do from here on, is what matters now!

December 21, is the shortest day of the year and is considered the 1st day of Winter- after that, begins the countdown 'til Spring! Hang in there!


Dec 12 @ 8:40PM  
Hugs. I hope you find some unexpected joy and friendship this winter. And that you can bring some unexpected joy and friendship to others.

Dec 12 @ 9:22PM  
Yes, if at all possible go out and help someone else if the opportunity presents itself. You are a good, funny woman whom others would benefit from being around.

The holidays are tough even for those surrounded by others. They can feel very lonely being in a sea of family and or friends. People here in blogland seem to understand this... it's one reason why we gather around and listen and chat with one another.

I hope you will find a purpose very soon that will bring you the companionship and happiness you deserve... meanwhile it can be found in the smile of a child or where least expected.

I've been so lonely sometimes I go out to a supermarket, park or where ever, smile, engage in small talk and usually end up smiling in return... OR I find someone that's in a real bitchy mood and I walk away knowing I'm NOT that bad off... lol!

Dec 12 @ 11:03PM  
I always tell people in situations like this that things could always be worse...they could have my life! I'll explain a little:

My ex-husband did the following in the time I was married to him:

1. Beat me
2. Cheated on me with who was at the time my best friend...on Thanksgiving!
3. Cheated with at least 5 other women and at least 1 man.
4. Whenever I wasn't in the mood for sex after being beaten (how dare I?), he would force the issue.
5. Called me everything in the book but a white girl.
6. Dragged me and our kids 1500 miles from everyone we knew without any preparation whatsoever.
7. Attempted to kill me while we were there.
8. Had my babies taken from me when I asked him to get a job so we wouldn't be on the streets. He never admitted to it until years later.
9. Caused a stress-induced heart attack when I was only 20 years old.
10. Threw me out on the street barefoot.
11. Moved every time I tried to serve him with divorce papers. I( live in a state that makes you do a diligent search for anyone you try to serve papers to before you can do so by publication. I finally was free on our 10-year wedding anniversary)
12. Violated multiple restraining orders, and no one would do anything about it.

During this time of year, I would gladly trade lives with anyone who didn't have to spend it missing those they gave life to every day of every year...wondering what they look like, how they are doing in school, what their interests are, etc.

Sorry, but it could be worse.

Dec 13 @ 9:35PM  
Ju know I love ju .. and that's all I have to say.


Dec 13 @ 9:36PM  
Ju know I love ju .. and that's all I have to say.


Dec 13 @ 9:37PM  
so much so.. I hadda say it twice.

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