Ok, so I know that this post is going to seem like "whine whine bitch bitch we're not getting any poon", but I'm really looking to get the advice on this situation rather than the "STFU LAZY"
ok, here it is:
I read on a lot of posts/replies that women are looking for a little "connection" & stuff first before they jump into the sack with a guy. Ok, all well and good, We (wife and I) are willing to conform to this idea. However, as a "we", I wonder... (heh), Is this situation where we're looking for some extra poon something to be handled differently? Does a girl really want to "feel something" before hopping in the sack with a married couple? What if she likes what she feels and wants to tear us apart?
What do we do? It seems like we're getting the short end of the stick here (seriously, no pun intended)...
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lazyspoon
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Jan 11 @ 2:43AM
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Oh yes, and I forgot to mention we ARE cracking at these online dating options. Craigslist is a big "no", matchdoctor's an interesting "no" so far [but i seriously see promise down the road here, unlike CL], pay sites are a "no" (we're broke), and meeting chicks in a club or public is a "no".
hmmm 
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NightOfOld
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Jan 11 @ 3:33AM
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If you have a little something in common and can be friends as well as sexual .
It makes things a little better then just jumping in the sac with strangers. Also it can be an on-going friendship with endless possibilities. Wouldn't that be much better ?
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switch83
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Jan 11 @ 3:58AM
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I would not worry about some female trying to tear you two apart but emotional connections can get pretty hairy. I sugest you let your woman do the searching. They are more in tune with the emotional aspects.
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lillin
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Jan 11 @ 7:49AM
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thats exactly why i am not interested in a married couple...too much emotional complication...
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Dawnette
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Jan 12 @ 10:00PM
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Have your woman take out ads on Craigslist, Adult friend finder, swinglifestyle.com
Women's ads get WAY more responses than mens...Trust me.
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